I am restraining myself from writing much at this point. I don't trust that what I type won't be wildly over-stated,…
Well, what's most bizarre is that they seem to believe that the pathological behavior we saw from the MC in this thing, in relationship after relationship, is just normal dating behavior. It's "so real and raw..." One commenter said this is so relatable because it's what "everyone" goes through. Seriously wtf? What kind of dating culture are these people existing in?
What I saw was a pattern of ecstatic lover at first sight/cranky, mean, bossy, rude bitch/morose disappointed asshole who sneaks out in the middle of the night after sex, leaving a note because he hasn't the balls to gently tell his partner it's over
The MC learns nothing, there is zero character growth or change, and he leaves shattered people behind as the wreckage he expects and doesn't care about. And then in the hallway or out the door he just happens to meet the NEXT gorgeous gay man who falls in love with him at first sight, and he begins using them as his new little toy to play with and break.
And for some reason unknowable, all these guys find him irresistable, with an aura of splendiferous exstacy about him. Spare me. He has a goofy face, big ears, and a horrifying, Batman's Joker smile. They don't yet know he's a serial soul-murderer.
These commenters accept that OK and "relatable." omg...how sad.
How is he abusive? He just couldn’t find himself and made lots of mistakes. Have u lived flawlessly and accepted…
I don't care if you're offended by the word "hell." Thicken your tender skin. "Screaming and cursing..." That's a strange observation . "take it as fiction..." where did I write that this is not fiction? Just scroll on by my comments and quit trying to police the thread.
Bravo! Precisely. Boringgggggggggggggggggggggg af is correct. It's like all the fankids in this thread watched some other show from what I labored through.
"masterpiece" Wow. I have never seen that word used before on MDL. lol
Please explain to me how I attempted to NOT "let them say it." They can say whatever they want. And I can say whatever I want. That's how it works. I'm not stopping anyone from doing anything.
Their reaction stems from insecurity and immaturity and is not my responsibility.
Are you one of those who believe viewers have a right to a comment thread free of dissenting opinions?
:) Because I'm a smartass and to me, Nan Yoon Su was woefully miscast for this role. I believe he's a talented actor whose looks and affect do not fit this role.
Thanks for not responding with hysterical anger, as so many MDLers do.
I am restraining myself from writing much at this point. I don't trust that what I type won't be wildly over-stated,…
Good God, thank you. Even though I stand behind everything I've written here, it's nice to hear from at least one other person who saw what I saw. Thank you.
Thing is...I wrote in my comment that who knows how I might feel about this thing in a few days, after I let it percolate in my tiny brain. But I'm sure you know, the fangirls and boys get upset when anyone dares to differ from their opinion. I've already heard the standard MDL insults "troll," "attention-seeker,"etc. One MDLer is praying for me because I don't like the show and said so. Also, she doesn't like that I've responded to other comments. lol It's the standard STFU routine from the insecure, defensive brigade.
You literally have tons of comments here. Spreading only negativity about the drama here. But sadly everyone ghosted…
Oh god. "harrassing" lol Again, you're pathetic. Yes, I sarcastically replied. So what? Scroll on. Why do you care?
Its not my job to link you to the many positive comments i have left on pages of shows I respect and admire. Again, take your STFU bullshit somewhere else.
Oh, and you didn't question me, you aggressively suggested I silence myself because you have a thin skin and someone doesn't care for what you care for. Then you insulted me.
" It was a very genuine representation of how dating works with everyone in real life." This is insane. I wanted…
I'm not arguing with you. If you can't see the repetitious pattern of psychological/emotional abuse this dude dishes out in the same, exact pattern with every relationship, moving from the ecstasy of new love to becoming mean, bitchy, and bossy to walking out the door in the middle of the night or dumping the poor sot at the last second as he leaves for a new job elsewhere, or berating him in public with vicious insults and malicious words, you have a sad perspective on what is acceptable behavior in relationships. Do you too like being treated like dirt?
Yes, the stalker behavior needed to stop. But our hero, who just days before was in ecstatic love, decided to dump him only after his friends ragged on the guy. THEN, shortly after, he was whining about how he should have stayed with the guy.
You know what? He could have sat down with the stalker, who was besotted with him and had a good, tender heart, and calmly, respectfully, explained why this needed to end. He did not HAVE to stand in the street hurling abuse at the poor sot, but he chose to do that. That is who he is and he did it over and over and over.
How is he abusive? He just couldn’t find himself and made lots of mistakes. Have u lived flawlessly and accepted…
" Have u lived flawlessly and accepted everything that comes in ur way? "
This is yet another frequent fangirl/boy tactic on MDL. Only people who have lived perfect lives are allowed to bash a character or a show. BS. So in your bubble, NO ONE can write negatively about your pet show, right? That's the typical STFU perspective of people like you.
If you're so sure this series is awesome, wtf do you care what I think? You're very insecure. Scroll on by and ignore me.
Just scrolled through two pages of comments. I'm horrified by the number of commenters who define the repetitiously abusive, destructive, vicious behavior of this odd-looking nutjob as "real life."
You are deliberately being a douchebag. You can discuss anything you want here, but use the freaking spoiler button when you reveal plot points people who haven't seen the series don't know about.
You're deliberately being an obstinate a**hole.
Bite me.
What I saw was a pattern of ecstatic lover at first sight/cranky, mean, bossy, rude bitch/morose disappointed asshole who sneaks out in the middle of the night after sex, leaving a note because he hasn't the balls to gently tell his partner it's over
The MC learns nothing, there is zero character growth or change, and he leaves shattered people behind as the wreckage he expects and doesn't care about. And then in the hallway or out the door he just happens to meet the NEXT gorgeous gay man who falls in love with him at first sight, and he begins using them as his new little toy to play with and break.
And for some reason unknowable, all these guys find him irresistable, with an aura of splendiferous exstacy about him. Spare me. He has a goofy face, big ears, and a horrifying, Batman's Joker smile. They don't yet know he's a serial soul-murderer.
These commenters accept that OK and "relatable." omg...how sad.
"Screaming and cursing..." That's a strange observation .
"take it as fiction..." where did I write that this is not fiction?
Just scroll on by my comments and quit trying to police the thread.
Their reaction stems from insecurity and immaturity and is not my responsibility.
Are you one of those who believe viewers have a right to a comment thread free of dissenting opinions?
Thanks for not responding with hysterical anger, as so many MDLers do.
Even though I stand behind everything I've written here, it's nice to hear from at least one other person who saw what I saw. Thank you.
Thing is...I wrote in my comment that who knows how I might feel about this thing in a few days, after I let it percolate in my tiny brain. But I'm sure you know, the fangirls and boys get upset when anyone dares to differ from their opinion. I've already heard the standard MDL insults "troll," "attention-seeker,"etc. One MDLer is praying for me because I don't like the show and said so. Also, she doesn't like that I've responded to other comments. lol It's the standard STFU routine from the insecure, defensive brigade.
Again, you're pathetic.
Yes, I sarcastically replied. So what? Scroll on. Why do you care?
Its not my job to link you to the many positive comments i have left on pages of shows I respect and admire. Again, take your STFU bullshit somewhere else.
Oh, and you didn't question me, you aggressively suggested I silence myself because you have a thin skin and someone doesn't care for what you care for. Then you insulted me.
"Question me," my ass.
They say "Bad Buddy" is a masterpiece too.
Yes, the stalker behavior needed to stop. But our hero, who just days before was in ecstatic love, decided to dump him only after his friends ragged on the guy. THEN, shortly after, he was whining about how he should have stayed with the guy.
You know what? He could have sat down with the stalker, who was besotted with him and had a good, tender heart, and calmly, respectfully, explained why this needed to end. He did not HAVE to stand in the street hurling abuse at the poor sot, but he chose to do that. That is who he is and he did it over and over and over.
Did you even watch the show?
This is yet another frequent fangirl/boy tactic on MDL. Only people who have lived perfect lives are allowed to bash a character or a show. BS. So in your bubble, NO ONE can write negatively about your pet show, right? That's the typical STFU perspective of people like you.
If you're so sure this series is awesome, wtf do you care what I think? You're very insecure. Scroll on by and ignore me.
I'm horrified by the number of commenters who define the repetitiously abusive, destructive, vicious behavior of this odd-looking nutjob as "real life."
What hell holes do you people live in?