KimchiByTheSea

Ahhh I had so many mixed feelings about if that kiss was going to happen or not but I'm kind of glad it didn't. Didn't feel like the right time or mind frame. I can't wait for the next episode, I need to know what happens 🥺😭

I think In's self inflicted solace was more of him constantly blaming himself for what happened and a fear of being hurt again. That's why he never intended to go across the bridge to visit the villagers. He's afraid of being attached but that doesn't necessarily mean he's happy.

That being said, the mother can definitely f off lol.

I’m not sure I agree with you but I think that’s just different perspectives. To me it seems like, though she loves her son, she doesn’t realize what he actually needs. When they’re great they’re great, but he mentions that they fight almost if not every day. He also mentions to In in regards to the “special surprise” that it’s not that special and doesn’t act surprised when the events unfold during what’s supposed to be his moment, insinuating that it probably wasn’t the first time she’d done that.

She’s also used to pushing off the blame and guilt as shown by the scene with In where she repeats all the things she said to get what she wanted, but he’s the one who accommodated her every time so the consequences are his fault and so is her pain. To me is seems like she has a comfy life and the things in it are just an accessory—including her son. She’s affection starved and she wants only the good things, but gets upset when that’s challenged.

Perhaps it’s because her character hit too close too home, but I can’t brush off her narcissistic tendencies as something other than uncomfy and unhealthy. They appear to cause real harm around her while she remains mostly untouched.

This is of course merely my opinion as I tend to over analyze characters 😂

The intensity of their discussions and chemistry coupled with the sweet, calm glimpses we get of the in between moments is such a beautiful mix. I find myself completely drawn in by their acting and interactions (even when it's just them talking in a room with nothing else going on). There's just something so entrancing about discovering them together with each other and watching both grow closer.

The mother is so unsettling to watch, I have to skip past her half the time. She really gives off "my life is 'hard' but it's everyone else's fault and not mine" which is incredibly discomforting seeing the story unfold. Her dialogue with In about how he gave her everything she wanted growing up especially made me want shake her

She gets there, she's just a confused flower but her character development makes up for it

If I remember correctly, he didn't know his brother had forged the sword whole again and he also ordered his brother to destroy it so he probably didn't realize that was a threat to her any longer

Two episodes is too early to understand what's really going on (especially with xianxia dramas) but if you're already not interested then it might not be your cup of tea.

I do wish we had gotten to see this part after everything they put us through lol, but loved it nonetheless

Give her time. She's not perfect by any means but she just needs a healthy dose of tlc

Due to the political climate and the societal/familial pressures of the time, both would have parted and become permanently distant. There really wouldn't have been any out for them. Plus, with both going against their values...for some people that is worse than death. It's incredibly sad and heartbreaking, but still goes to show that sometimes the heart is more important than the body TT

When The Weather is Fine is a really good one. Leaves you feeling warm

Maybe it's just me but the inevitability of her breaking up with the boyfriends is making me not want to finish it. Which is such a shame because I'm actually enjoying it for the most part

I also think the point of asking the defendant to leave because it could put pressure on the daughter testifying is interesting. In the end it was the mother who made sure she couldn't speak the truth to the court and others who took her power to explain away from her. Just goes to show the public perception isn't everything which is truly heartbreaking for some.

I was smiling AND tearing up and the same time, it was so precious

It made me so frustrated, but also went to show that the mother subjected her daughter to the same controlling nature she was accusing someone else of doing. So sad, I wanted to give them both hugs.

Shhh take that negative joo joo away from here, I need them married and both happy 🥰

I had to skip through it, I just couldn't do it 😂

He doesn't see her struggle. He only feels his and his prejudice is too big to look past. He's a terrible person but also a sad reality of what many autistic people face with this kind of thing and accomplishments.

I'm hoping he at least caught her so she didn't and that's why she looked so happy 😂