Wow seriously do you have issues? Telling someone who is not comfortable with their sexuality, and who might be…
LOL!! Sorry i might have gotten a little carried away and probably should have just left it alone and said nothing. But i am very passionate about it and just thinking about how someone who was struggling would feel if they were told to "be more confident" it kinda got me upset. Good luck with your assignments.
Wow seriously do you have issues? Telling someone who is not comfortable with their sexuality, and who might be…
Yes, i can't imagine either the internal pain he must have had. I felt horrible and cried when i finally found out all the pain my uncle had been hiding for so many years i mean practically all my life, i was 17 when he came out pretty much grown and he was 30 and he had know since he was a teenager and he held it in for that long because he was so scared. I couldn't help but ask myself how did no one see it. And after years of being scared and trying so hard to hide it when he was finally brave enough to tell it, he broke down and cried as well trying to release all the pain he had been hiding just to have his stepdad treat him like crap in front of the whole family. Even my great grandparents who were much older than his stepdad and were from a time that was way less accepting were more understanding.
That man when i was young i used to consider my grandpa and thought it was great because i had an extra grandpa but i had no clue what he was really like until i saw how he treated my uncle. Now i no longer claim that man as anything to me haven't talked to or seen him and don't care too. He is a disgrace and i hope one day he will regret it. It's very sad that in this day and age there are still people out there like that, times have evolved but their are still people who haven't evolved with the times. But despite everything my uncle is happy now and looking back on when i was growing up i can honestly say i never saw him happy or smile like he does now. Of course being a child back then i didn't understand it. He has cut his stepdad out of his life. And i am glad he is finally who he was always meant to be.
And yes i couldn't agree more about Aeoy, there are some people that think oh Aeoy has done nothing wrong he doesn't deserve to be disliked they have no idea lol. To me he has always seemed creepy but maybe because i know about his character from the novel as well. And also about Sib i admit some of his behavior seems a bit stalkerish sometimes which he does need to nip in the bud, but yes he is completely harmless. He is just completely in love with Gene, it's a crush/love he has had for years and he's trying hard to get the person he loves to love him back, and like you said he is only 20 and probably doesn't really know how to chase after someone. He told Gene he had been in one relationship before with someone who wasn't the right person and for all we know that person could have chased after Sib. And yes how could Gene be ok with coming out knowing how uncomfortable his dad is with that kind of thing. Something i didn't mention before but when they were kids Gene's dad sent him away to another school because he thought him and Nubsib were getting too close and was questioning their relationship as children. And then the way he acted when they were talking about Gene's novel and it being made into a series his dad is obviously uncomfortable which would make it hard for Gene to be ok telling him.
"You're a total snake Gene" I'm surprised he can say that with many mirrors in front of him. Also yeah, I kinda…
It's actually Hin that asks Gene to break up with Nubsib he says because it's going to be bad for "Bad Engineer". And Gene tells Sib he should be with Aeoy because it will be good for the show.
Give him a break, this is his first relationship with someone in almost 26 years of his life. And of course he…
I know right. I have an uncle who struggled for years before he came out and then when he finally was brave enough to he wasn't accepted by his stepdad the man who helped raise him, he was disowned and not allowed to come back home. It has been years and he is still dealing with that, his stepdad still doesn't accept him and my grandma stays married to thins man even though he treats her son badly which doesn't help. I've seen my uncle struggling for years with this issue, i've seen how much it has hurt him and how hard it has been so i take this kind of thing seriously.
Give him a break, this is his first relationship with someone in almost 26 years of his life. And of course he…
Yes everything you said is true. But not only that Gene is clearly struggling with his sexuality he's not comfortable enough with it to admit to anyone that he has feelings for Sib. And when someone is struggling like that or not ready you have to be patient with them you can't force them. You have to let them do it when they are ready that is why when they were talking about telling their parents Nubsib said he wanted to tell everyone because he is ready but he knew that Gene wasn't ready to tell anyone so he said that he would wait till Gene was ready which is the right thing to do. But telling someone who isn't ready to be more assertive and confident and to make it clear that someone is theirs is not the right thing to do, because you don't know what they are struggling with or why they are scared to admit who they are and what they feel.
I liked the first episodes a lot but now it's starting to annoy me. Can Nubsib stop acting like a kid all the…
Wow seriously do you have issues? Telling someone who is not comfortable with their sexuality, and who might be scared to come out to be more confident and assertive that is just messed up. Do you not realize how hard that might be for some people especially for someone like Gene who has never had a relationship. Maybe he has never had a relationship because he wasn't comfortable with himself and was scared, but with Nubsib he has been opening himself up a little and starting to have feelings for him he is just taking his time because he is still not completely comfortable. Not everyone goes at the same pace some people are more comfortable with their sexuality and can come out no problem for others who are uncomfortable or scared it's harder and takes longer.
Some people are scared to come out, out of fear of rejection from family and friends, fear of being made of. It takes some people a while to get the courage to be brave enough and confident enough to face and admit their sexuality even to themselves much less to the world. I have an uncle my mom's brother who is gay, we are very close and i love him dearly. He didn't come out till he was 30 and had even married a woman before he was ever brave enough to come out. His wife was actually the first one to figure it out and she was very understanding she could have been angry and hated him but she didn't she was very supportive, she stood by him even kept his secret until he was ready himself to come out, and to this day they are still close like best friends. But when he finally did come out what he was afraid of came true he wasn't fully accepted, he was by most of the family but not by his stepdad. His stepdad was horrible to him he called him terrible names and now calls him a girls name every time he talks about him and tells my grandma and my mom that they have a daughter and a sister not a son and brother just because he is gay. That is so messed up and to make matters worse his stepdad won't even let him come to their house he says those kinds of people aren't allowed in his house like he thinks it's a disease that's going to rub off. It was almost 20 years ago when he came out but he is still being treated like this by his stepdad after all these years he still isn't accepted by him. And for almost 20 years my grandma has had to sneak to talk or see my uncle, and if her husband finds out he gets angry and yells at my grandma and even told her if she was going to see my uncle for her not to come back home. I honestly don't know why she is still married to him if anyone treated my child like that they would be gone. Everyone in my family except my grandma doesn't have anything to do with her husband anymore because of it. It's sad that people have to face and deal with stuff like that but it does happen. You need to be understanding, patient and supportive and give people the time they need to be comfortable and ready, and not say crappy things like be more confident or try to force or push them. Because if you force or push someone to come out when they aren't ready and then it ends up with a bad result like them not getting accepted or possibly even disowned or abandoned by their friends and family then they will blame you for forcing them.
Anyways the point is, it's not always so easy for people to be confident and assertive and to come out. They have the right to go at their own pace and come out when they are ready and no one should try to force them to come out if they aren't ready. Even Nubsib understands that, that is why he told Gene he would wait until he is ready. You never know what a person is going through what they are feeling, what fears they might have about coming out or how hard they are struggling to accept themselves. Trying to force someone to come out who isn't ready or telling them to be more assertive and confident is very immature and inconsiderate.
Oh and by the way Aey is your favorite you find him the most interesting ok that is your right. But because you kinda ticked me off i'm gonna be mean and spoil it for you because you clearly haven't read the novel or know anything that happens in the novel. You said Gene shouldn't be mad if someone else is going after Sib because he isn't assertive and confident, well guess what no one is actually after Nubsisb ,Aey is actually after Gene. He is a liar and manipulator just like Sib, he is lying to Gene about liking Nubsib and trying to cause problems between Gene and Nubsib trying to manipulate Gene into not dating Nubsib so he can have Gene. Oh yeah there is also the thing about Aey possibly drugging Nubsib. Aey is borderline psycho and if you like that and think that's interesting all i can say is WOW!! but to each their own i guess. I just find it funny that all these people who haven't read the novel keep bashing Sib for lying and manipulating and defending Aey like he is some angel when he is just as bad as Sib if not worse it just hasn't been revealed on the show yet, but it will be. From the preview the thing with the drugs is supposed to happen in the next episode. Maybe then people will start seeing Aey for what he truly is and stop giving Sib a hard time.
Also don't know if you remember but when Gene went home he was talking with his mom and his brother about his novel and the series which of course is BL and his dad got all uncomfortable and tried to change the subject. If his dad is uncomfortable with BL or talking about BL then how would he be with Gene's sexuality? He probably wouldn't like it or would at least be uncomfortable with it. That could be a big part of why Gene is struggling if he admits who he really is he might upset his dad and make him uncomfortable. But no matter what reasons Gene has it is still his life and he has to do it on his own time in his own pace.
You are right he is actually after Gene it's in the novel lol
I never could find the novel online with English translation but their is this person called Lazy Subber and they post spoilers and translations from the novel on their facebook page and also have found spoilers on other sites. Plus talked with other people who have read it. But someone else said that it is on wattpad but i'm not sure you can check and see.
Aey is not at all what you think we should start seeing that soon. But you are right about him being toxic.
Yes, i know what happens in the novel so i know what Aey is all about and what he is up to and by the preview for episode 9 it should start being revealed next episode.
Aey is not at all what you think we should start seeing that soon. But you are right about him being toxic.
Yes Nubsib's was revealed i wasn't talking about Nubsib i was talking about Aey his agenda and what he is really up to hasn't been revealed but it should be soon. He is up to no good and has been from the start.
wait.................aoey really likes gene and not nubsib?????????????
Yeah he's pretty convincing and sneaky lol. But he thinks that by telling Gene and convincing him that he likes Nubsib that Gene will back off from Nubsib then Aoey can try to have Gene.
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That man when i was young i used to consider my grandpa and thought it was great because i had an extra grandpa but i had no clue what he was really like until i saw how he treated my uncle. Now i no longer claim that man as anything to me haven't talked to or seen him and don't care too. He is a disgrace and i hope one day he will regret it. It's very sad that in this day and age there are still people out there like that, times have evolved but their are still people who haven't evolved with the times. But despite everything my uncle is happy now and looking back on when i was growing up i can honestly say i never saw him happy or smile like he does now. Of course being a child back then i didn't understand it. He has cut his stepdad out of his life. And i am glad he is finally who he was always meant to be.
And yes i couldn't agree more about Aeoy, there are some people that think oh Aeoy has done nothing wrong he doesn't deserve to be disliked they have no idea lol. To me he has always seemed creepy but maybe because i know about his character from the novel as well. And also about Sib i admit some of his behavior seems a bit stalkerish sometimes which he does need to nip in the bud, but yes he is completely harmless. He is just completely in love with Gene, it's a crush/love he has had for years and he's trying hard to get the person he loves to love him back, and like you said he is only 20 and probably doesn't really know how to chase after someone. He told Gene he had been in one relationship before with someone who wasn't the right person and for all we know that person could have chased after Sib. And yes how could Gene be ok with coming out knowing how uncomfortable his dad is with that kind of thing. Something i didn't mention before but when they were kids Gene's dad sent him away to another school because he thought him and Nubsib were getting too close and was questioning their relationship as children. And then the way he acted when they were talking about Gene's novel and it being made into a series his dad is obviously uncomfortable which would make it hard for Gene to be ok telling him.
Some people are scared to come out, out of fear of rejection from family and friends, fear of being made of. It takes some people a while to get the courage to be brave enough and confident enough to face and admit their sexuality even to themselves much less to the world. I have an uncle my mom's brother who is gay, we are very close and i love him dearly. He didn't come out till he was 30 and had even married a woman before he was ever brave enough to come out. His wife was actually the first one to figure it out and she was very understanding she could have been angry and hated him but she didn't she was very supportive, she stood by him even kept his secret until he was ready himself to come out, and to this day they are still close like best friends. But when he finally did come out what he was afraid of came true he wasn't fully accepted, he was by most of the family but not by his stepdad. His stepdad was horrible to him he called him terrible names and now calls him a girls name every time he talks about him and tells my grandma and my mom that they have a daughter and a sister not a son and brother just because he is gay. That is so messed up and to make matters worse his stepdad won't even let him come to their house he says those kinds of people aren't allowed in his house like he thinks it's a disease that's going to rub off. It was almost 20 years ago when he came out but he is still being treated like this by his stepdad after all these years he still isn't accepted by him. And for almost 20 years my grandma has had to sneak to talk or see my uncle, and if her husband finds out he gets angry and yells at my grandma and even told her if she was going to see my uncle for her not to come back home. I honestly don't know why she is still married to him if anyone treated my child like that they would be gone. Everyone in my family except my grandma doesn't have anything to do with her husband anymore because of it. It's sad that people have to face and deal with stuff like that but it does happen. You need to be understanding, patient and supportive and give people the time they need to be comfortable and ready, and not say crappy things like be more confident or try to force or push them. Because if you force or push someone to come out when they aren't ready and then it ends up with a bad result like them not getting accepted or possibly even disowned or abandoned by their friends and family then they will blame you for forcing them.
Anyways the point is, it's not always so easy for people to be confident and assertive and to come out. They have the right to go at their own pace and come out when they are ready and no one should try to force them to come out if they aren't ready. Even Nubsib understands that, that is why he told Gene he would wait until he is ready. You never know what a person is going through what they are feeling, what fears they might have about coming out or how hard they are struggling to accept themselves. Trying to force someone to come out who isn't ready or telling them to be more assertive and confident is very immature and inconsiderate.
Oh and by the way Aey is your favorite you find him the most interesting ok that is your right. But because you kinda ticked me off i'm gonna be mean and spoil it for you because you clearly haven't read the novel or know anything that happens in the novel. You said Gene shouldn't be mad if someone else is going after Sib because he isn't assertive and confident, well guess what no one is actually after Nubsisb ,Aey is actually after Gene. He is a liar and manipulator just like Sib, he is lying to Gene about liking Nubsib and trying to cause problems between Gene and Nubsib trying to manipulate Gene into not dating Nubsib so he can have Gene. Oh yeah there is also the thing about Aey possibly drugging Nubsib. Aey is borderline psycho and if you like that and think that's interesting all i can say is WOW!! but to each their own i guess. I just find it funny that all these people who haven't read the novel keep bashing Sib for lying and manipulating and defending Aey like he is some angel when he is just as bad as Sib if not worse it just hasn't been revealed on the show yet, but it will be. From the preview the thing with the drugs is supposed to happen in the next episode. Maybe then people will start seeing Aey for what he truly is and stop giving Sib a hard time.
Also don't know if you remember but when Gene went home he was talking with his mom and his brother about his novel and the series which of course is BL and his dad got all uncomfortable and tried to change the subject. If his dad is uncomfortable with BL or talking about BL then how would he be with Gene's sexuality? He probably wouldn't like it or would at least be uncomfortable with it. That could be a big part of why Gene is struggling if he admits who he really is he might upset his dad and make him uncomfortable. But no matter what reasons Gene has it is still his life and he has to do it on his own time in his own pace.