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No, it's not funny.

It's hilarious.

He is such main lead material it is a travesty.

He also is very smart at picking projects and extremely versatile. Like this man is talented, brilliant and handsome as hell, I don't understand.

I bring up an issues when I see it, I don't go out looking for things to comment on. Like you, I see something that sparks a reaction in me and comment on it.

I wish I could have explained myself so that you could understand the point I was trying to make rather than getting stuck on the weight thing, which isn't the point at all, and distracts from the more important discussion. I see that I won't be able to actually discuss that part of it with you, so I'll disengage at this point. But appreciate you engaging in conversation nonetheless.

He's never said he doesn't notice his father's existence.

Women get too much scrutiny about their weight, you say? YOU are scrutinizing her body and weight -- what gives you the right to say she can't be proud of dropping to that weight level as an actress. Are you her doctor? Is it your body? Do you get to decide what weight a woman is allowed to be? "Women get too much scrutiny so I'm going to add to that by saying she's too thin." -- How does that help women face less scrutiny?

Whether it's "right" or not was not mentioned in my post at all. I said exactly what you proved -- that no matter what a woman does there is a crowd of people calling her too thin, too fat, too this, too that. And men do not get remotely close to that same level of scrutiny when they make body modifications.

If you read my post again, that was the point. Not whatever inferences you created from it.

Men who bulk up often use steroids or other unsafe substances to gain muscle quickly. How is that healthy?

Can you quote the part of my comment that said anything about whether this was something actors or actresses should be doing? I never made any opinion on the act itself, I only called out the double standard of the amount of commentary men get vs women about altering their bodies.

This is how one thinks before being in real, adult relationships. You'll see. Love is not as cheap as you are claiming in your ignorance. it is much more beautiful than the k dramas make it seem.

this ain’t a k drama lol They had six years of love, connection and happy moments, that’s not remotely a waste

My intent was to have a mature dialogue about a serious issue for women that means a lot to me. Sometimes reality is not pleasant.

It seems really important to you that I am hateful and have issues—why is that? What does this bring up for you? Your time may be better spent exploring that within yourself rather than projecting whatever is going on with your own feelings and issues onto me.

If it was a man dropping weight or bulking up hugely most people wouldnt say a thing. Women can’t win.

Spicy!

I like both storylines but it’s kinda weird now to have him falling in love w two different women in the same show via present day and flashbacks. Cause yeonghwa tho a reincarnation of ri ta is not the same woman, so it feels like he’s not falling really for yeong hwa but only sees her as ri ta, and then if he does actually fall for yeong hwa it’s almost like he’s betraying his love for ri ta.

I would have liked instead for them both to be possessed by their past selves OR for jun ho to be like partially possessed by do ha so it would be like a new love between two people who had a shared tragic past life.

Oooh that’s a great theory!

I get the sense that the step father is deeply jealous of DH, because even though he raised and trained him, he relies on DH for his own fame and fortune, and sees that DH is a greater man than he is. And so has to keep up this illusion of control and power over him.

I hadn’t considered that! I’m so so so curious why she ended up killing Do Ha. She must have had a good reason and I’m sure that reason is gonna be heartbreaking as hell.

I wonder if step daddy convinced her to kill do ha for some greater good and then she found out he manipulated her and she killed him.

When he stared at her w those fiery eyes while catching his breath and said “I wonder what it would have been like if, like you said, we were just normal people?” my heart bout beat outta my chest.

I honestly love both. The past story is so dramatic and passionate, and the modern day is fun and mysterious .

I’m glad theres more nuance to why DH was so obsessed with killing her other than straight revenge—seems like Evil Papa Spirit is gonna keep getting her murdered by 30 every single re-incarnation anyway, and it’s the only way for them all to move on from this pattern repeating forever. DH’s so resigned to their miserable fate at this point I can see why he’s been so detached and single-minded and is only now starting to consider there could be an alternative.

I still am engaged just cause the leads have good chemistry— but also I do wish the main dude would like shift in and out of his two characters cause that would be funny as hell. I do wanna see the depressed ghost have some sort of character development

I legit want an entire drama of that story.