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Alot of them are not commenting here. It was worse under ABO Desire and TMS comment section.

I do understand your point, honestly. Nobody is saying you can’t be uncomfortable with the character or dislike the possibility of him getting a happy ending. That’s completely valid, especially with a story this dark.
Fiction has always explored messy, immoral and disturbing characters without that reflecting people’s real morals.

At the end of the day we’re all reacting differently to the same story, and that’s fine.

Exactly. What gets me is they KEEP watching even though they already know it has SA, toxic dynamics and abusive characters.

There are countless soft, healthy BLs out there instead of camping under every post acting morally superior over fictional media. In Abo desire or was it TMY i can't remember which of them, i remember someone was complaining how someone close to her was SA'd and that they didn't know the drama involved SA and that will stop watching because they were triggered. She commented again later saying they spoke and will continue to watch it.

*sigh*

No need replying. I’ll keep saying it: arguing with moral police is like talking to a damn wall. They never actually want discussion.

If you don’t like a story, say your piece and MOVE ON. Simple. Nobody is forcing you to watch it. There are plenty of BLs especially Thai bl i personally find boring, overly cute, unrealistic or like some fairytale fantasy nonsense, and you know what i do? I stop watching and mind my business. I don’t camp under every post crying about how problematic or bad it is every single day.

Some of them are genuinely obsessed at this point. You hate these stories so much yet you never shut up about them. It’s exhausting.

They will have a melt down when LF kidnaps Xiao Chen😂😂 and i will be here for it all.

I can't stop singing the ost "hush now,my love" it is a beautiful song

🤭🤭

I hate him more😭

Gosh don't remind me. They are both stubborn😭😭

Yeah, i just remembered someone complaining that Fan Xiao smokes too much and that they should have toned it down and it will make people want to smoke and that smoking is bad😂😂 and i was like, what? Where were talks of unprotected sex in bls but it is smoking that was the problem.

That smoking was literally one of the things that made Fan Xiao so hot.

It’s honestly exhausting. I’ve seen comments and i noticed you were still trying to explain, but it sometimes feels like talking to a wall 😫—it just drains you after a while.

I do hope we eventually get remakes of Uncontrollable Love and Addicted though, so they can have more things to obsess about.

There are already plenty of green flag cbl that are ongoing, ones they can enjoy, but no they don't watch it and leave those of us who like darker and complex stories can stick with what we enjoy without constant arguments over it.

I have dropped alot of soft bl over the years because most storyline are basic and not creative enough... watch what you like.

Some people really need to stop asking for this to be turned into some green flag version when the whole point of the story is how abusive, obsessive, and messed up Lu Feng is. If you remove that, you’re not adapting the story anymore—you’re rewriting it into something completely different, and honestly, nobody would even watch that.

There are plenty of soft “green flag” Chinese BLs already, but somehow this is the one moral police wants to police and sanitise. And let’s be honest, most of you haven’t even watched those green flag cbls—you’re just zeroing in on the toxic ones and then acting shocked. Kind of ironic, isn’t it? Almost feels like an obsession at this point... because most of you SAW the first trailer.

From Revenged Love, to ABO Desire, to To My Shore, and now this—some of us are not new to darker, toxic narratives. We understand what we’re watching. Enjoying these stories doesn’t mean condoning anything in real life, and it’s exhausting having to repeat that over and over just because people refuse to separate fiction from reality.

It’s like saying that because someone enjoys crime documentaries or psychological thrillers about serial killers, it means they support or are one themselves.

The behind the scenes kiss has got to make at least one of them hard. I hope they include that kiss and not cut it out.

😂😂

Someone said they hope they find a man like Lu Feng😂😂😂and the mixed reactions is so funny

Lan Lin is one of the first-generation danmei writers, and most of her works came out in the early 2000s. She’s widely known for writing very dark stories, so the shock from some viewers is confusing.
If you remove the darker elements, the entire story basically falls apart. Even the drama has already toned things down quite a bit compared to the original novel. At some point, what more do people actually expect?

Understanding why toxic fictional characters exist in dark stories is not the same as supporting SA in real life, and some of us can separate fiction from reality without turning into moral police over what others watch or read.

Keep crying. You moral police condemn and complain and still keep watching.

Nobody is excusing SA. Most people defending Lu Feng are talking about the story as a dark fictional narrative, not saying his actions are morally correct in real life. You are completely free to hate him and not forgive him, but acting like everyone who still finds the character interesting has no conscience is exactly where fandom discussions become exhausting.

Dark BL, dark romance and psychological stories have always explored toxic, obsessive and morally messed up characters. That does not mean viewers suddenly support those actions in reality. People consume mafia stories, murder thrillers and revenge dramas without supporting murder too.

Also, blaming fictional BL stories for homophobia is unfair. Homophobic people were homophobic long before Lu Feng existed. Straight media has normalized toxic men, cheating, assault and abuse for decades, yet nobody says heterosexuality itself is the problem. The issue is the behavior of the character, not the sexuality.

You do not have to want redemption for Lu Feng, and honestly a lot of fans agree he should suffer for what he did. But other people enjoying a dark fictional character or wanting a complicated ending does not automatically make them immoral or abnormal either.

They won't do that, they will keep watching. Confused lot.

It is Chinese drama and production is Hong Kong

We would just have 10 mins bls