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I'm sorry but i am having trouble with the fact you saying she was acting like a child, did she handle it badly yes but look at what she had been through that day. In the Chinese version she was attacked by the guy at the rental agency, and in this version it was worse. She was sick, failed her job interview and sexually harassed by her art mentor all in the same day so i'm sure her head was a mess and she couldn't think straight. And then going to the hospital to find out that he might be leaving, and she asked him was she a factor in the decision and looked at him waiting for him to say yes she was but he didn't say it so it sent her over the edge. Could she have handled the situation better yes absolutely, was she immature about it yes, but given what she had been through that day it is understandable for her to be irrational at that moment, so i can totally understand her behavior at that moment and that is why i defend her about that. I do think that after she had calmed down and the situation had settled she should have talked to him and tried to work it out absolutely i do agree that she is wrong and immature for not doing that. And i also agree that she is wrong for the way she acts after he comes back, i mean it has been 3 years she needs to stop being stubborn and talk to him and try to resolve things for sure. And i love the fact that he tries so hard to try to work things out it shows how much he cares even if he doesn't say it. But it really rubs me wrong for people to say she is acting like a child or she is annoying for her behavior that day i just have one question would any woman who was sexually harassed or assaulted act rationally, because i really don't think so. Sexual harassment and assault is serious and to make light of it is wrong. Even if it is just a show it is something her character experienced so people should try to understand that and understand her behavior because of it and not put her down. But as far as her not being able to handle his long hours you were right if she couldn't handle it she should have broke up, but then again if he knew he had no time for a relationship he shouldn't have been in one in the first place it can be viewed either way. I think they both had good and bad points he wasn't open about his feelings which made her insecure, and she does act immature and childish a lot. And on that night they broke up he could have handled it better too maybe if he had said yes when she asked if she was a factor in the decision maybe things would have turned out differently, then again maybe not. And again she did handle the whole situation badly, but given what she had been through that day it is understandable and people should cut her some slack.

Yes he did try and i think it's great that he did that and i agree she shouldn't have been so stubborn and should have let him explain because he actually wasn't planning to go at all, he says it in the chinese version he decided to go after she broke up with him. But like you said him leaving before they resolved it only strained the relationship more. They both could have handled it better than they did and i admit she handled it badly, but i can understand her insecurities considering he had never actually told her how he felt about her and she thought that he didn't even really like her, when you have insecurities sometimes it can make you act crazy and not handle things properly, so in that aspect i understand her. But she should have stepped back and calmed down and then tried to talk it out with him for sure. I can't wait to see how he wins her over in this version.

Yes the day he found out about the us he texted her and told her he wanted to see her the next day maybe it was to tell her, but she showed up at the hospital first and overheard it, and because of her insecurities that she was feeling she just was so upset thinking that he didn't care. Not saying that the way she handled it was right because she should have let him explain for sure, i'm just saying with her insecurities i can understand her feeling the way she did, if she had been more certain about his feelings maybe she wouldn't have felt that way and wouldn't have questioned if she was a factor in his decision. But she really could have handled it better for sure, they both could have. I still love it though also, love both of them hate that they had such a misunderstanding and problem just because of lack of communication. Can't wait to see him win her back though.

Actually it said in the c-drama that he came back in 3 years he was supposed to be gone for 4 but came back in 3 because i went back and watched it. But yes i agree that they both were stubborn for sure and should have communicated better with each other and she should have let him explain for sure but also if he had ever really opened up about his feelings then maybe she would have understood better and wouldn't have felt the way she felt because she felt like he didn't really like her and never did. And yes he came back after a few days and saw her with the 2ML but just turned right around and went back without trying to figure out exactly what was going on he just assumed that she had moved with him i guess. Maybe he should have tried to talk to her then it had been a few days maybe she would have talked to him then and let him explain at least i feel like she would have because even though she told him she wouldn't go to him at the airport before he left she did she just got there too late . Not saying that how she acted and handled it was right cause it for sure wasn't, they both were wrong in certain ways like you said.

That's true but he didn't leave for the US till a month after that i feel like during that month he could have tried to talk to her and explain and work things out, but as far as we know he didn't he only called her the morning he was leaving. And as far as him coming back after leaving they told that part in the Chinese version on episode 21, they had episode 21 of this version today and he didn't tell that in fact they didn't have the discussion at all about what happened to either of them that day which i hate that part was left out of this version. And even if she did over hear it and he was going to tell her, she was already upset and struggling anyways because of them not having time together, that's why when she broke up she said she couldn't take it anymore, and he never expressed his feelings either so that weighed on her too. Maybe he was going to tell her because i remember the day he found out he texted her and told her he would drop by the next day maybe he was planning to tell her then but she showed up at the hospital first, but whether he was considering her or not doesn't matter at this point because he left and was gone for 3 years with no contact then comes back and expects things not to have changed that is unrealistic it has been 3 years and to say that he never thought they broke up, but if he really felt they were still together why not contact her for 3 years doesn't make sense. What boyfriend is not going to contact his girlfriend for 3 years.

Does the grandma ever even find out the truth so she can stop hating Lou Yan? Cause i watched all the way through episode 24 but the last several episodes weren't subbed so i couldn't understand what they were saying, but i saw where Sheng Ze told Fang Li and where her and Lou Yan made up. But in the episodes after that it never showed the grandma again so i don't think she ever finds out the truth and i guess Fang Li is just gonna hide her relationship from her grandma again. I really hope not that will just make her grandma that much more angry.

I don't think anywhere has them subbed yet, at least not that i've seen cause i have been checking too. May have to wait a while till they are subbed.

Ok Thank You!!

Yes!!! Well said, that is so true.

It's only on Hulu Japan

Do you know when the special episode will be? Or what it will be about?

Shu Yi is half Taiwanese and half Japanese they told that in the first episode that's why sometimes he speaks in Japanese.

If you haven't seen the Chinese version that's why you don't understand, it explains it all in the Chinese version. The Chinese version is 45 minutes long where as this one is only 20 to 22 minutes long so bits of storylines got cut out. She had been chasing him since high school and even though he liked her in high school he never said it and never let it show really, and even after they were together he never actually came out and said that he liked her or expressed his feelings to her at all, so she always felt kinda insecure wondering if he really did like her at all. In the Chinese version after she finds out about he might be leaving and didn't tell her she even cries to her friend that all along he never really liked her or cared about her, and she felt that way because he never opened up and told her his feelings even till now after they were together for 6 years he still didn't ever tell her his feelings. So she still feels like she isn't important and he doesn't like her or care about her that's why she is resisting getting back together because she doesn't want to go back to a relationship that she feels has always been one sided because he has never expressed his feelings if he would express them it would solve all of that. I watched the Chinese version first so when i watched this version i knew exactly what was going on.

Yes!!! so much was cut out of the Korean version so it's hard to fully understand everything.

I think she is mad because before they broke up he never really had time for her because of his job, they hardly saw each other or spoke to each other on the phone, and when they did get to it was just for a few minutes and then he had to rush back to work. And this went on for years throughout their college life, because he was going to college and working at the hospital as an intern. And she dealt with that for years because she loved him even though she missed him and just wanted to spend time with him. And then he didn't tell her that he might be going to the us she found out from some nurses at the hospital, and when she confronted him about it he said he hadn't decided yet as if she wasn't a factor at all in the decision, even though at that point they had been together for 6 years and the decision was going to affect her as well. Because the only options would have been either him go and her stay there and they have a long distance relationship which wouldn't have worked because they already didn't have time together being in the same country and it was hard on her. Or the other option would have been for her to give up everything her family and friends and go with him. And either way he needed to discuss it with her because it would affect her too if they stayed together, however he did not discuss it with her he just assumed that she would just go with him because in the past she had always followed him everywhere. She felt hurt because he didn't talk to her about it and wanted to make a decision that would affect her life as well on his own. I understand it was for his career but he shouldn't have just assumed that she would just give up everything and go with him that wasn't fair, he should have talked to her about it and let her make her own decision. By him not discussing it with her and wanting to make the decision on his own she felt like he didn't really care about her. And then he didn't fight for their relationship, he called her the day he left and asked her would she come see him and that was it then he just left for 3 years with no contact with anyone at all he didn't even call his friends for 3 years he cut off contact with everyone. Then just shows back up and thinks she is just automatically supposed to take him back without even having a conversation and talking everything out without apologizing for not being honest with her about going to the US and for not considering her feelings in that decision making process. It's not that hard really to understand why she is mad, considering all of that wouldn't anyone be upset?? I know i certainly would. If you are in a relationship with someone especially a long term relationship like that you just can't make huge decisions like that on your own and you can't just make assumptions about what your partner wants you have to talk it out and make decisions together if you want the relationship to work. If he had been open and honest with her and talked to her about it maybe she would have decided on her own to go with him or to have a long distance relationship, and maybe they wouldn't have been apart and broken up for 3 years. But because he didn't include her in the decisions or even ask her opinion or feelings about it she felt like he didn't care about her or her feelings like she wasn't important to him, and then him cutting off contact for 3 years, would of course make her feel even more like he didn't care and she wasn't important. And of course she feels like she isn't important because even though they had been together for 6 years he had never actually told her he loved or or even that he liked her in six years he never said it maybe he just assumed that she knew and didn't need to hear it, but she had told him several times throughout the years her feelings for him. But he never really opened up about his feelings and made them clear. He told other people his feelings about her but never her. And i can understand her better than him honestly i mean if he really cares about her or loves her or whatever why would he go away for threes years and never call or text her not have any contact at all like he had given up, then boom all of a sudden he's back and wants her back umm no he's gonna have to work harder than that.

Oh ok thanks, i won't be able to watch it then and that sucks, was looking forward to it but oh well.

Ok thank you so much!!

Thanks again for the info i have just registered on vimeo so i am all set once the link is released!!!

Yes!! I think the drama was cute other than too short and the time skips, with the short episodes and the time skips so fast didn't really get to see them being in a relationship for long and if it goes exactly like the C-version they won't get back together till the 23rd episode so won't get to see them be together much then either.

Ok thanks for letting me know i will register and purchase it then don't want to miss the wedding i'm sure it's going to be amazing!! And i can imagine with that much traffic on one site at the same time it would cause some issues, if it occurs i won't panic lol i will wait, even if i have to wait till the next day it will be fine i will just be happy to get to see and enjoy their wedding. Thanks so much for the info.