I don’t understand why managers do this. Can’t they see that when an actress starts actively accepting roles in vertical dramas and short films after working in high-quality productions, her chances of landing more mid- to big-budget projects become significantly lower if not almost impossible?
Why can’t he just shut the fuck up and retire? He’s earned more than enough to step away. He’s acting like he’s still in his twenties like the young actress who died. It’s time to make room for younger actors. Whether he’s guilty or not there’s far too much controversy and suspicion surrounding him.
The way I see Yuer and Hewen is that they might be choosing based more on a “let’s see what happens as we are attracted to each other (Physical)” kind of mindset rather than prioritizing compatibility, security and stability. Maybe it's because they were younger and had only just entered society so they were more drawn to something exciting and attractive rather than a stable, emotionally strong, long-term relationship. Of course it's just my personal interpretation and I could be completely wrong. I apologize if this comes across negatively I really don't mean to step on any fans toes.
xilun manipulative?? who did he manipulate exactly???
I don't like Yuer and Xilun’s behavior is an opinion. ‘Yuer and Xilun are manipulative’ is an allegation about their character. Those are not the same thing. You can't turn a defamatory allegation into a mere opinion simply by saying "that's his opinion."
The more reason why they are not suited for each other. They don’t balance each other out, if one person doesn’t…
Actually, I can see why Yue'er sticks with Hewen. People with abandonment issues can feel lonely even when they’re friendly, outgoing and have many friends, so when he was the first person to actively approach her at dinner she naturally held onto that connection.
If Xilun had simply said he remembered he or said ‘I chose the red space because we’ve already met’ when they moved from blue to red she might have viewed him differently. That's why she kept asking on their first date if he really remembered her. She genuinely thought she hadn't made enough of an impression for him to remember. It was only during the du hai tao episode, when he revealed that he said white at dinner because she was wearing white when they first met, that she finally got some affirmation that he remembered and actually like her. That opened up the possibility of seeing him differently which became obvious on their next date. Until then she only saw him as a friend.
And honestly, this is pretty common in real life. We have the viewers ‘God angle/view,’ but they don't. Both Hewen and Yue'er seem to need clear repeated moves from their partners because small signals don't register as strong enough. Even after one strong signal a misunderstanding make them get cold feet again leaving them emotionally insecure and unsure. That's something they both need to work on. Real life doesn't have PDs arranging opportunities and making everything easier. You have work family, friends, responsibilities and countless other things to balance.
Xilun, man you are truly extraordinary. I have watched more than hundred dating shows. I have rooted for many couples and seeing them find their happy endings always felt beautiful. Yet never once did I felt the need to know someone beyond the screen. Not for actors, actresses nor idols.
But you… somehow you reached a place in my heart no one ever had. You are a rare kind of man devoted, positive, loving, logical and deeply empathetic. Perhaps fate may or may not give/given you the ending you deserve but I sincerely pray that you never lose the person you are.
सत्यम्, प्रेम, धैर्यम् — may truth, love, and courage always walk with you.
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If Xilun had simply said he remembered he or said ‘I chose the red space because we’ve already met’ when they moved from blue to red she might have viewed him differently. That's why she kept asking on their first date if he really remembered her. She genuinely thought she hadn't made enough of an impression for him to remember. It was only during the du hai tao episode, when he revealed that he said white at dinner because she was wearing white when they first met, that she finally got some affirmation that he remembered and actually like her. That opened up the possibility of seeing him differently which became obvious on their next date. Until then she only saw him as a friend.
And honestly, this is pretty common in real life. We have the viewers ‘God angle/view,’ but they don't. Both Hewen and Yue'er seem to need clear repeated moves from their partners because small signals don't register as strong enough. Even after one strong signal a misunderstanding make them get cold feet again leaving them emotionally insecure and unsure. That's something they both need to work on. Real life doesn't have PDs arranging opportunities and making everything easier. You have work family, friends, responsibilities and countless other things to balance.
But you… somehow you reached a place in my heart no one ever had. You are a rare kind of man devoted, positive, loving, logical and deeply empathetic. Perhaps fate may or may not give/given you the ending you deserve but I sincerely pray that you never lose the person you are.
सत्यम्, प्रेम, धैर्यम् — may truth, love, and courage always walk with you.
Love you, man. God bless you. ❤️