It’s very tragic in the end. She would have been better off alone. Emotional and character growth wise, you…
Yeah, that's why I said I don't like using the word toxic. People here on MDL throw it around like there's no tomorrow. She's more like hmmm, unhealthy. But then again, they're all unhealthy individuals. It's sort of a requirement to live in that land. Sane, normal folks are forbidden to enter this story 😹
It’s very tragic in the end. She would have been better off alone. Emotional and character growth wise, you…
Interesting. A fellow commenter with a similar opinion as yours, Miss Lylac says "she deserve to have a companion. she's afraid of being abandoned. that's why she chose the one who could spend a lifetime only with her." "she doesnt want to go throught it again, she doesnt want to be alone again".
It doesn't particularly sound like someone who had "wonderful character growth, closure about her insecurities and did not remain stuck", but okay. All points of view are valid.
It’s very tragic in the end. She would have been better off alone. Emotional and character growth wise, you…
It's not the point of her story but it should have been. The fact that she ultimately never really addressed her trauma in a healthy, effective way is why we see her persisting in that "never abandon me" mindset. It's also why she's a "toxic" (I don't like using that term, but you get the idea) character as well. Nobody has the right to demand of anyone that they should spend a lifetime only with them. Or that they can't ever abandon them. No person should be expected to be another person's emotional crutch. It feels unbalanced. That's a troubling, unreasonable expectation. An emotional weight nobody should have to shoulder. But I agree, she wanted a companion, and she got one.
"She doesn't want to go through it again", well bad news because unless she dies first, she will eventually go through it again. Had she learned how to confront her childhood issues and fears and learned how to be able to live and love life being by herself first, she would have enjoyed being in a relationship and eventually being out of it.
All these characters have big scars on their hearts, it's not something special. Some chose to address them better than others. Some chose the selfish approach masquerading as victimhood, self-pity, etc. We came to this world alone and we will leave it alone. Xiao Yao should have learned that by now, with her many many years of age. Anyway, a missed opportunity to teach young women some valuable lessons instead of the same old thing.
To be fair, if Jing character was important than they could have selected a professional artist, not some stiff…
But to be nominated for any award, a person needs to, you know, be good enough at their craft. And to win, they need to be objectively better than the other nominees. So what’s the logic here?
Is this about the purchase of hot searches? Or is it a different type of dishonesty? Yesterday even some official media accounts on Weibo reported the shamelessness.
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It doesn't particularly sound like someone who had "wonderful character growth, closure about her insecurities and did not remain stuck", but okay. All points of view are valid.
"She doesn't want to go through it again", well bad news because unless she dies first, she will eventually go through it again. Had she learned how to confront her childhood issues and fears and learned how to be able to live and love life being by herself first, she would have enjoyed being in a relationship and eventually being out of it.
All these characters have big scars on their hearts, it's not something special. Some chose to address them better than others. Some chose the selfish approach masquerading as victimhood, self-pity, etc. We came to this world alone and we will leave it alone. Xiao Yao should have learned that by now, with her many many years of age. Anyway, a missed opportunity to teach young women some valuable lessons instead of the same old thing.
No, I’m not tripping. Batman and Xiang Liu are my two ultimate favorite selfless baes 🐍🦇