No he didn't. He thought was a formula that fake death but it has an antidote. ShuHe lied to him
I don't see that Shu He lied to him for the hundreth time? After intially decieving each other, the way I see it Shu He only ever lied to him once, and that was about the poision being real poison instead of death feigning poison. For Shu He's first escape attempt he didn't lie, he just didn't tell Zi Ang "Hey, while we're at the Lantern Festival, I want to finally get my freedom back and run away." -- So if you want to count that, it might be a lie by omisson. Up for debate. ;) Other than that Shu He was always truthful to Zi Ang.
And if we're on the topic of lies, let's not forget that Zi Ang lied to him when he told him that he was the son of a salt merchant and never exiled. And in the approximately three months that the two had been a couple, Zi Ang had not managed to address and clear up this lie between them. It was only when Zi Ang learned that he was the Jibei emperor's illegitimate son that he wanted to tell Shu He the truth, but they were interrupted.
It felt like someone had thrown a raw, bloody piece of meat into my lap, then stared at me as if to ask: Now what are you going to do with it?
I want to share some thoughts on the first scene and how things evolved in the second episode.
Kataoka claims he has never forced himself on anyone. Odajima responds, "So the fact that I was unwilling doesn't count?" Kataoka insists he wouldn't have gone through with it if Odajima had truly objected. In other words, he took Odajima's silence as consent. But silence is often misinterpreted. It's not consent, and it's not refusal. It's ambiguous.
What I appreciate about this drama is that it doesn't hand the viewer a moral conclusion. Like I said with the meat analogy, it leaves you to grapple with it yourself.
Odajima says he wasn't into it – yet he stayed aloof and let Kataoka finish. So why didn't Odajima resist? Even if he'd just woken up, he could've fought back.
To me, several factors are at play:
1. Odajima wants to understand Kataoka, as he says repeatedly. Therfore he also wants to get to know all facets of him, good or bad. 2. There's a clear power imbalance, since Kataoka is higher in the yakuza hierarchy. 3. Maybe fear was at play? Because even if Odajima is strong, Kataoka is no weakling. 4. And finally, Odajima's past – the violence and trauma he's endured has shaped how he responds to situations like this.
Don't get me wrong – Odajima was the victim, and Kataoka was the perpetrator. That's not up for debate.
Question for people who watch bromance: I've never watched it but I heard it's good. How do you go back to watching…
After watching Kill to Love bromance feels like going back into a lukewarm bath from a piping hot onsen. It's not impossible, but would certainly take time to readjust.
Then again, I personally don't want to go backwards. The depiciton of real love and intimacy just hits different from something that is just implied.
Therefore I wish that fans continue to share the love for this drama, so that producers know that this is what we want, and will keep searching for ways and loopwholes to avoid censorship and provide us with similar amazing storylines and chemistry.
"What am I to you, the ruler of a fallen kingdom, or your male pet?"我算什麽？亡國舊主，還是你的男寵。Let's…
If you’re interested in more, I enjoyed this video on the subject of male concubines in Ancient China— especially about emperor Ai (last part of the video) https://youtu.be/WMCl-4SKjbs
"What am I to you, the ruler of a fallen kingdom, or your male pet?" 我算什麽？亡國舊主，還是你的男寵。
Let's go on some deep-dives :) The word Shu He uses, "男寵" (nán chǒng), isn't just "male pet". And while I think the translation of "pet" is how it should be understood, it literally means male concubine – like the emperor's favorite. Historically, male concubines existed, but they always lived under the emperor's control. So when Shu He says this, it's not just calling Zi Ang out – it's him laying bare exactly what's wrong between them.
Shu He's question cuts deep because it's both personal and political:
Am I the ruler you defeated – or the lover you've reduced to a trophy? Do you love me, or do you just want to own me?
By calling himself "亡國舊主" (the ruler of a fallen kingdom`), he's reminding Zi Ang who he was – a man with power, duty and pride. By pairing it with "男寵", he expresses the tragedy of what their love has become: affection twisted into possesion.
And the saddest part? Zi Ang doesn't even get it. It seems he doesn't see what's wrong with keeping Shu He by his side "in the name of love".
I also saw someone comment that the story felt "unrealistic" because "Who would really risk starting a war for a same-gender lover?" – but to me, that misses the point completely. Male favourites existed in history, and emperors did make disastrous decisions over love. But what makes Kill to Love so fascinating is that it strips away the usual gender dynamics and asks:
What happens when love itself becomes an act of conquest?
I'd love to hear what others thing – do you also feel the choice "男寵" was intentional? Or do you see it more of a general metaphor for being powerless in love?
Makes me happy you read the post. It’s just a collection of oddsare‘s comments, however I do plan to keep adding to that - because I feel like there is still so much more to discover and discuss. 🥰
I know, right? I want people to watch it so bad! they worked so hard. went through so much while making this series.…
They also had really unfortunate timing—RL hype was still going strong, and ABO Desire launched around the same time. Khemjira and Shine were airing too. On top of that, they dropped all the episodes in quick succession (maybe out of fear of censorship?). While I did enjoy binge-watching it, I think the series could have gained more attention with a weekly release schedule. Still, I hope it finds a wider audience over time.
Not attractive enough? - I cannot believe Xu and Jin have been bullied in China for not being attractive enough.…
This is so sad. Mi Jin has this regal aura as Xiao Shu He - from the very first scene I felt like he was from a royal family. 👑 They definitely cast the right person! Plus his chemistry with ZheXu is out of this world.
After intially decieving each other, the way I see it Shu He only ever lied to him once, and that was about the poision being real poison instead of death feigning poison.
For Shu He's first escape attempt he didn't lie, he just didn't tell Zi Ang "Hey, while we're at the Lantern Festival, I want to finally get my freedom back and run away." -- So if you want to count that, it might be a lie by omisson. Up for debate. ;) Other than that Shu He was always truthful to Zi Ang.
And if we're on the topic of lies, let's not forget that Zi Ang lied to him when he told him that he was the son of a salt merchant and never exiled. And in the approximately three months that the two had been a couple, Zi Ang had not managed to address and clear up this lie between them. It was only when Zi Ang learned that he was the Jibei emperor's illegitimate son that he wanted to tell Shu He the truth, but they were interrupted.
It felt like someone had thrown a raw, bloody piece of meat into my lap, then stared at me as if to ask: Now what are you going to do with it?
I want to share some thoughts on the first scene and how things evolved in the second episode.
Kataoka claims he has never forced himself on anyone. Odajima responds, "So the fact that I was unwilling doesn't count?" Kataoka insists he wouldn't have gone through with it if Odajima had truly objected. In other words, he took Odajima's silence as consent. But silence is often misinterpreted. It's not consent, and it's not refusal. It's ambiguous.
What I appreciate about this drama is that it doesn't hand the viewer a moral conclusion. Like I said with the meat analogy, it leaves you to grapple with it yourself.
Odajima says he wasn't into it – yet he stayed aloof and let Kataoka finish.
So why didn't Odajima resist? Even if he'd just woken up, he could've fought back.
To me, several factors are at play:
1. Odajima wants to understand Kataoka, as he says repeatedly. Therfore he also wants to get to know all facets of him, good or bad.
2. There's a clear power imbalance, since Kataoka is higher in the yakuza hierarchy.
3. Maybe fear was at play? Because even if Odajima is strong, Kataoka is no weakling.
4. And finally, Odajima's past – the violence and trauma he's endured has shaped how he responds to situations like this.
Don't get me wrong – Odajima was the victim, and Kataoka was the perpetrator. That's not up for debate.
Then again, I personally don't want to go backwards.
The depiciton of real love and intimacy just hits different from something that is just implied.
Therefore I wish that fans continue to share the love for this drama, so that producers know that this is what we want, and will keep searching for ways and loopwholes to avoid censorship and provide us with similar amazing storylines and chemistry.
https://youtu.be/WMCl-4SKjbs
我算什麽？亡國舊主，還是你的男寵。
Let's go on some deep-dives :)
The word Shu He uses, "男寵" (nán chǒng), isn't just "male pet". And while I think the translation of "pet" is how it should be understood, it literally means male concubine – like the emperor's favorite.
Historically, male concubines existed, but they always lived under the emperor's control. So when Shu He says this, it's not just calling Zi Ang out – it's him laying bare exactly what's wrong between them.
Shu He's question cuts deep because it's both personal and political:
Am I the ruler you defeated – or the lover you've reduced to a trophy?
Do you love me, or do you just want to own me?
By calling himself "亡國舊主" (the ruler of a fallen kingdom`), he's reminding Zi Ang who he was – a man with power, duty and pride. By pairing it with "男寵", he expresses the tragedy of what their love has become: affection twisted into possesion.
And the saddest part? Zi Ang doesn't even get it. It seems he doesn't see what's wrong with keeping Shu He by his side "in the name of love".
I also saw someone comment that the story felt "unrealistic" because "Who would really risk starting a war for a same-gender lover?" – but to me, that misses the point completely. Male favourites existed in history, and emperors did make disastrous decisions over love. But what makes Kill to Love so fascinating is that it strips away the usual gender dynamics and asks:
What happens when love itself becomes an act of conquest?
I'd love to hear what others thing – do you also feel the choice "男寵" was intentional? Or do you see it more of a general metaphor for being powerless in love?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dnRTLkzZqxU
I really want them to be successful, but I also want them to be safe.
Novel Link https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Ws9fpopqaDl1atrqLbJPkdk2Nsqb3Lom/view?usp=drivesdk
I’m only on ch 9 though