Wdragon333

Ml put a spell on her, he take 90% of her damage on himself so when she jumped that is what was supposed to happend. She didnt save her clan nor ml with her jump. She clarly state that she only did it to take her sister power with her.
And that was stupid because the villan has still his own power and ml is now alone, hurt and (because of her) deserate and too weak to face him.
So because of her jump Ml was greatly hurt, again. And his brother could erase his memory so he could use him. She greatly hurt everyone with only one stupid decision.

She balantly killed herself in human form in the 5th?lifetime, withouth any care, because she knew she would just return to heavenly realm. That arrow in the 3rd?lifetime was really no sacrifice at all. And that is it.

He ONLY kill himself to save her or help her. That make him noble,selfless and brave.
She kill herself meaningless! That make her stupid, weak and coward.
SHE NEVER SAVED HIM OR ANYONELSE WITH HER DEATH!!!!(arrow aside where she only save 1 human form of 1 lifetime and that is it!!!)
This is one single normal standard!

He is doing all her work in her place.
I dont know how can anyone find
this romantic.
I think that it would have been incredibly romantic instead to see the 2 of them working togheter on the same level. Instead of letting the ml do all the work and the sacrifice.
And yes, she is weak and stupid because she killed herself 3 time withouth any reason! WITHOUT ANY REASON!! She DIDNT saved him or anyonelse with those suicide!!!
And by taking the arrow she just saved his human form in 1 lifetime!

The ml is smart and noble because he ONLY kill himself with a purpose!!! That is always only to save the fl!! Always and only for that!!!!
His death are never useless!!
When he is the shifu he sacrifice himself to save the fl human form of that lifetime, and she ruin everything by killing herself!
BUT that time he ALSO heal her fairy primordial spirit by DESTROYING HIS!!!!
He save her 2 time in a row by willingly sacrificing himself!!!Noble and brave!!!!
When he is killed by the arrow in the heavenly real he only did it so he could go unnoticed in MF and again help fl by doing her work in her place!!Smart and selfless!
In the end he is killed only to save fl life, again!! His sacrifice are never useless! Hers are! Everytime there was no reason for her to die! She just did it pointlessly!!!!
That is what make her stupid and ml smart and noble!!!!

I do not undestand how can someone consider usefull or brave! a character that barely do something...so passive.

But you know what? Maybe i understood. The ml is just too perfect. Too smart, too brave, too good, too selfless. He do just too much for the fl. So everything the fl do isnt really much in comparison. I should stop put her on the same level of him otherwise i will never see any worth in her normality.

Ok, let's be clear. She is not brave. At least not in that situation (about the arrow) . Because she knew to have a "real live" after that death.
It is a romance drama so probably she would have taken the arrow for him even if she didnt have another live but she DID NOT! Because in the drama, in this situation, SHE KNEW TO HAVE ANOTHER LIFE to wait for her, hence she is not brave there!!!

About the Shifu/discipline life.
In that life ml knew about theyr "connection". If one willingly sacrifice himself for the other in the human world, the primordial spirit of the one that sacrifice himself is damaged.
Knowing that, he sacrificed himself!
Knowing that, he damaged his primordial spirit to save her!!!
He did not only give his human live to save her, he damaged his "real life" for her!!!
Him! The god of war! That put the safety of the realms before everythingelse and was ready to do everything to regain his strengh, so to protect the realms...he sacrificed his primordial spirit for her!!!
He not only sacrificed his human life as shifu for her, he willingly damaged his primordial spirit!!! His primordial spirit!!!
As you said, he could have just waited to die togheter in the human world, so no sacrifice, no damage for any of them.
But he decided to sacrifice his human life, HIS HUMAN LIFE! so she could live her full life as a human in this lifetime. But she made his sacrifice a waste by killing herself...so weak, cowardly and annoying
Then by doing this he also willingly DAMAGED HIS PRIMORDIAL SPIRIT for her!!!!
This goes far beyond being simply brave or selfless! He is fantastic!

I know that nothing happened, because he took 90% of her damage and pass out after his brother erased his memory. But she didnt know that!! She just left him to battle alone, weak, hurt and in desperation for her loss!
Her suicide was pointless because the power of the twin could have opposed each other on the same level, so the battle would have been on par. So there was no need for her to kill herself!!But she did and started all this mess, this loop. That is why i say that it was a stupid useless suicide!

I like theyr hug there too it was so sweet when they run toward each other. And also well played by the actor.
But i still couldnt enjoy it in full for the annoyance of what just happend.😔
Anyway this happened in the princess /general life while i was
talking about the live where she killed herself from the cliff. She should have lived after he died to save her.
But for what it matter, yes. She should have lived alone as a princess in that live too because the ml tryied to survive as a general with all his strenght so she should have done the same instead of cowardly and comfortably kill herself in that patetic way....

For you is brave that the fl follow the ml that put himself in mortal danger to take HER power back in HER place...
I say that that is really the less she can do to not be desplicable.
It is her power, she should have taken that back herself or at least SHE should have found a way to do that, make a plan, Instead of letting the smart, brave ml do everything.

And for the hairpin? I dont know. They really made it sound so risky to be there, it was so worrisome.
But then, it was just so anticlimatic to see her just hide behind a tree(or a house?) to not be found out by all those guard.🤣
And I also trought that it was so risky to use it because it was 1 use only, so when she took that off she seems to be so brave but then ....she just put it on again to not be seen.....like wtf?!?!?!🤣Very convenient!!
That whole scene seems to be everything but brave!😂

Without the twins power we still have an hurt ml that was forced to fight the villan full power while dealing with the desperation of losing his loved one right before his eyes.
Smart move to leave him alone to fight in that condition....
If instead of jumping she fought togheter with the ml they could have had more chance to win vs the villan.
Because even with the twin power on BOTH SIDE at least the ml would have fought vs the villan with his normal mind and not mentally hurt by her suicide.

I am not saying that she was weak in that particular moment (when she took the arrow). She just was not brave because she knew her "original" life was waiting for her after that. So no problem or real sacrifice in dying.

About the cure on the muntain. That was stupidity, not weakness.
Fls always have good intention but seems to never have the smartness to get what they said to want. She want to help him? Good. But if she die she cant help him, so she should keep herself alive to give him the cure. A normal person would undestand this much. But no, without considering an actual smart way for her to succed, she just blindly jump in to the danger, forcing the ml to save her again. Risking his own life for her, again.
There she wasnt sacrificing herself to save him, 'couse her death wouldnt have bring him anything good.
She just acted like a child that doesnt undestand what she is facing or the consequences of her action.
They want to make her look naive but when naiveness is too much in an adult it just become plain and simple stupidity.

Then beside that, I think that to kill yourself after your partner die to save you is weakness. Yes.
It was tragic to see ml die, that was the best part. There was no need to see her jump after what he did for her. And even after the promise she made to him, but apparently she never need to keep her promises. Theyr couple promises are only meant for the ml to be kept.
I would have prefered to see her live her live like ml did in his previous life. Facing the pain but keeping her promise to him, honoring him by doing something worty her life that was saved by him at the cost of his. That would have been brave. But no...easier to just kill yourself on the spot and never mention you breaking your promises so easly.

I will say a little of both.
I can put it on mute but it is her reaction, expecially on some really tragic moments, that was too strange and simply didnt suits the moments .
She is not bad as i read in the comments, most of the time her acting was pretty normal, but in tragic moments? Her lack of skill there made me distract from the sadness of the scene. 😅

The fl is weak, incredibly weak in every sense of the word.

You talk about willingness to adapt. Where?
When things were starting to change beetween her and the god of war she instead of looking at his action and his change she was still fixated on some old sentences and contiued to repeat them again and again and again to belive in those instead of the change she see before her eyes.

About the things you mentioned:
1. The arrow.
She knew that after dying she would have just returned to the heavenly realm.
Not really that brave.

2. The heart.
She was willing to give her heart to him only AFTER knowing (a LITTLE part of) what
ml did for her.
Not brave at all!! Barely human decency at that point.

3. The hairpin.
For what it was told about it, it looked like it was so risky to take it off. But then...it was just
enough to hide a little, not even far away from all the people that were looking for her and then put it on again....and that was all. Wow...
So simple.

Anyway, those things look to me like just some
normal or even barely human things to do, after EVERYTHING she received.
None of them can be called brave given the situation.

But the peak of her weakness are all her suicide, i mean:
- When ml sacrificed himself to save her she didnt live like she promised to him, she killed
herself.
-In another live she forced the ml to promise
her to return alive and for this he fight until his last breath to keep that promise.
While she confortably killed herself in the sleep (even before knowing that he died), breaking the promise she did to him, again.
Like promises must be kept only by the ml, of course.

But the wrost of all was her 1st suicide, more stupid than weak in truth.

She killed herself right after ml come to her rescue. Instead of fighting togheter she killed
herself right before his eyes.
Leaving him in desperation and with all her responsability to bear.
But expecially leaving him physically hurt from what he did before, and now even emotionally hurt because of her,to fight the villan alone.

Then she wanted to retake the power that SHE left in the void. But too weak and stupid to do anything so the ml did all the work. The plan and the actual work...

Then ml got fl power back and....well nothing.
Fl really didnt trought that if her power is back also that of her sister is back.
That was the reason she killed herself to begin with, i dont know how she could forget that. 😕
Anyway ....she cant fight, here comes the ml that save her, defeat the villan and give his life to save her. Again...

After this i can clearly say that the fl is weak, in every way you want to interpret that.
Weak, dumb and stupid.

Truth is that at this point i am used to weak and dumb stereotipal chinese fl. It doesnt even annoy me so much anymore.
It is enough if the fl do not ignore or mistreat the ml after everything he always do for her, and i am happy with just that.
They were a cute couple when they were just romantically togheter wthout any important situation involved because in those case she just show her uselessness.

When i saw the fl incarnation in MF i couldnt think of her as a tiger. Not in personality nor in look.
When i saw the poster and even more when i saw her in the drama i trought she was a butterfly. Beautifull and weak.
That would have suited her more than a tiger. In look but expecially in personality.
She is so weak and passive, why they continue to make her reincarnate in strong and proud animal that doesnt suits her personality at all...

They are a sweet couple. She need to learn how to act in tragic moments better. But the 2 of them had chemistry.

When i talk about a dream I am not talking about the ml. I too think that he is real, dont know why or how but as i write above,this is a fantasy, everything can happend.
I am just ok with an HP. Xianxia really need more HP.
The dream i am talking about is when she is looking at the star in heavenly realm and litterally say she had a dream and then we see the life where she was shot by an arrow but things of that moment go a little different, a sword instead of a dagger, it look like he got pierced by the arrow but survived and then he say "trust me". Those things never happened in that life and i really do not undestand what was THAT about...they also put it in the last episode like it was important but i really didnt get it 😕

Really? I didn't notice it. But what does it matter? It was a test, they collect info on everything, included interation with other character that may or may not be real player.
That he was real was my through from the start, when she was forced to save him. Then the drama devellop and there was just too much story for the ml that, even if they wanted to create an interesting supporting character, was just too indipendent and different in tone from the fl story to be just a plus or side/secret quest for her. More like a party quest but since it was still a test and the chief was playing it there was no info windows for her.
It made just more sense to me that the ml story was just another parallel main story for another real player that love the action side of the game.

Really? I didn't notice it. But what does it matter? It was a test, they collect info on everything, included interation with other character that may or may not be real player.
That he was real was my through from the start, when she was forced to save him. Then the drama devellop and there was just too much story for the ml that, even if they wanted to create an interesting supporting character, was just too indipendent and different in tone from the fl story to be just a plus or side/secret quest for her. More like a party quest but since it was still a test and the chief was playing it there was no info windows for her.
It made just more sense to me that the ml story was just another parallel main story for another real player that love the action side of the game.

The colorfull atmosphere of the heaven realm is the most beautifull i have ever seen in a xianxia.
It is so full of color,they are so bright and vivid but they are so armonious. Beautifull!
I rewach some scene just to see those ethereal and heavenly color and atmosphere !

About the ending...i wouldnt have disliked some more explanation. And i am not talking about the last minutes, it is a xianxia, a fantasy, everything can happend. And better this end than the other way around.
I am talking about the fl dream in the last episode. No really what was that? An alternate version of one of her past life? What does that means?
And why put that here, now in the last episode??? What sense does it make?....mah...