lily333

It is what I am talking about. He don't realize NOW mistakes he made in the past. Who cares what he will do in the future when NOW he keep hurting AR 'cause he feel pitty for himself. So what he was crying. He wouldn't have to if he would think before he did that. I don't think I'm exaggerating. They had good moments and planning for the future and their house was one of them. He acted like is meant nothing for him and said that he ;ll bring to their dream house another woman. I really hope he make it up to AR before they'll be together again.

Seriously? That's just how guys are? That should explain everything? Of course that I can blame him that he has no thoughts about his past behavior and does not draw conclusions. He's not a child anymore, he should acknowledge his mistake, ready or not. It is not easy, but it makes us adults.
About house sytuation, even if it wasn't what he meant it was extremely cruel. Closests people can hurt the most, because he stabbed her right in the heart.

I know what I said. They're both guilty of splitting of marriage, but JW behaves as if only AR was guilty, and he made no mistakes. Al least AR know that she hurt him.
There is no need to be sorry for me, i can handle this.

Even if he felt hurt by divorce at that time, it don't give him the right to hurt her now. So I see no reason to justify this. I think he, most of all, wanted to fulfill his own dream and this is the issue. I know that they both made mistakes and none of them is a victim, but he is acting like he was the only victim. And it annoys me.

When he was grateful? Because as far as I know he clearly said that he has nothing to be grateful to her for. He should stop to brood about the past and feel sorry for yourself. The divorce wasn't the end of the world.
It is easier to go through the hard times, when a decision was taken together, but he did not bother asking her about her opinion, even though they become a family.

It's not a problem that she supported him, the problem is that he didn't appreciate that when they met again and acted like she did nothing for him. Besides, I understand that one can have a bad year or two in business, but four years? It is too much. Clearly it shows that he did not have a specific business plan before he quit his job which was extremely irresponsible because he had a family. And you are right that AR should told him that it's time to think about other options a long time before miscarriage and before she felt like she sacrificed too much.

ShameOnMe2 it is actually one person and he clearly has a problem with himself.
She made him starve? Are you kidding me? She was the one that fed him during 4 years. Her only blame is that she should tell him that you will not endure this situation much earlier.
As for the house he said that he bulid that house for his future wife not for her. He took her to the house because he was pathetic and cruel.

And still you didn't get it. Well I wouldn't tell that if I were you. It is not me attacking men, it's you attacking women. Even if some woman hurt you, you should not be so bitter.

And the only reason she wanted revenge was becouse he acted like she had never done anything for him when it is quite the opposit. In fact, he is the the one who needs a wakeup call. So I think you need to warch this drama again.

She was the one who put food on a table an paid the debet when they was marriage. So she wasn't about money since she was a breadwinner of this family. What's wrong with that NAR wanted a quiet life, without luxuries but also without the risk? She was tired of living with her father and brother, who had a neverending "brilliant idea" and lose money through this an he knew that. Despite that she supported him for four years, fed him and paid his debts. I think that a miscarriage was a time when she has reached her limit and she has stopped to believe that the situation ever change. That's all cost her too much (child's life), and she also had the right to be happy, not just him. Her dream are also important. Dreams are important but you can't make other people suffer just to make them happen.

Of course that many couples work, but a man should be able to take care of his family. Since women become pregnant and give birth, men should take care of their safety (both mother and child). Supporting a partner in a relationship should work both ways, and only NAR supported CJW. I don't bush all men but only thoughtless and careless who look only at themselves. And it is no secret that because of the physiology, hard work is more devastating to the female body. Loving husband should know that. That why I want NAR to end up with Gook Seung Hyeon. He is such nice and supportive guy. He and NAR make a sweet couple.

I'm glad that I'm not married to you. Do you think that it is ok that he didn't notice that NAR is working over her strength? She worked several jobs at the same time to pay off his debts and have money for life. He lived with her so why didn't he see that? He should find a regular job to support his wife. As for your cousin, I feel sorry for her. A real man should never let his wife worked so hard that she has a miscarriage because of this.

Actually she deserve so much better. He did not ask her before quitting a job and starting his own business, but even though she worked hard to fulfill his dream. He was so self-absorbed that he didn't notice the NAR was so exhausted that she lost a baby. What kind of husband he was that he didn't notice how much she suffers? NAR was very generous when she didn't tell him that his dream cost the life of their child.