etoks21

Actually, we are nearly in 2025 and hyper-sensitive, self-righteous, judgemental MDLers now consider "typical" and "clueless" to be "crude and petty language." lol

Whotfc am I? I am Etoks21.

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Since the "MDLer" shoe fits, you have to wear it.
"Well, I didn't understand the plot and had no idea what was going on, but I formed a personal opinion anyway, therefore you must respect it." Got it.
No clue what "this is my account" is supposed to mean, but this is not your comment thread so if you don't want to run the risk of having your personal opinions challenged, stop posting them.

This is quite good. Recommended.

This isn't the greatest flick I've seen, but it's pretty good. Well worth the watch.

Reading through comments, it's clear that the biggest part of the main premise went over most MDL viewers' heads. Everyone here is forgetting the dude had severe psychological symptoms as a result of PTSD when the movie began. He was on medication for same, and was drinking heavily despite being told specifically not to do so. He was not in his right mind from the beginning, which is why he became irrationally OBSESSED. If you missed that, you missed the movie, people.

Did you by any chance notice he was suffering mental illness/PTSD from the very beginning of the show, was on meds, and abusing booze despite being warned in the strongest terms not to do so? The guy was off his rocker and totally irrational as a result.

hmmm...no. Clearly, you don't understand what sex addiction looks like.

There were 15 minutes of sex in the film...out of 135 minutes.

I'd go with pretty good, but could have been MUCH better with some major adjustments.

It was not a relationship; it was an OBSESSION. That's the point. He was suffering from major PTSD, on meds, and abusing alcohol. This was made clear multiple times throughout.

You are deluded. I am sympathetic in the extreme to the colonel as he was not in control of his senses from the beginning, due to PTSD, meds, and alcohol, but that was NOT love, that was...wait for it...an obsession. Did you miss the title of the movie? OBSESSED, not "In Love." The woman was mousy and they knew nothing of each other outside of bed and dancing.

I'm fucking gay. Got a problem?

BS. The main focus is on the "scenes" for YOU, not grownups. In this over 2-hour movie, there are about 15 minutes of sex. If the "soft core porn" movies you've seen are like this, you haven't seen any.

Everyone here is forgetting the dude had severe psychological symptoms as a result of PTSD when the movie began and was on medication for same. He was not in his right mind from the beginning. If you missed that, you missed the point, people.

SSH's body is beautiful indeed, but two highly unrealistic details threw me off: How does one stay THAT gym-built without ever going to the gym? How does he maintain a full-body tan without hitting the tanning salon or beach? And then there's the smoking and the booze...it would have been much more effective if we'd been shown a body that was until recently in that kind of shape but is beginning to deteriorate from alcohol/nicotine abuse and lack of exercise due to depression/anxiety/etc.

sigh...you completely ignore what we were shown near the beginning of this flick...the colonel is having serious psychological problems already then as a result of PTSD, which back in 1969 was not even a recognized diagnosis. Were you asleep during the doctor's office scene? He and the doc discussed his panic attacks, nightmares, anxiety, etc. He was already then on medication for his symptoms. He was specifically NOT to drink alcohol with his meds. He did so anyway because his anxiety overwhelmed the meds; a dangerous combination.

THEN he met this woman (I agree she was not all that but to me that's the fault of the writing and direction) and irrationally to his besieged mind, falling head over heels into an imaginary, insanely intense "love" was the perfect escape. So there he went.

This dude was not in control of himself, and that led to all that followed. You missed 2/3 of what was going on. The plot was lost on you. Perhaps you were too focused on the "pubes."

"I think I realized that I hate people who cheat."

Another typical, clueless MDLer comment. You have no idea how many of the people you know, assuming you know some, have had extramarital relationships It has happened since the beginning of time and is happening as we speak and will happen again a zillion times in the future. You "hate" all those people?

Your pretense that everyone who fails to be perfect and succumbs to their baser human nature, is worthy of "hatred" is beyond immature and self-righteous.

Grow up.

Typical, clueless MDLer comment.

Eighteen minutes in, I have to pause to say....Song Seung Heon is one of the handsomest men I've laid eyes on. Holy s**t. I've been watching Korean flicks for four years. How have I not stumbled across this demigod before? :P

You're right, that is often true. On the other hand, if I wrote "just teasing" after each comment, that would take the "tease" out of it.

OK, now I feel bad. I apologize. I never expected that you HAD to change your mind or your title because I hold a differing opinion. My bad.

lol Oh gosh, you didn't have to do that!
Although I believe what I've said here to be true, for the most part I was teasing with the rest. :)
Have a great day!

I didn't agree to that. You're wrong.