In the scene where Kang Ju tells Duan Wu that she and Yan Zijing are alike..she agrees and says that both of them live with hate and are consumed by revenge...he then replies to her and says he does but you don't...it’s a powerful moment that highlights their contrasting motivations.. While both characters have faced immense hardship and harbor feelings of hatred, their responses to that hatred differ significantly. Yan Zijing is consumed by his desire for vengeance, believing that he can only find peace by making those who wronged him pay. In contrast, Duan Wu, despite her own hatred, seeks a way out of her painful past and yearns for a peaceful life. She reflects on how, had her father been alive, she would have built a life filled with love and freedom, indicating her willingness to set aside her hatred for a chance at happiness.
This distinction is crucial; Duan Wu's journey is about healing and seeking a better future, while Yan Zijing's path is rooted in revenge. Yet, what’s compelling is that Duan Wu is willing to support Yan Zijing in settling his grudges because she understands the depth of his pain. In doing so, she not only helps him confront his past but also starts to awaken his capacity for love, suggesting that even in the darkest circumstances, there is a possibility for redemption and connection.
Iam supposed to like kind of hate cui Shi Jiu but I low-key feel bad for her..like she's turning into this horrible person because she's yearning to be recognised..and not just seen as a girl..she wants to leave a mark but is always facing criticism because of her gender....I would love to see how her character is developed in the coming episodes for now rather than annoying she's pitiful
When he said.." she wants to do things on her own and thats why I want to help her because many people out their are living miserable lives but they can't even lift a finger to get themselves out of those lives..but she's working hard for it..." the moment I heard these words...I got won over...it's beautiful to see that he understands her situation and also sees her trying..and acknowledges it.....and is more than willing to help..I had my issues with him in the beginning but he's actually turning out to be a favourite....
plus I love when leads in a drama are placed on equal footing without one out shining the other...we have a smart, tough, quick witted and principled male lead and a smart, strong willed and brave female lead... together they are a powerful duo so I appreciate how both of their strengths as well as weaknesses are highlighted...this was a major reason why I loved rise of Ning and it's a reason Iam loving this as well...can't wait for more episodes
after his bad role in "bad memory eraser" (one of the worst kdrama i ever seen) i am a little unhappy with the…
i have a bad history with him..he's a good actor but I haven't liked his character in both golden spoon and bad memory eraser...but I'll give him a chance this time and see
end of ep 9. idk if its a me problem, but zjr preaching irritates me. i can't pinpoint the right word to describe…
he's living in a bubble wrap and viewing the world in rose coloured glasses...he needs a wake up call and I hope their is a point in the series where he gets one....
I really appreciate how the differences between Duan Wu and Zhang Jingran are highlighted. Zhang Jingran definitely needs a wake-up call; the world isn't just black and white. Being nice only gets him so far, especially since he has the power to make real changes. His sense of righteousness isn't inherently bad, but he really needs to understand that there are gray areas in life. Some people have to set their morals aside just to survive—not because they want to, but because it's their only option.
Duan Wu provides a crucial perspective for him. She doesn’t have the luxury to just sit back and be nice, hoping the world will reciprocate. Having experienced all kinds of bad people, she’s focused on survival while trying to maintain her humanity. She’s flawed, and that makes her relatable. If Zhang Jingran truly wants to help, he needs to grasp this reality and understand her struggles.
Duan Wu is a child to me at this point..she does something praise worthy I pause to applaud her...she smiles..I smile with her....her character is precious to me.
These days romcoms either hit or miss so I can't wait for what this is going to do....and Iam glad it's 12 EPISODES..better 13 than 16 that might drag...can't wait
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This distinction is crucial; Duan Wu's journey is about healing and seeking a better future, while Yan Zijing's path is rooted in revenge. Yet, what’s compelling is that Duan Wu is willing to support Yan Zijing in settling his grudges because she understands the depth of his pain. In doing so, she not only helps him confront his past but also starts to awaken his capacity for love, suggesting that even in the darkest circumstances, there is a possibility for redemption and connection.
plus I love when leads in a drama are placed on equal footing without one out shining the other...we have a smart, tough, quick witted and principled male lead and a smart, strong willed and brave female lead... together they are a powerful duo so I appreciate how both of their strengths as well as weaknesses are highlighted...this was a major reason why I loved rise of Ning and it's a reason Iam loving this as well...can't wait for more episodes
Duan Wu provides a crucial perspective for him. She doesn’t have the luxury to just sit back and be nice, hoping the world will reciprocate. Having experienced all kinds of bad people, she’s focused on survival while trying to maintain her humanity. She’s flawed, and that makes her relatable. If Zhang Jingran truly wants to help, he needs to grasp this reality and understand her struggles.