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You're welcome!!! And yes as Drama Lover said below he didn't apply for transfer his superior transferred him because his captain had just died. But at the same time Gu Xiao reappeared in his life and he got the opportunity to start again with her. So it all worked out well.

Episode 30 was all flashback scenes from his point of view. Him writing that letter was a flashback from either episode 3 or 4 when Gu Xiao and her friend were in Qining where he was stationed and had dinner with him and his friends/colleagues. In the letter he says that he was still in the restaurant and that she had just driven away an hour ago. So his transfer happened early. He had moved back to Beijing around episode 5 or 6. Gu Xiao had taken Qin Xiao Nan back with her during winter break to get him enrolled in school and it said she kept him for a month until Lu Chen moved back and then she took the boy to stay with him. After Lu Chen and Gu Xiao got back together him and Qin Xiao Nan moved in with her. Lu Chen would go on missions but in between missions would come back to Beijing and live with Gu Xiao. I hope this helps.

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It hasn't been released yet. Only one episode gets released per week. The last episode won't be available until next week.

There is one thing about this that doesn't make sense though. As you said her mom said she had came back last week. And if she really did come back with He Ran then why didn't He Ran immediately go to Xiao Han? She waited a week after coming home to go to her husband, the supposed love of her life after being separated from him for a year? That really does not make sense AT ALL!! And I just can't get my brain to process that no matter how much and how hard I try. Any normal person after being separated from the love of their life for that long would go straight to them not even wait a day much less a WHOLE WEEK once coming back home. Just doesn't seem believable to me. And if it is true then it just makes me sad for Xiao Han that she made him wait an extra week to see each other even though she was already home. But overall I really liked and enjoyed the drama even though I shed some tears. But the ending has left me wondering.

You're welcome!! I understand it is hard sometimes almost torture to wait for episodes to be subbed lol!! I was like you and wanted to watch after all was subbed but in the end I couldn't resist and started anyways and now waiting. But I'm also gonna wait cause you are right we don't have a choice. But I hope you enjoy!!!

It is technically finished. All episodes have aired in Japan, all episodes were released the same day. That is why the timer was taken down and is not listed as on-going because it is not still airing. But unfortunately all episodes have not been subbed for international viewers. They only get subbed one episode a week, so we do still have to wait for episodes.

Yes people and relationships can be quite messy sometimes. And I agree it is normal to have personal biases and I try to pay attention to mine as well although I may not always succeed. So I am sorry if I did come across as biased against Ritsu or anyone who isn't into monogamy. I really honestly don't have a problem with it. My biggest biases are people not being honest and hiding things. And I admit that did get the best of me here like why not just be honest and make it clear WHY?? But the answer to that is simple, because people and relationships are messy and people make mistakes. Thank you for the kind words. I think you are caring and thoughtful as well. You brought the issue to my attention in a nice way and I appreciate that. Thanks!! I'm glad we found some common ground as well. YES!!! and I love it as well. To be honest at first I wasn't sure just because the end of the world plot. But I am so glad I gave it a shot. I have seen Seto Toshiki in other dramas before. But this is my first time ever seeing Nakata Keisuke and I am really enjoying him.

I meant he was driven by his hormones when he first initiated the relationship with Masumi. That is why I said I guess? Because I wasn't 100% sure. I didn't know if he already loved Masumi at the beginning or if it was just an attraction. That really wasn't made clear (at least not to me). But perhaps he did love Masumi from the beginning and was acting on that love and I somehow missed the signs.

And what I meant by making Masumi feel like he meant more to Ritsu is that even though Ritsu loved him that love wasn't enough to make Ritsu only want to be with Masumi. But to Masumi hearing that he was special and that Ritsu loved him made him think/feel that he was different and that he was the only one Ritsu was with. Now of course it was not Ritsu's fault that Masumi misunderstood. Masumi was naive and delusional and believed it because he wanted to. But the misunderstanding could have been prevented (hopefully) if things had been clarified.

To be clear I don't have a bias, I don't care that he wasn't into monogamy. That is not my issue or problem at all. My problem is AGAIN that he did not make it clear to Masumi from the beginning. You can't just assume that the other person wants the same thing because they may not. Some people actually want a committed relationship and don't want to share their partner. And you can't just assume that the other person knows. Even if you think that they know or that they should know, they may not. So it is always best to make it clear from the beginning before anything happens. That way both people know what they are getting into and if that kind of relationship isn't what both people want then they can walk away and no one gets hurt.

But as I said before I don't blame it all on Ritsu. Masumi definitely had his part in it too. He could have asked Ritsu for clarification at any point before things went that far. He let his delusions take over and just assumed the relationship was more than it was. They both wanted different things but no one bothered to clarify and they both just assumed. Masumi assumed (naively) that Ritsu was only being with him without realizing/understanding that he couldn't just change Ritsu. And Ritsu assumed that Masumi knew and understood what their relationship was and that he was ok with it. Which I guess is kinda understandable because Masumi did know that Ritsu didn't do relationships. But still to be on the safe side and avoid any confusion or misunderstanding still should have been made clear. But Masumi didn't ask and Ritsu didn't tell.

But I don't think either of them are bad. They are just people who made mistakes and ended up hurting each other even though they loved each other. But I think Masumi was hurt/damaged so much as a kid that it played a part in how and why he is the way he is. He didn't have a dad and his mom was abusive physically and emotionally. He didn't have a good, loving or stable life growing up and I think that he was craving and longing for that love and stability that he never had. And he wanted so badly to have that with Ritsu. But unfortunately Ritsu couldn't give that to him, at least not in the way he wanted which isn't Ritsu's fault it's just the way it was. But Masumi's need for that stable love/relationship drove him delusional and crazy to the point that even after it ended he still couldn't let Ritsu go and move on. Even 10 years later he still hasn't moved on and it's really kinda sad. Don't really know anything about Ritsu's past or if that has anything to do with why he doesn't like monogamy. But I am interested and looking forward to learning more about him. And I hope that they can work through whatever issues and Masumi can let go of the past.

Ritsu and Masumi both are at fault. But for me Ritsu carries a little more of the blame. Masum i knew that Ritsu didn't do relationships but he still got involved anyways instead of rejecting Ritsu. He was delusional and VERY naive. But in his defense he was in love maybe for the very first time, and love can make us crazy sometimes and make us do crazy things. Like getting involved with someone who only has sexual relationships and expecting more, or thinking that you can change them, that you will finally be the one that they will love, change and settle down for. But Ritsu didn't help the situation by telling Masumi that he was special and that he REALLY loved him. All that did was give Masumi hope. make him feel like he meant more to Ritsu than he actually did and fed his delusions. With Ritsu telling Masumi these things and pretty much acting like his boyfriend Masumi wasn't really all that wrong for thinking that it was more than it was. Especially since Ritsu never actually clarified exactly what their relationship was until after he got caught with someone else. If you know someone is in love with you then you shouldn't give them hope (telling them you love them) for a relationship that you can't/won't give them. That is where Ritsu messed up and why he is wrong.

I'm not saying that Ritsu is wrong for living that kind of lifestyle. But like PurpleOwl said up above It is a required discussion that Ritsu should have had with Masumi but didn't. It is something that should ALWAYS be made clear, especially if it is an ongoing thing like Ritsu and Masumi. Anyone in that situation could mistakenly think that it was more if it wasn't made clear to them from the beginning. Ritsu only mentioned once that he didn't like relationships, and sometimes people and their feelings change. So how could Masumi know 100% if Ritsu didn't make it clear? Ritsu knew how Masumi felt and for that reason alone Ritsu should have had the discussion with Masumi before starting anything. He should have made it clear to Masumi that he only wanted a sexual relationship and let Masumi decide if that was something he wanted and would be ok with. If Ritsu had done that and Masumi still decided to have the relationship then all fault would be on Masumi when/if he ended up getting hurt because it was made clear what he was getting into. But Ritsu did not have that conversation and carried on the relationship without considering or caring that Masumi could/might get hurt. He took advantage of Masumi's feelings and it was a SHITTY thing to do.

Ritsu was driven by hormones I guess? And was getting what he wanted so it didn't matter if Masumi got hurt. And Masumi was driven by love and desperately wanted to believe that Ritsu loved him and that he could change Ritsu. Masumi was so consumed by the love he didn't know how to handle it or let it go It almost made him lose his damn mind and he started stalking Ritsu. Which was both crazy and illegal, and he needed a wake up call to stop him before things got worse. And he got the wake up call he needed when Ritsu threatened him with that picture. And although Ritsu taking that picture without Masumi knowing is downright disgusting and also illegal, it did snap Masumi back to reality. They both are not perfect (as no one is). They both made mistakes and did bad things.

It's not that I think she doesn't care about Mum, I just think she goes overboard with her care A LOT. But I do know and understand why she is like that, but I also think that she can hold onto him and keep him close without being so bossy and controlling. Mum doesn't treat her that way. He lets her have her life and privacy without bossing her so shouldn't she do the same for him?

And as far as Dew yeah it worked but clearly only because she kept pressuring him. He doesn't like her in that way. If he did he wouldn't have rejected her so many times and he has even told her before he only sees her as a friend. If he really had feelings for her or loved her he wouldn't cheat on her with anyone. And is he really happy to be marrying her? Or is it just an act? he didn't want to get married until his parents told him he should marry Mint. If he really wanted to marry her would he have to be talked into it by his parents? It seems to me he only is doing it to make Mint and his parents happy. But I could be wrong.

She is not my favorite character either but I definitely wouldn't say that she's the worst character I've ever seen. But of course everyone has their own opinions. And it's always interesting to hear other's opinions and perspectives. Sometimes it makes me see things in a way that I hadn't before.

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She's WAY to nosy,pushy and bossy. She has pestered Dew for YEARS even after being rejected numerous times. That is NOT normal behavior. I get she likes/loves Dew, but that doesn't mean he has to like/love her back. After being rejected she should have accepted it and moved on. But instead she just kept pestering him and putting him in awkward situations to where he would have to either reject her and hurt her AGAIN or either accept her even though he doesn't have feelings for her. She was basically pressuring him to be in a relationship with her. That is more like a crazy obsession than love. And her obsession for Dew has caused their friend Aun to hate Dew and attack him because Mint keeps getting hurt that Dew doesn't like/love her. But she is an adult not a child, she should accept the fact that he doesn't have to love her and that she can't make him. Aun likes Mint but she doesn't like him and won't date him. So why does she think that Dew is supposed to like her and date her just because she likes him? It may hurt her that he doesn't love her but she will get hurt more being in a relationship with him when he has no feelings for her and never will.

Then there is also the way she treats Mum. He basically has NO privacy because she is always nosy and interfering in his life. She is the younger sister but she bosses him around and tries to control him. He literally had to get permission from her to go stay at his apartment and she tells him when to eat and when he can work like he's a child. After his accident she even fussed at him telling him to eat faster, even after he had told her that he was still sore from the accident and could barely move his arms. Shouldn't a good and caring sister understand that he was still sore instead of fussing at him to be faster? That is too much. Mum is an adult who can live his own life and make his own decisions. And she is his sister NOT his mother. And she is younger and not very mature,sensible or rational which is proven by the fact that she won't give up on Dew after multiple rejections. So how does she think she is capable or has the right to make decisions for her brother and his life when she can't even make good decisions for her own life? Mum has given up living in another city to be with her, he gives in to all her orders and demands and now has even given up his love to make her happy. But what has she ever really done for him other than be bossy? I have 2 siblings one older and one younger and none of get us involved in each other's personal lives and boss each other around. Heck my parents don't even boss us like Mint does Mum. But of course this is just my opinion and view of it.

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The series hasn't even ended yet so how do we know it won't have a satisfying ending? Although I will admit that most times the novels tend to end up being better.

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Dramacool has the Iqiyi version. I think youtube actually has a cut version because someone else said they watched it on youtube and it didn't have the scene where Waan and his father made up. But I'm not really sure because I didn't watch the youtube version. But the iqiyi version on dramacool is uncut.

Well I can't argue with that. And thanks I fixed it.

But she abandoned her son and never looked back. She literally said she had no idea what her own son looked like. Doesn't that prove how little he also means to her? Plus if she knew how bad his dad was then why did she leave her son with him? IMO that makes her worse. If she had been around and actually been a mother then perhaps Palm wouldn't have ended up in this situation. But even though I have VERY little respect for his mom because she abandoned him, I do agree about the dad. It's been obvious from the beginning that the dad is horrible. Neither of them would win any parenting awards. And poor Palm abandoned by his mom and a horrible A**hole dad. It's a wonder he hasn't turned out all messed up. And I really don't know how he handled the reunion with his mom so well. Just calm and cool, not upset, not angry, not asking questions like the most obvious one WHY DID YOU LEAVE ME? Just acted as if everything was normal and his mom hadn't just admitted that she didn't even know whether him or Neung was her son. I don't know if I could have handled it that well if it were me.

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