Jiejie

too bad the poor couple did not stay together. They are so cute.

Finishing ep 2-
relationship

noted

i was through with her when she crashed the car. I really dislike when they don't give the lead female a group of strong friends. its always a dummy, and one with a struggled background who has to depend on a man tonsurvive, or one with relationship or commitment issues.

They never or hardly ever match like minded smart women together.

I am not familiar with the term. I took it as she doesnt see the red flag. However even in my misunderstanding because that did not come until much later. What was your misunderstanding to think I was blaming her? When i clearly stated... She is getting what she wanted. She chased him, he did not want her, he wanted RXS, Where do you find that I am blaming her? Then you mentioned some other things about him being committed. But he isn't. He could not even acknowledge they were on a date with each other. There is no commitment Yes he is the red flag. but him being the red flag is irrelevant when she chose him knowing who he is. Now if he was acting like he wasnt a red flag at first then switched to a red flag. Thats something different. But he has been a red flag out the gate and she chose him as a red flag. So like i asked. if you pick a visibly rotten fruit from the store and take it home. Whose fault is that the person who picked it or the fruit?

you can talk about someone and something and not blame them. You asked if i blamed her. Did you read that I blamed. her. I clearly stated. SHE GOT WHAT SHE CHOSE.
idk, maybe go back and read the conversation. HAGD

but she is not color blind. She sees him for who he is. That is exactly why ep 3 @ 40 minutes went the way it went. She was getting ready to tell him RXS was there then she changed her mind because she knew he liked RXS. When the owner came to wait the table, she caught an attitude because she felt his interest in her. She then asked him if the owner was gorgeous, he said yes and she caught an attitude. How is that color blind. she is very aware that he is a red flag. FULLY AWARE AND THAT IS HER CHOICE

He refuses to take her to his place provided by the job but he wants to take her by a motel. Stevie wonder can see that flag

lol who said it was normal.
where did i say his actions are normal?
where? show me where?

Why do i have to call him out to call her out?

😂 how about we ignore each other. Because it seems that I need to comment according to your standards.

😂 I addressed 1 issue and you are upset that i did not address another issue.

Have a good day
Misogyny is hating women. i dont hate women. i believe we ought to be responsible for our choices.

That is the problem. She sees him for exactly who he is but she stays with him. Watch ep 3 around 40 minutes.

I'm not excusing his behavior. SHE CHOSE HIM ALONG WITH HIS BEHAVIOR.

That is like a diabetic eating candy and cake. The candy and cake is what it is. The diabetic chose it. No one forced them to eat the cake. They chose it knowing what it already was.

Let's make people responsible for their choices. I stand by what i said. She got what she wanted. She chose him and she chooses to stay with him when he isnt even with her like she wants him to be.

Enjoy the show.
Be sure to argue whats being said. No one is excusing him. But i am holding her responsible for her choices in men.

lol - holding a woman responsible for her choices - is far from being misogynistic.

please rewatch ep 3 @40 minutes.

ep 3 - 40 minutes - you may want to rewatch. When she took him to the restaurant from the moment another lady spoke she was concerned he would be interested in her. Lol she tests him asking if the owner is gorgeous - he says yes - and she has an attitude. She asked him if they are on a date and he turned his head making sure not to answer. 😂 commitment? He takes his hand away... he complained about the drinks and music - and asked her to go to a bar next to HIS MOTEL - . Yeh they really sound like a couple (sarcasm). She sees Ruan Zi Xian - She mentions Wang Lekang liking Ruan (to Ruan). She was getting ready to mention Si Xian to her "boyfriend" 😂 and she changed her mind because she knew he would be looking for Ruan Si Xian instead of spending the remainder of the night with her. So - she got what she asked for, she knew who and what he was, and she continued to accept what he was and was not giving. Please rewatch...

He never wanted her. She knew the type of man he was. He played the field. He obviously did not commit to a relationship - but he makes her think he committed to it. he is who he is - she chose him, she chooses to stick with him. If you pick a visibly bad mango from the store, get it home and it is bitter, do you blame the mango when you're the one who picked it.

Did this heifer really not pick up her friend and waited on some guy.
Aw heck naw - please get this character off the show.
OMG

its not the dramas - its the platforms. they need the everyday traffic for revenue

They love to make bad traits seem sweet. I don't see anything sweet about this - especially him being her boss - and he should know what that what do to her career

She is getting what she asked for - she chased someone who did not want her. He originally wanted Ruan Si Xian. Now Mr Fu and Ruan show her what it looks like to be wanted and chased instead of her situation of chasing when she wasn't wanted.

Ep 12
Why would the quirky friend send a message to someone about Ruan's relationship?

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Jiang Zi Yue is an idiot. He didn't want her in the first place, who he wanted obviously declined the advance and he settled for her. I said before she is not his girlfriend. In her mind she may be but not in his heart. His conversation is always to appease her for the moment - not to give her what she wants.

That is like calling customer service asking for a 20% off coupon and they say. Sorry, can not give you a 20% off coupon but I can add a $5 credit to your account.

___ they just give you something to get off the phone with the idea that they gave you something which is better than nothing

i think it was assumed. i tracked back.

when she first started working with him during the interview in his office the ex called from a new number, he told her not to call from new numbers anymore. he obviously was ignoring her. flora overheard the ex saying she doesn't want to break up.

when he excused her from the business dinner - she had his phone and the ex was spamming him.

i dont think Luke ever said anything about clingy gfs. but it was assumed.

which leads me to Flora making the decision to not be clingy and Luke never correcting that misunderstanding and now Flora keeping that distance that Luke doesn't want.