My Liberation Notes

I am not sure why Song Seo Kyung is so polite, or even in speaking terms with someone that not only stalked her but attacked and left her as good as dead, but turned around and blamed the one person that was there for her. It is so true when they say a person's true nature is revealed at times of the greatest adversity. I still really like Seo Kyung, I do believe she feels genuinely guilty but the audacity, no not just that, the selfishness to think after everything she is still the perfect partner for Jin Woo makes me want to slap the sense into her.

This pain I am feeling for Jin Woo and Mo Eun is real, I am sorry he was made to feel that because of his disability he would never be enough, but more than that Mo Eun let the evil of all things doubt and fear creep in between them. Love is not always beautiful, or easy. Sometimes it has flaws and imperfections, but true love does not give up. I wish Mo Eun chose to understand, even more, fight for Jin Woo rather than let her insecurities and fears cloud her judgement. I must admit I am disappointed in her choices, could Jin Woo been more open with her, yes, but I wish she had given him the benefit of the doubt, but then this is always easier said when not in the person’s shoes. I genuinely hope this is just a phase and they will be as good as new once it passes over.

https://koalasplayground.com/2020/01/10/joo-jin-mos-phone-hack-reveals-sleazy-texts-with-jang-dong-gun-and-references-to-similar-behavior-of-other-top-k-actors/

Typo: "The two sat down and ate at a sushi restaurant near Suseong Market in Daegu. Joo Jin Moo naturally shared his love story with her (his wife not her) wife Min Hye Yeon". Also this sentence is grammatically incorrect " He was demanded by money and other goods or else they would expose his private messages.

I missed him, and I am loving that it's a historical drama or at least from the 1950s

I think about you every single day, I can only imagine how your family feels. Rest in Peace! Everybody that is glorifying him after his death, where were you when he was going through the toughest time of his life; you distanced yourselves to protect your image but now that he is dead you want to be seen and heard because it is good for your image. The grief of this loss in unbearable.

You make some very valid points. There is good and bad in every country and every culture. But I will only address your comment that "suicide is also an act of cowardice and negligence". You are right. Korea as a whole is not to blame and should not be ridiculed or shamed, but neither should people with mental health illnesses. Suicide is not a choice; it is a health issue. In the same way that a patient can die from pneumonia if it goes untreated, so can suicidal ideation and thoughts. I doubt LSK woke up the day of and decided this was the end. Regardless of how he got to it or why, it is important to be mindful of the way we discuss suicide because, with mental illness, words matter. Labeling someone who commits suicide as selfish or cowardly underestimates the many complex factors of a decision that is as final as suicide. They don't want to die; they want the pain and hopelessness to go away. They don't do it because they are selfish, on the contrary. People who take their lives commonly feel like a burden to their loved ones. They experience intense emotional pain that overwhelms their capacity to continue with life. Making others feel guilty is typically the furthest thing from their mind. So, it is important to understand that people who are feeling suicidal do not choose to feel that way; their feelings are a symptom of their mental illness. So, let's all be careful with our words.

My exact thoughts, non stop ... why did you let them get their way, has been my thought over and over again... why did you let them think they won... I will not get over this loss.

You will be deeply, deeply missed.... deeply. I wish you didn't give up, I wish you hadn't let them think they won, I wish you knew how much you are loved and respected at least by your international fans. I wish ... i wish... i wish. They threw you under the bus and let the true culprits and blackmailers get away with things be it the bar hostess or the dairy milk princess and everyone else who was involved in this case. Shame on everybody invloved including the k-netizens who hide behind the internet and make it their life mission to destroy their own country men and women just because they can ... even in death, he was being vilfied and called a coward. Truly shame on you!

https://www.bilibili.com/video/BV1r24y17774/

My heart is in pieces, My Mister; one of my favorite actors in one of the best Korean dramas ever made to this day. A toxic culture (including toxic fans and anti-fans) and an industry that treats its talent as business commodities are to blame for this and the many other losses that have gone too soon. When will the many celebrity suicide deaths in the past decade or so bring the issue of mental health and industry pressure to the forefront, and when will Koreans, the government and the talent management companies, the cancel mentality within the industry, and those whose callus decisions affect the lives of these celebrities take responsibility and affect the change so desperately needed in this industry. Celebrity lives matter; they deserve privacy, they deserve to live their own lives, and more than anything, they earn "innocence until proven guilty." I am gravely affected by this loss. I didn't know him personally, but I felt him deeply through his work. My thoughts and prayers are with his family, wife, and children. May he find the peace he desperately needed, as he felt this was the only option. I hate it for him, and his family so much!

I had just finished watching Trans-Siberian Pathfinders, a reality show follows him, Kim Nam Gil, Lee Sang Yeob, Kim Min Sik, and Go Kyu Pil as they travel along the Trans-Siberian Railway, such a wonderful reality show that showed genuine friendships and situations. My heart will forever be broken for this.

Trust me, we do, we see it in your comments.

Me too, I go on his instigram page at least once a week to let him know he is loved and to not do anything rash .. to be honest I worried for him more than I did LSK, I just never saw this coming for him. I hate it so much.

Okay now, let's calm down

Absolutely. For me, it was when Lee Seung Gi's fans petitioned against his marriage to Lee Da In, and he had to defend his decision publicly. And all the hate on her because of her family's stock manipulation scandal; while the court found she had no involvement in the crime, Seung Gi's fans still didn't want him to be in a relationship with Da In as it may smear his reputation as an actor without any controversies under his name. On the contrary, she stayed out of the public and acting for five years because of it. I was already aware of how bad for some celebrities, but this solidified it. Who gives anyone the right to think they could dictate who a celebrity dates or marries, how has it come to this, and who needs to fix this toxicity? My heart goes out to all the celebrities that have suffered and continue to suffer these actions of toxicity, be it from their own agencies, the public, their fans, or anybody else, and I hope, no, I pray someone takes notice and starts to talk about this as only by acknowledging the problem will there be an effort made to change it. My Mister, my heart is weeping and will do so for a long time.

Yes, the convo is making it's rounds on social media, it came up on my fy page on tiktok and I couldn't for the life me understand why anyone would post such a thing, how can anyone be so vile as to want to ruin someone's life famous or not in this manner. I believe in karma and what goes around comes around. Everyone involved in bringing this man down will get their dues no matter how long it takes -- My Mister I mourn you deeply.

I so agree with you. Sulli bears witness to the evil doings of cyberbullies, may her soul rest in peace too.

Yoo Ah In -- we love you, please take care of yourself

Stop commenting, just sop, if you don't agree you can just ignore and scroll away.

I completely agree with this comment