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Replying to YanYan Aug 18, 2022
Today's data breach trial was by far one of my favorites. I wished Jun Ho would have gone and held WYW for comfort…
> I wished Jun Ho would have gone and held WYW for comfort during the poison scene.

Yeah. For a non-autistic, he is too literal with how he's handling their break-up.

It shows that he still doesn't understand her fully, and he's struggling with it. Which is good because he can use this experience to decide for himself if pursuing a relationship with an autistic woman is something he can truly live for the rest of his life … assuming of course his goal is marriage.

More often than not, a break up is needed to force us to see things objectively. When we are in love, autistic or non-autistic, we often get swept up by the little things. Emotions, kindness, the person's presence, and so on, that we fail to see the other important things. Unfortunately, when couples get married, that's when those things start to show up and well … if they can't face it properly, the marriage gets broken even if they don't get a divorce.
Replying to tsnss Aug 17, 2022
Can you recommend me any daily drama with cute romance like this? I've seen once again, Father is strange,
Hmm, like this one with cute romance, not much on my plate unfortunately.

Though I can recommend these:
- "You're the Best" can qualify as a family drama
- "Our Blues" (life drama)
- "Be My Dream Family", a family drama
- "First Love Again" (C-drama, experiencing your first love again)
- "While You Were Sleeping"
Replying to earthmixxitup Aug 17, 2022
the scene with youngwoo and junho was done very well. i could somehow relate to and empathize with what youngwoo…
Preach it!
Replying to Raizo Aug 17, 2022
Could S2 be a fake news? I mean, I heard Kang Tae Oh was supposed to join the military forces and afaik military…
Target premier is 2024, probably late 2024 to give time for filming his scenes right after he's discharged.

There is also the possibility he'll be discharged earlier.

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Replying to Bex Aug 17, 2022
Random question: What exactly is Jun-ho’s job title? I know he’s not an attorney, but I don’t exactly understand…
Mr. Smiling Guy; or Mr. Handsome. ^_^
Replying to IM YourOnlyOne Aug 17, 2022
I'm sorry that we autistics are frustrating. Trust me, people who think they are "normal" are equally frustrating…
I'm not being "defensive and aggressive", it just is the truth. I'm simply giving you the perspective on our side.

Surely, since you gave your perspective we can also give ours, right? Or, is it one way?

^_^

PS
If I was being "defensive and aggressive" as you said I am, then I wouldn't have ended it with this emoticon: ^_^

I just meant it as it is, literally. No need to read between the lines or add an emotion or two. It just is. If that's how it appeared to you, then I apologise, I am sorry. That was not what I meant nor my intention.
Replying to ashkan Aug 17, 2022
Why did the romance ruin the drama for you? I think being able to have a proper romantic relationship is a sign…
Preach it!
Replying to nosnoop Aug 17, 2022
Sad, but I may give up comments section in MDL altogether.There is an increasing disconnect between real world…
Yep. It's the same in other previous shows. But when you look at other communities, people understand just fine.

Also there's a growing number of recently created accounts, or accounts created before but were not used, that started to leave nasty comments here in EAW and other shows.

And yet, MDL is doing nothing at all. They won't even take action if you report these accounts.

They also have a limit on the number of accounts you can block. Like seriously. They want to expose you to these accounts.
Replying to ashkan Aug 17, 2022
When he told her that "I'm not acting like grown ups, I'm a grown up." I wanted to punch his face. Why would a…
Haha yep. I heard it before in real life.

Same reaction as you, I wanted to punch that person's face. =))
Replying to ohhe-buk Aug 17, 2022
I don't think that's a fair comment to make. Lots of people feel like it serves as a good representation. Keeping…
Exactly.
Replying to nosnoop Aug 17, 2022
That is not true at all.There are many autistic people who support this drama and like the representation.No matter…
Correct.
Replying to nosnoop Aug 17, 2022
Another big weekly numbers just released from Netflix (Aug 8 to Aug 14).#1 Non English 69.3 million hours (3x…
Just keep sharing statistics.

I enjoy seeing statistics but I don't have time to search for it. You posting these information is a godsend. Thank you very much.
Replying to Aramintai Aug 17, 2022
No, looks like his character is just there to love FL and perfectly suited to care for her. He's not given any…
Haha yep. He's just a tool. Or maybe, a generic representation of the "support system" (and volunteers).
Replying to Xhail Quijano Aug 16, 2022
autistic people can also find love but in scenes like this it seems that they want to show that they don't😭
No. As an #ActuallyAutistic the scenes showed we are capable of handling relationships and analyze things far better than "people who think they are normal".

Young Woo did not break up just because. It was done after analyzing and taking everything into consideration. She arrived at that decision because (1) she's autistic; and (2) she's a woman.
Replying to Xhail Quijano Aug 16, 2022
Something annoying was when they broke up and YoungWoo started talking about work as if nothing had happened
> Something annoying was when they broke up and YoungWoo started talking about work as if nothing had happened

That is who we are. You just do not see it because many of us have learned to mask. To pretend to act like "people who think they are normal".

You have no idea how many "people who think they are normal" told me this and that because this and that. Do you know what happened? I just started masking more. I just started to hide myself more.

It is very draining. It is very tiring.

But the discrimination, prejudice, stigma, is beyond this planet that we are forced to mask ourselves.