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Our hopes were so high then they were shot to the ground for absolutely no reason :|

Seriously! I would’ve been happy with that

Right, it’s like they think gay people can’t have a lick of happiness without the craziest drama.

Seriously, it was uncalled for

Well by the looks of these comments I’m definitely going to wait until there (might) will be a second season, then I will watch the last episode and continue with the second. My happiness shall not be ruined LMFAO

I take it back :|

This is absolutely adorable and realistic. I seriously love it, no extreme drama with cheating and blah blah just a cute little series with a settled down married couple and their child. My heart TT

Who shat in your cereal every morning for the past two years? Unclench will you? Holy shit

This movie is absolutely stunning. Breath taking. I will never forget it

No no of course I see your point. I wasn’t talking about his aggression or when he was such an asshole because HE WAS. He took it out in him in the worst way possible. I was only talking about his reason :)

I watched this months ago but I was going through my watched list and I felt like I had to add my input.

For the people under here thinking his “I want a normal life” stunt was unnecessary or stupid or weird, it’s actually as real as it can get. This happens in real life and it’s not as uncommon as you think. I’m a lesbian and I came out very very young. By 10 years old I knew what I was, and at that very age I told my grandmother (who I lived with during the time and she had custody over me for 7 years), that I liked girls while we were eating at the dinner table. She yelled at me, and I didn’t understand why. I just threw my food away, left the dinner table, and cried. My other grandmother is also a lesbian, but she harbors major self-hatred for herself because of that as well. She believe all of the Christian shit shoved down her throat by her own mother back in the mid 1900’s. She can admit to herself she’s gay, but she can’t accept it and preaches so loudly how God finds it to be an abomination. So when she told me that, at midnight I would be awake reading articles on google on “how to not be gay anymore” and cried myself to sleep thinking I was going to burn in hell for eternity. Not to mention, as I’ve grown and accepted I’m gay, the homophobia I’ve faced made me almost tell everyone I was straight and it was a phase just to hide myself and prevent being hurt any further.

This movie is as real as it could get.

WOAH WOAH WOAH HOLD IT RIGHT THERE
The red hair I’m freaking out?

Of course and me too!

Hey, I liked the first season better but I always like the first things better than the ones following. But I did like this season a lot!

There were plot holes not many like, and that’s ok. Though, in deleted scenes you can find on YouTube they DID talk about American blondie Shu Yi saw with Shi De. So, i think we should think of it as they discussed it behind the scenes. I think Shu Yi isn’t asking for much explanation because he just wants to move on with the one he loves without there being anymore problems. Hence why he doesn’t want any deep explanations on anything from Shi De. He’s just like fuck it, the past is the past. And I get that. His love never faltered. Their chemistry is great, and they are grown men who don’t NEED sex. Just 90% love and I like that

Shou Yi and Zhen Xuan? MUAH, chefs kiss, very beautiful as I say in the comments every episode. Though, the way they described Shou Yi’s disorder is odd and the way they were being touchy touchy smiley smiley at the end was also odd. BUT! These mfs just like cliffhangers. I’m sure we will get more details in season 3 ^-^ (I hope)
I have a feeling he has had an emotional attachment this whole time towards him he just couldn’t accept the fact that he does due to his disorder. Emotional attachment can be a considered factor in quite a few of emotion disorders like sociopathy (which I’m sure he doesn’t have) where emotions lack and so do emotional connections but there can be THAT person

Zhe Yu and Bing Wei are more like couples who act like friends to me. Laid back, don’t need much in a relationship. Bing Wei is more lovey dovey tho (as we can all tell) while Zhe Yu just lives in the moment and I like that diversity when it comes to all these couples. It shows everyone works different with their loved ones. It gives me different perspectives

Anyways I’m super excited for season three and I love the first two <3

Hm, I’m not sure. His lack of ability to feel emotional connections and emotions himself is something I’m familiar with. My grandmother, who suffers from PTSD has difficulty with emotions. She can get frustrated really easily, but she can’t cry easily or be disgusted by literally anything. I’ve seen her cry I’d say 3 times my whole life. She also has empathy problems. Like Shou Yi when he said he wouldn’t care if anything bad happened to Zhen Xuan, when something happens that she’s supposed to feel bad for she can’t so she copies other people. For example, my aunt almost died and she couldn’t feel sad or scared. It’s odd that they describe it as him not being able to feel anything at all, but maybe he just glazed over it and left out a few parts. It’s confusing xd

DISCLAIMER: a big paragraph, skip if you don’t wanna read

Alright I just finished and I think this episode was so great. My favorite one so far honestly.

The first thing that stood out to me is how much of a man baby Shu Yi’s father is. He’s an obnoxious child in his mind which he projects into his mannerisms that makes him throw tantrums like a 5 year old when he doesn’t get his way. Not a very good look for a grown ass man.

I like how Shi De called him “Dad.” That was basically declaring he will be his father in law whether he likes it or not. I like his confidence now that he’s less insecure about himself and towards his relationship since Shu Yi reassured him he has no problem standing up to his father as long as it means he can be with him. So cute

The second couple? Wow, the portrayal is immaculate. I don’t know how many times I have to say this to get my point across but the amount of uniqueness, flawless execution, and that “real life” feel to it gives me so many butterflies and brings a big and bright smile to my face. I’m very fond. I’m not sure if Zhen Xuan has Aspergers in real life but if he doesn’t I’m so surprised with the accurate acting on an individual with Aspergers. I thought he may not do great because of this but he does so well. I like how they aren’t making him out to be a hopeless guy with special needs that requires a mental crutch all the time. He’s simply intricate and his mind works in so many ways. He’s intelligent but he is indeed broken and scared which can intensify because of the Aspergers. From what? I don’t know maybe trauma, but with all this that just makes me love this relationship even more. Shou Yi is a mysterious man that is very closed off and serious. That’s the complete opposite from Zhen Xuan which is he doesn’t know how to portray his feelings but he always let’s them out and doesn’t hold them in (this is most likely due to his special needs). Because of his strong attachment which yes, could also be due to something else besides feelings (maybe over attachment issues) he’s opening up his heart. Shou Yi isn’t the type to do this hence why he left at first but it’s like since he got him back he can’t let him go that’s why he was waiting for him to come to the bar. He cares for him, he just has a hard time accepting that and LETTING himself care for him. This relationship is unique and portrayed so so so beautifully. I loved this episode so much I can’t wait until the next <3

You ain’t slick I see Jakey boy in your pfp >:)

The build up was extremely slow but it was so worth it. I absolutely loved this, the romance alone isn’t the only thing that gave me butterflies and happiness. It was also definitely the end of the leadership stuff between the seniors and juniors. The capture the flag thing was so cute if I’m being honest and it gave me heart palpitations TT
The chemistry is there, it just took a while for one of the people to realize and accept which I relate to 100% considering I’m gay myself and how hard it can be to come to terms and accept YOURSELF for it. 10/10 WOULD recommend I love this so much. About to watch season 2 <3

I didn’t even find out they ended up there until I watched Life, Senjou no Bokura. I was SO surprised it really caught me off guard. But to know there may be a possibility that it is a sign theyre together lifts my spirit

I already know what happens on the last episode of the first season. Did I watch that shit? Hell no. I left it right at them cooking together, and it’ll stay there. I’m anticipating an alternate ending because I most definitely don’t appreciate the other one. It may have been a good ending for a lot of people especially since it was a surprise but I’m not into anything abrupt. I do hope this will come out.