I'm not reading the book. but I definitely know he is not a red flag in the drama. He has 1.5 MAJOR flawsHe is…
Have you seen it already? Netflix has only aired 17 episodes. Or r u referring to his statement where he is rejecting the idea of making a home with her? (From the preview)
On this forum I see so much negativity about Luke and then I realized these are mostly the people who have read…
I’m completely on the same page as you. Luke is rude, and unfortunately, that really is part of his personality. 😅 I do think he has made a genuine effort to change, especially at this stage in his life, and that deserves some credit. But at the same time, effort doesn’t automatically make the rudeness okay. I don’t think anyone can honestly say that being treated rudely has absolutely zero psychological impact on them.
That said, rudeness can be subtle, or it can be pretty obvious. So, if my boyfriend adopted a female dog, gave her my name, and suddenly the whole world is going around saying, “Hey, what’s the name of the bitch?”—and the answer is always my name…
And just a word for any guy watching this drama: if a woman in your life is sexually assaulted, limit your actions…
Yes agreed, one can have reasons to protect eachother but if nothing is shared then it's all speculation. My issue isn't that he wasn't informed, my issue is that even when all the legal steps were taken and the aftermath, she didn't discuss anything with him. Eventually he would have found out but he wasn't part of any conversation. Communication is the key. The way Luke is, if she asks him to promise her something, he'd honor it even on his death bed.
I'm not reading the book. but I definitely know he is not a red flag in the drama. He has 1.5 MAJOR flawsHe is…
Sorry, I didn’t know! I would have shown up in full armor. 😂
And speaking of Luke—“actions speak louder than words.” If someone can only comprehend what’s explicitly said, then there’s really no point in trying to reason with them. 😀
Actually I like both of them but the forum folks here have presumptions & strong biases mostly due to the novel. I hardly interact here. I saw your comments & thought to join in♥️
On this forum I see so much negativity about Luke and then I realized these are mostly the people who have read…
I'm not going to make you think any different about how you feel for Luke that is shown on tv. We are all entitled to like/dislike/approve/disapprove of any character. For myself, I generally look at what actions are taken by any individual not what they are stating. People can be sweet talkers or sailors, the depth is known through the steps they have taken. As for why he would treat Flora & her friend different. I have observed in real life, we can be very curt, abrupt or even rude with our loved ones e.g our siblings, parents, the closest cousins but will be very courteous to outsiders but on the other hand the care or emotional connection we feel with the same individuals is as strong as our life line. Is this behavior justified, absolutely not and that is why apologizing is the right way and learning to change your ways.
Yup, that's my point. Food for thought- How we process things for female vs men. Imagine if Luke adopted a female dog, named her Flora and someone comments, Flora is the real bitch.
On this forum I see so much negativity about Luke and then I realized these are mostly the people who have read…
Agreed and some bias is justified if a character is displaying certain traits. Here, it seems the heavy weight is from presumptions. Since we are not watching the novel, we should simply take the characters as they are here in the show called Early spring❣️
And just a word for any guy watching this drama: if a woman in your life is sexually assaulted, limit your actions…
I understand where you are coming from and it's great to give men general advice but then your comment is after the episode and on this forum so sadly, it will go back to Luke & Flora.
I have to say, one thing I must have in a romance drama is fidelity. I love Luan Nian for never thinking of being…
So true! No other woman ever crosses his mind. I still can't get over the longing he had - to be cuddled & wake up next to Tao, following the first night & the dejection he portrayed
The FL is pissing me off more and more with each episode. I am up to Ep 12 halfway thru this ep and I am dropping…
Aah hang in there, it gets worse 😂 but come on don't run away. Let's watch their character development. If nothing else, it's a good project to develop patience & self restraint from using colorful language
Bueno, en los tres últimos episodios puedo decir que la edición/tijeretazos se nota mucho; hay situaciones que…
Agreed 100%. We are not watching the novel. We are watching a show that has taken the inspiration from a novel. That's it. It's up to the production team what they choose to do with the characters. I'm thankful for how great the character development of Luke has been shown here and don't want to dilute my happiness with constant negative remarks originating from the novel's characters
I just cannot with shang zhitao! Luke have given 100% in this relationship, more than what she gives, if they…
On this forum I see so much negativity about Luke and then I realized these are mostly the people who have read the novel or have heard the novel's story so their bias is next level ;)
That said, rudeness can be subtle, or it can be pretty obvious. So, if my boyfriend adopted a female dog, gave her my name, and suddenly the whole world is going around saying, “Hey, what’s the name of the bitch?”—and the answer is always my name…
Well, your honor, I rest my case.
And speaking of Luke—“actions speak louder than words.” If someone can only comprehend what’s explicitly said, then there’s really no point in trying to reason with them. 😀
Actually I like both of them but the forum folks here have presumptions & strong biases mostly due to the novel. I hardly interact here. I saw your comments & thought to join in♥️