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Alma

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On Young Lady and Gentleman Feb 28, 2022
I lose interest in the main couple's romance in shows like this when they make it unnecessarily long while making others miserable. I don't like others to be miserable so I could be happy. I'm back to my western shows for now and I feel really good. I don't fast forward. A great diversity for all sorts of tastes. This narrative, for once or twice is good, for a change. But after that it becomes annoying. I hope they stop this stupid pattern in every and each show at some point and at least make some without it. Needs some courage and swimming against the current and I doubt it happens knowing how conservative most countries from East Asia are.
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Replying to deswrath Jan 25, 2022
YG would never screw her over, but he also won't tell her what to do. He's going to respect her wishes like he…
I guess you are an ultimate fan of this show and no matter what I say you probably say otherwise. But I wanted to just write this last reply. So sorry if it's long.🌷🌼

I don't want to disagree with you for the sake of only disagreeing with you.

And why do you think women like rich men? Because they have less. And why? this is a chain of events for thousands of years. Inheritance, laws, and stereotypes.
And why do you think men care less about how much money women have? Because they usually have more. (And poor men really like rich women too)

The examples of dramas on the men's side giving up a fortune that you mentioned are mostly (almost completely) for female audiences written by women. I still say it is indeed very rare in the correct context. Rare means it may happen but not much.

The part that you mentioned about how men overwork; is a good thing? That is not a good thing, as what you compared it with is not. Just because something unpleasant happens on that side doesn't mean it's fine if something happens on the women's side.

As you said it yourself she still can have the money ( I hope so 😁). So still people can just approach her only for money. And what she did was not logical. Because she still can be unhappy as I said, shares were not the issue. The chairman has money and shares too right?

Yeah, it's just a drama, but this much is true no matter what anyone says, it was a sentimental act with no real outcome in the long run, because as you said she is still the daughter of a rich family, and as it is obvious she likes money; right? Not like those who may give up the fortune they have to invest it for merit because they like to live a simple life, and they like to share. She is obviously not that kind of person. And didn't do that; if she did I would understand it.

I tell you this because these shows really affect girls' minds, it brainwashes them. They should really be careful about it. Somehow they copy it. And most times they will regret it at some point. I hope at least one girl sees through this. It's not as simple as we say it's just a drama.
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Replying to deswrath Jan 25, 2022
YG would never screw her over, but he also won't tell her what to do. He's going to respect her wishes like he…
Those people who will be nice to her would be nice to her regardless of the shares. And those who would not be, she sure doesn't want to have them in her life. But I wonder why this kind of happiness that you talk about is always applied to women. I rarely see this in the shows or real life to adapt to men; they can have both. She will not be happy if she listens to her mother or other people's will regardless of having or not having money. That's not the root problem of her misery. It's how she lets people treat her, how she accepts everything and does not take things seriously. And her misery won't stop just by giving up the shares if she doesn't work on the root problem. Outside elements are not the reasons for our miseries. They are just objects. It's what's inside, how we communicate and behave, and how we handle things. If it were me, I would let that mother go; she would be much happier living without her because I doubt the mother will change. And this will indeed happen again.
Even though I think if the father, whom the son doesn't blame much, hadn't started this and left something for her mother, this wouldn't be happening now.
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Replying to deswrath Jan 25, 2022
YG would never screw her over, but he also won't tell her what to do. He's going to respect her wishes like he…
That’s different from owning what you should own. As I said I can't imagine a man who would do that. Because there are a lot of other logical ways to handle this. By going abroad, by lying, leaving, and not contacting her mother. Money was not the reason why she was miserable. It was people. If you say otherwise that should apply to the chairman as well. But instead, she chose to do it in the most so-called feminine way handling it by emotions. That's why women are still poorer compared to men.
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Replying to ldb01 Jan 25, 2022
I’m sure there was a plan about her shares for him to handle it so all the plots of her mom would stop. I believe…
I really hope so. I don't like women to ask for money. Especially when they don't have to. When they should have their own shares.
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On Young Lady and Gentleman Jan 24, 2022
Se Ryeon is really stupid, don't give the money to your mother why give it up?? And the brother happily takes it. I can't imagine a man who would do such a thing, just giving up the money.
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On Cupid's Kitchen Jan 13, 2022
Oh girl at last, but now?? Now that I have to study, I have too many dramas to watch. 40 is too much. I hope it's good. Where do you watch this?
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On Young Lady and Gentleman Jan 10, 2022
I think I was the only one who liked the last episode.
Well, those advising sessions with Mr lawyer make me cringe to death. Aside from that.
I really don't like Se Cheol; I don't like Anna that much; I am not too fond of Yeon Shil too. But I have compassion for all of them. Not the Se Cheol and his cheating.
And people talk about how Yeon Shil likes money; who doesn't like money? If you don't want to think about money, you should have money. Anna liked money, that's why she left. I like money. Yeah, she goes overboard a little about saying it. But even if most people don't say it, they like money.

I'm very against violence, but I liked how realistic this episode was.
I would hate it if it went like, "Ok I forgive you, you are not bad."
And to be honest, I have seen too many dramas where the main lead did worse to others, and nobody even cared.
And as I said, it's about who the leads are, not what they do. Everything leads do always justified.
YG keeps saying he feels responsible ( toward his engagement and other things ) but why I don't feel like that at all? And yeah you don't like a younger woman!? Cut the bul**t! If it's about what people say that would make more sense.
And Sara's scenes, I skip almost all. But not most certainly why most people do. Because I hate to see how desperate the writers make them be.
As I mentioned in one of my early comments on the show, DD should understand her stepmom and Anna. But as I also said, I don't want her to end up completely ok with either of her parents.
The father could have said he and her mother are separated, and she is married now, which is close to the truth. So he is responsible for this mess now. If you treat your children like understanding adults, they become understanding adults.
Well, this is my view because I don't see people as evil or good.
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Replying to Alma Jan 1, 2022
Because people don't follow solid logic and change their morals based on their interests, I don't care who the…
You didn't get the point.
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Replying to Alma Dec 31, 2021
Because people don't follow solid logic and change their morals based on their interests, I don't care who the…
If someone kills a person dear to you does it mean you can kill them?
Anyway, this is just another drama. And for a character in a drama, I won't lower my moral standards.
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Replying to Ilbrat Demil Dec 31, 2021
Ep 28, So in other dramas it's cheating if a husband sleep with another woman and fall to her but here is like…
Because people don't follow solid logic and change their morals based on their interests, I don't care who the father wants to be with, but divorce your wife first, or tell her if you are proud of what you are doing. Any decent human being who respects others would do this.
They probably put themselves in Anna's shoes, not the wife's. But half of the women in this situation, in reality, are the wife.
Even if you are a killer, you have human rights, which don't go away because you have done something terrible. That's why we have laws.
No matter the reason he has done wrong. Nothing excuses him. If he is tired, simply just get a divorce, not keeping both women to see what happens.
I'm pretty positive if the wife were the main lead, they would do the opposite.
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Replying to MiaDanielle Dec 28, 2021
Check out Once Again. That was really good and the storyline kept moving.
I think I have watched that and dropped it in the middle.
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On Young Lady and Gentleman Dec 28, 2021
Ok, I think I have skipped like 70% of the show, and it is getting worse. I mean, can we have one show with, if not realistic but at least more enjoyable characters and storyline? I'm tired of this terrible predictable chain of events. Could we even have more triangles than this? Isn't there any other problem that story can focus on? Antagonists not always should be people. They can be events or circumstances or a group of people. I don't think most Korean writers are aware of this. I thought this could be far better if it were about the problems they would face as a couple, not this continuous chain of everything everyone despises.
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On Young Lady and Gentleman Dec 22, 2021
One thing that amuses me is how the guy just has flashbacks of his current girlfriend ( the children may be present) , not his kids, or his past love, or anything else.
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Replying to Alma Nov 26, 2021
Title Happiness
Something that is always frustrating for me about the main couple in Korean shows is that they are very different…
I honestly didn't comment here to get recommendations. Because I still am watching the show. I only wanted to express my opinion, and you guys make it hard. This is very frustrating. I wish there was a disable button for replies on the site. I shouldn't have replied to the first reply to my comment. This always has the same pattern, with no exception that I keep forgetting because I still believe in humanity and respect.
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On Happiness Nov 26, 2021
Title Happiness
Something that is always frustrating for me about the main couple in Korean shows is that they are very different from everyone else in the show, and not in a good way. I mean, they are never selfish in their relationship, they never fight over small things, they always support each other, they don't disagree with each other, and they always, always do the right thing. I don't like it because it's not real in any sense. They are very artificial. So I don't like the main leads here for the same reason, but primarily don't like the ml, he is getting on my nerve a little bit.
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