There's no convincing this MilicaB person, they seem hellbent on victim blaming and making the FL as dislikable…
Also, how dafuq is the FL supposed to know her husband is a murderer?? She wasn't even there when that happened. She didn't even know she was being cheated on. Some people, like the person I mentioned above, are trying to blame her for Dohee's death, which is so far-fetched. How could the FL have prevented that when she had no clue she was being cheated on?? How could she figure out that her husband was having an affair? There weren't any clues for her up to that point in the drama (besides Seri being in her room alone with her husband, and even if she did find that odd, it would be crazy to jump to a conclusion that her husband was having an affair with her friend who just got back to Korea from overseas).
There's no convincing this MilicaB person, they seem hellbent on victim blaming and making the FL as dislikable…
Since a harmful rhetoric is being spread around, I just want to put this up here. I know this is a drama and not real-life, but I still don't want this "victim-blaming" mindset to be spread.
Now, I want to make it clear what "Victim-Blaming" is: Victim blaming refers to the act of assigning blame to a victim for the harm they have experienced, rather than the PERPETRATOR. It can be explicit or implicit and often involves questioning the victim's ACTIONS or DECISIONS that led to the harm, suggesting they were somehow responsible or could have done something to prevent it.
Victim blaming can manifest in various forms, including:
Blaming the victim for their actions: This can involve questioning a victim's choices, such as why they didn't leave a relationship sooner or why they were in a certain place.
Denying the harm: This can involve minimizing the severity of the harm or suggesting the victim exaggerated the situation.
Questioning the victim's credibility: This can involve suggesting the victim is lying or exaggerating their experience.
Focusing on the victim's perceived flaws: This can involve pointing out a victim's character FLAWS, personality traits, or past behaviors as contributing factors to the harm.
Why victim blaming is harmful: - It can discourage victims from reporting the harm they have experienced, fearing they will be blamed or disbelieved.
-It can SHIFT FOCUS AWAY from the perpetrator and the harm they inflicted, allowing them to avoid accountability.
-It can perpetuate harmful stereotypes and reinforce the idea that victims are somehow to blame for their own victimization.
But she IS a victim regardless of whether she chooses to ignore these signs or not. I don't think you know what the definition of "victim" or "victim-blaming" means, or else you wouldn't be stating all this.
Victim: a person harmed, injured, or killed as a result of a crime, accident, or other event or action. OR a person who is tricked or duped.
Victims of abuse do tend to be unaware or willingly ignore all of the warning signs and harm that is happening to them.
Yes, other people are getting hurt, but that is not because she ignores all the signs; it's because of all the evildoers. And she is the biggest recipient of all the harm. So, no, she is not an evil person, no matter what mental gymnastics you do to make her one. An evil person would intentionally cause harm to another, KNOWING what they did was wrong.
Now, let me give you the definition of "Victim-Blaming": Victim blaming refers to the act of assigning blame to a victim for the harm they have experienced, rather than the PERPETRATOR. It can be explicit or implicit and often involves questioning the victim's ACTIONS or DECISIONS that led to the harm, suggesting they were somehow responsible or could have done something to prevent it.
Victim blaming can manifest in various forms, including:
Blaming the victim for their actions: This can involve questioning a victim's choices, such as why they didn't leave a relationship sooner or why they were in a certain place.
Denying the harm: This can involve minimizing the severity of the harm or suggesting the victim exaggerated the situation.
Questioning the victim's credibility: This can involve suggesting the victim is lying or exaggerating their experience.
Focusing on the victim's perceived flaws: This can involve pointing out a victim's character FLAWS, personality traits, or past behaviors as contributing factors to the harm.
Why victim blaming is harmful: - It can discourage victims from reporting the harm they have experienced, fearing they will be blamed or disbelieved.
-It can SHIFT FOCUS AWAY from the perpetrator and the harm they inflicted, allowing them to avoid accountability.
-It can perpetuate harmful stereotypes and reinforce the idea that victims are somehow to blame for their own victimization.
What you are doing is exactly that. You do not need to spread this kind of harmful rhetoric because it doesn't help irl narratives and helps the actual perpetrators get away with evil shit they committed.
There's no convincing this MilicaB person, they seem hellbent on victim blaming and making the FL as dislikable as possible. While I agree that the FL seems dumb and naive, the person is making her out to be dumber than she actually is, when really, she looks like the standard naive, foolish FLs we usually see in these dailies. The FL has been married to 2ML for years and trusts him; she's been gaslit to believe he's not evil and intends no harm to her, and he's the father of their child, so of course, she's gonna trust her husband and have feelings for him. The feelings for your husband of many years are not gonna disappear overnight.
ETA: Victims of abuse do tend to ignore all the red flags and signs, so this kind of checks out for the FL. She also grew up being pandered to, sheltered, and rich. I don't think she ever thought this kind of situation would happen to her.
I can sense y'all's frustrations with the dummy FL through reading the comments... I'm gonna start watching as soon as the FL grows some brain cells and gets her revenge.
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It’s weird how you’re so hard on the fl when she’s doing just fine, but gave the second ml a free pass for…
I think Eunjung did a great job freaking out when her on-screen son was in danger. Her acting seemed realistic enough. Also, this viewer, sIRLii seems to have unpopular opinions😅🫣... In the Cinderella Game MDL forum, they could not shut up about shipping 2 adoptive siblings who grew up together. Now, they are gonna rant about FL's acting every day... 😒
LMAO if I were Jingoo's mom, I would give Seyoung the bitterest, bitchiest "congratulations" to her... but I think I heard Bang Ul say "is it true?" 😂😂, which is close enough.
The finaleAww saintly SY was staying at an orphanage, and looking after children (what a great idea considering…
If I were SY's employer, I would not hire her after seeing her behavior posted all over the internet, especially at a place where you look after or work near children.
lmao hana brought that fuckass bun back for her wedding, and she's barely wearing any makeup. I liked her makeup look at the piano recital way back in the beginning; she should have brought that look back. They still haven't learned their lesson of hiring a bodyguard or nanny to look after Eunchong for the wedding. No one, NO ONE was keeping an eye on the little boy after everything that has happened in the course of the drama?? Well, at least Yujin came back... in the form of a butterfly... to keep an eye on his son 'cause she knows none of these idiots are qualified to protect him.
Also, none of Eunchong's little friends were invited to his birthday party?? And why was everyone just sitting around, looking dumbstruck as Hana was going into labor?? Like, has no one decided to dial 911 (or 112 in South Korea) and call for an ambulance? 😂😂
Now, I want to make it clear what "Victim-Blaming" is:
Victim blaming refers to the act of assigning blame to a victim for the harm they have experienced, rather than the PERPETRATOR. It can be explicit or implicit and often involves questioning the victim's ACTIONS or DECISIONS that led to the harm, suggesting they were somehow responsible or could have done something to prevent it.
Victim blaming can manifest in various forms, including:
Blaming the victim for their actions:
This can involve questioning a victim's choices, such as why they didn't leave a relationship sooner or why they were in a certain place.
Denying the harm:
This can involve minimizing the severity of the harm or suggesting the victim exaggerated the situation.
Questioning the victim's credibility:
This can involve suggesting the victim is lying or exaggerating their experience.
Focusing on the victim's perceived flaws:
This can involve pointing out a victim's character FLAWS, personality traits, or past behaviors as contributing factors to the harm.
Why victim blaming is harmful:
- It can discourage victims from reporting the harm they have experienced, fearing they will be blamed or disbelieved.
-It can SHIFT FOCUS AWAY from the perpetrator and the harm they inflicted, allowing them to avoid accountability.
-It can perpetuate harmful stereotypes and reinforce the idea that victims are somehow to blame for their own victimization.
Victim: a person harmed, injured, or killed as a result of a crime, accident, or other event or action. OR a person who is tricked or duped.
Victims of abuse do tend to be unaware or willingly ignore all of the warning signs and harm that is happening to them.
Yes, other people are getting hurt, but that is not because she ignores all the signs; it's because of all the evildoers. And she is the biggest recipient of all the harm. So, no, she is not an evil person, no matter what mental gymnastics you do to make her one. An evil person would intentionally cause harm to another, KNOWING what they did was wrong.
Now, let me give you the definition of "Victim-Blaming":
Victim blaming refers to the act of assigning blame to a victim for the harm they have experienced, rather than the PERPETRATOR. It can be explicit or implicit and often involves questioning the victim's ACTIONS or DECISIONS that led to the harm, suggesting they were somehow responsible or could have done something to prevent it.
Victim blaming can manifest in various forms, including:
Blaming the victim for their actions:
This can involve questioning a victim's choices, such as why they didn't leave a relationship sooner or why they were in a certain place.
Denying the harm:
This can involve minimizing the severity of the harm or suggesting the victim exaggerated the situation.
Questioning the victim's credibility:
This can involve suggesting the victim is lying or exaggerating their experience.
Focusing on the victim's perceived flaws:
This can involve pointing out a victim's character FLAWS, personality traits, or past behaviors as contributing factors to the harm.
Why victim blaming is harmful:
- It can discourage victims from reporting the harm they have experienced, fearing they will be blamed or disbelieved.
-It can SHIFT FOCUS AWAY from the perpetrator and the harm they inflicted, allowing them to avoid accountability.
-It can perpetuate harmful stereotypes and reinforce the idea that victims are somehow to blame for their own victimization.
What you are doing is exactly that. You do not need to spread this kind of harmful rhetoric because it doesn't help irl narratives and helps the actual perpetrators get away with evil shit they committed.
ETA: Victims of abuse do tend to ignore all the red flags and signs, so this kind of checks out for the FL. She also grew up being pandered to, sheltered, and rich. I don't think she ever thought this kind of situation would happen to her.
Also, this viewer, sIRLii seems to have unpopular opinions😅🫣... In the Cinderella Game MDL forum, they could not shut up about shipping 2 adoptive siblings who grew up together. Now, they are gonna rant about FL's acting every day... 😒
Also, none of Eunchong's little friends were invited to his birthday party?? And why was everyone just sitting around, looking dumbstruck as Hana was going into labor?? Like, has no one decided to dial 911 (or 112 in South Korea) and call for an ambulance? 😂😂
Edit: or maybe yali escaped into the streets as soon as the show turned garbage... if that's the case, good for yali.