hyperbutterfly89

I was hesitant because I rarely, and I mean RARELY, find Cdramas enjoyable, and because it was a long drama, but this one was really worth it.

I'm with you on this. The only version I managed to finish (miraculously) was he Japanese version which was the original that spawned all these remakes and consequently some of the most horrible tropes in Kdrama. I probably finished it because it was short and it was early in my Asian drama viewing days.

I loved this movie up to the middle and then it nosedived for me. I don't mind sad movies with terminal illness if they are done right but here it felt more like the writer was throwing a bunch of stuff to see what sticks. Here's what makes it different than A Moment to Remember which is tagged under Recommendations. AMTR straight out told us that this was not going to be a happy go lucky movie right from the first frame. They left the viewers with bread crumbs that something is not quite right with the heroine. Here, the second half felt like it came out of nowhere as they ran out of a story to tell so they just kept coming up with illnesses she can collect. It felt to me like they combined three movies into one. I would watch the movie again up to the middle and it would feel complete to me.

Lan_Lan is subbing it on Facebook but you need to request access.

Rjgman56 subbed it. You can find it on his Facebook page :)

Rjgman56 subbed it. You can find it on his Facebook page :)

Rjgman56 subbed it. You can find it on his Facebook page :)

Thank you for your hard work :)

Thank you so much! You're an angel :)

And that is why now I never start a Jdrama until the very last episode is subbed. Since I don't like watching raw, I'd rather not start it and have to wait anywhere from 2 weeks o 2 months to get each episode or have the last couple of episode not subbed for years. Let's hope we don't have to wait for years for the remaining episodes to get subbed -_-

Best Screenwriter (and for which show?)
Lee Dae-II (Life on Mars)
Chung Seo-kyung (Mother)
Choi Soo-young (Gangnam Beauty)

Best Director(and for which show?)
Lee Jung-hyo (Life on Mars)
Shin Woo-cheol (Where Stars Land/Fox Bride Star)
Choi Joon-bae (Come And Hug Me)

Best Korean Drama of 2018:
Life on Mars
Mother
Hundred Million Stars From the Sky

Best Korean Movie of 2018:
Be With You

Best Mini Series/Web Drama:
To.Jenny
Top Management
You Drive Me Crazy

Best Romance Drama:
Pretty Noona Who Buys Me Food
What's Wrong with Secretary Kim
Hundred Million Stars From the Sky

Best Romantic/Comedy Drama:
I'm Not a Robot
What's Wrong with Secretary Kim

Best Action/Thriller/Suspense Drama:
Life on Mars

Best Melodrama:
Mother

Best Actor:
Jung Kyung-Ho
Seo In-guk
Jung Hae-in

Best Actress:
Jung So-min
Go Ah-sung
Lee Bo-young

Best Supporting Actor:
Jang Seung-jo
Park Sung-woong (Life on Mars)
Kim Kyung-nam

Best Supporting Actress:
Lee Hye-young (Mother)
Heo Yool (Mother)

Best Up and Coming Actor of 2018:
Kim Kyung-nam
Kang Ki-young

Best Villain:
Son Seok-goo
Heo Joon-ho
Kwak Jung-Wook

Best Idol Actor(or Actress):
Seo Kang-joon
Kim Min-jae

Best Couple:
Seo In-guk as Kim Moo-young & Jung So-min as Yoo Jin-kang
Yoo Seung-ho as Kim Min-kyu & Chae Soo-bin as Jo Ji-ah
Park Seo-joon as Lee Young-joon & Park Min-young as Kim Mi-so

Best Bromance:
Park Seo-joon & Kang Ki-young
Jang Seung-jo & Park Sung-woong

Best OST:
Gangnam Beauty
Come Here and Hug Me
Where Stars Land/Fox Bride Star

I had the exact same thought several times in the 2 episodes. There are moments that she spaces out and I'm like... Oh, she's gone blind XD

So I just started the drama and within the first 16 minutes of the 1st episode, the FL was loud and sounded spoiled and petulant which got on my nerves. From the first scene, she is screaming at her maid and constantly complaining. When the maid tries to convince her not to run away and says that she'll be beaten to death if Xiao Tan disappears, Xiao Tan replies with "then let him beat you to death." Even if it's just a comedy, even if she thought that the maid wasn't serious, even if she had to run away, even if she was afraid for her life (which I don't think that was the case), that's just a very callous thing to say. There's a difference between being sassy and being annoying. Then Tan Er took over and seemed boring and lacking in personality altogether. From the little that I saw of the ML, he didn't seem any better, so at least that makes them a match made in heaven. So my question is, does she get a personality transplant within the next couple of episodes or should I move on to another drama? Is the FL going to continuously rotate between mcpetulant and mcsnoozfest or does mcpetulant mellow down in terms of petulance?

It's so hard to find a Chinese drama with good acting, it's so frustrating. I think the dubbing also doesn't help matters, it's usually so obvious to the point of taking me out of the story -_- Btw I was torn between this picture and Gong Yoo but this one captured my exact general mood :D

You said everything I wanted to say. I would like to add though that the main leads' acting was really good compared to the average Chinese dramas and they had good chemistry but by episode 11 I just couldn't get into the drama. I tried coming back to it a few months later. The drama couldn't keep my attention even after skipping through the episodes to get to the main leads' scenes.

The chemistry btw the leads was off the charts but everything else was a package of cliched and plot-holed snoozfest.

There were moments where I felt the chemistry and other moments where I genuinely thought the ML was going to turn psycho/stalker/weirdo on her. I don't know whether that's a problem with the script, the acting or both but it was really weird.

I, personally, don't necessarily hate it. I've watched and loved fluffier dramas with less substance. It's more that I'm disappointed. I think the story had potential to be something more than a traditional fluffy romcom. I might get back to it once I got over my previous exceptions.

I don't necessarily mind an adaptation that differ a lot from the original. However, what's frustrating here is that they took a really good, complex, and ripe for mining element and overly simplified it and turned it into a farce rather than an examination of several issues. Having her have an "original" face takes out the idea of loving someone that has "no face" and what comes with that (being regarded as a player if you're a guy or "easy" if you're a woman, social expectations, how emotionally exhausting it can be, being with that person when they are a child or and old person, how that can put a strain on family relations for the "normal" person...).

Another person in a comment on DB described it perfectly when they said it was like a production company found a script about an actress, a chaebol, and contract relationship, and then slapped the face changing thing on top of it. It feels like a gimmick, something for either comedy or exaggerated moaning rather any deep reflection. Maybe the drama will prove me wrong in the end, but the tone itself is not really giving the vibe of contemplation. Let me clarify one last thing, being reflective and full of contemplation does not necessarily mean it can't have comedic elements.

I don't think that LMK is a bad actor. I've seen him do a lot of very diverse roles. And while I think that his role here and BTIMFL are close, I don't necessarily think that they are the same, they have different motivations and ticks. However, I found it hard to connect to his character here when I instantly connected to him in a role where he was very stoic and closed off in another show. I don't know whether it's because of the writing or because of his portrayal. But I do know that he's a pretty good actor, in the hands of a lesser actor, his character in BTIMFL would have been horrible.