lily333

"i think its normal that he want to take revenge or to hurt the one who hurt him.. "
It's not normal. Trying to run someone else's life because that person don't want you is crazy. I thing that PTY should go to mental hospital, maybe they could make him straight.

Things wasn't out of control, he was. He decidet to go to America after HMY miscarried. And he never care about her. He tried to take kid from CKY just for revange. He told Cha Dan that his mom is DEAD. What kind of person does that? He was a douchebag. How s\is he a strong person? Because he tried give a kid back iin front of his mother instead of giving kid back for real (he acted like coward)? Or because he tried to ruin CKY by taking her child from her (about who he didn't give a shit), kicking her out from her home and dismiss her from job. There was nothing great about him.

He was the only normal guy in the drama.

Firtst, he didn't love her, He was obsessed. If you love someone, you never hurt person you love in the way he did. She had right to reject his marriage offer. She wasn't obligated to marry him. She also knew that wrong marriage can hurm child as well like her parents marriage. Not mention that by that marriage she would get involved with his parents who were awful BTW. He's also never cared about child, even when he tried to get custody. He only did that to punish her, because he thought she dated other guy. He told many times that he don't care at all about child. He gsve up his right for kid for sex with her. She wasn't trying kill a baby, but he was the one, who wanted her to make abortion. After all his done, I don't know how she can be with him.

Mine too. I didn't like him before, but now it's completely different.

Watch out your mouth. I do not know how your parents raised you, but insulting and name-calling someone is without class and not to mention illegal.

In the real world there are worse things than adultery and I see no reason to be unhappy whole life, just because of one mistake. I don't need to read the bible, because I don't believe in god, so I don't care what is in it. And you're negative publicity of Christianity, because you seem to be quite awful person, such bitter and hateful. And it is you who think that men are better than women. I don't spend too much time thinking about men. I have better things to do.

I can see when women are at fault, but I don't think AR is more guilty thn JW, 'cause I believe that marriage is a team work and there is no team work when one person deal whith everything including earning money, paying bills and debets and worring about daily life and uncertain future, when the other person is bussy with chaseing his own dream. And no, he did't do that for her, just for himself. If he only watched for her happines, he would never quit his job in the first place.
As for your issues with women, you have it because you have issue with yourself. Healthy people don't have that problem, so mayby you should visit a specialist.
And I don't need to watch that drama again,because I'm wise enough to understand it, when I watch it for the first time.

goldenmellow, it's pointless to talk with docnty.
Clearly he has his own issues. He defend JW and acts as if JW was without fault, because it allows him to believe that he himself is not responsible for his own divorce. He said he watched this drama many times and he's obsessed with it. Who does such thing, if he won't have a problem?

My thought exactly. And the description in the wiki is completely misleading.

cityhunter83 I've couldn't agree more.

Exactly. He broke the promise first and didn't respect her opinion, and she was with him anyway. Their situation looked a bit like a couple in which one person is an alcoholic and pulls the other down further and further. At some point you have to decide whether to save at least yourself, or both of you go down. Sometimes divorce is the only good solution.

You're not the only one. This is pretty much what I think. He is too self-centered to be a good husband.

Me too, but SH is more mature compared to JW, so I'll vote at SH, if she want to have a man.

I will be grateful. I'm glad that you are going to ignore me, since I've tried to do that for a while but you kept attacking me. I am glad that we'll be ignoring each other from now on.

SH is a man an I realy like him, so I'm not man hater just because I don't like JW. I would rather say, that you are a woman hater and no mater what happed between AR and JW, she always is fault and JW is right.
And just because I don't agree with you doesn't mean that I'm wrong and you right. It's mean that we have a different opinion, so stop with that personal attack and grow up.

Not only JW acted childish, he is childish. And seriously, been afraid of opening in front of her doesn't change anything. He just keep going making her miserable.
How is it possible that SH younger many years than JW and behave more maturely and more responsibly than JW. After all AR went through in past, she deserves a real man that take care of her, not a big kid.
Maybe AR and JW were married in the past, but they are no longer, so I don't see reason why SH wouldn't fight for his love and happiness.

AR is not JW's property and SH asked AR twice if she has feeling to JW and she said no. I think it is too late for SH to give up AR, since he already is in love with her.
Personally, I hope that JW back off for a while. AR really needs rest from him. He makes AR exhausted like during her birhtday he wanted her to wark late at night, only because he wanted to spend time with her. He thinks only of himself and never once put her in the first place. Even if she and his mother was drowned, he would save his mother first.

I think that his biggest mistake was not asking his wife about quiting a job. He made a life-changing decision and did not care about her opinion. But in spite of all she still was with him and supported him. So you can not say that she just wanted maintenance and a good life from him. If this was a true, she'd dumped him sooner. JW has no right to behave as if she did nothing do for him and she just wanted financial support from him. AR don't treat him like he did nothing fo her. Neither she nor I said that he did not do anything and didn't work. About communication, as long as JW did not acknowledge his mistakes, they have no chance of proper communication. Everything depends on him right now. He have to stop acting like an offended princess.

It doesn't happen often to me I avoid hurting people, but if something like that happened to me I would say sorry right away, because I think about my behavior and try to understand that other person might feel hurt. Besides, I feel awful thinking that I hurt someone. Even if it is a stranger. I know that k-drama has its own rules, but I judge his behavior right now without thinking what a wonderful person he will be in the future.

JW is a much better person when it he won't feeling sorry for yourself like in current episode.