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Found Family and Emotional Healing
I just finished watching this drama. I did not realize what an emotional rollercoaster it was going to take me on. I saw random funny clips and thought it was going to be lighthearted, but I could not have been more wrong. This drama touches on mental health, and I wish they had focused more on how to face mental health challenges. I actually enjoyed the beginning of the drama before the time skip, probably because it was lighter and more innocent.
I felt the cast was perfect. Any drama that has a loving and supportive family or circle of friends really does something for me.
I especially loved Li Jian Jian and Qi Ming Yue’s dynamic. I felt Li Jian Jian was the person who helped Ming Yue break out of her shell. Ming Yue was extremely timid at first, but eventually she finds her voice. I really enjoyed her growth and character development.
There are many emotional scenes, but I cried during the scene in episode five when they were celebrating He Zi Qiu’s birthday. His biological aunt was constantly nitpicking his behavior, saying he was not mannered and making other hurtful comments. Li Jian Jian’s father had pent up emotions that had accumulated over the years due to people’s offhanded remarks, constantly reminding him that Ling Xiao and He Zi Qiu were not his biological sons even though he viewed them as his own. Li Jian Jian’s father was extremely loving and compassionate, which were the two things the boys needed most.
I really like how accurately Ling Xiao was written. Everything he has gone through, he has deep inner issues. He is very reserved and only allows a small circle of people into his life, making his world quite limited. He appears to have everything together, but it turns out he is not mentally healthy. In the scene where he tells Li Jian Jian that he only has her and that the thought of a future with her is the only thing that kept him going, she realizes just how unwell he truly is. I felt the writers dropped the ball on this part of the story. They could have explored more of how Ling Xiao deals with his mental health, but instead it seems Li Jian Jian simply learns to become the girlfriend he needs.
The actress Yang Tong Shu, who played the role that betrayed Ling Xiao’s mother, Chen Ting, did an absolutely great job. Honestly, her scenes reminded me of a former friend who reacted in similar ways, though not as severely. You are constantly walking on eggshells, afraid that anything you say or do will trigger a negative reaction. It is extremely taxing. I could not watch many of her scenes because they were triggering for me, but the actress definitely did the character justice.
I feel Tan Song Yun thrives in comedic roles, so it was no surprise that she did such a great job.
I gave the drama an 8 rating for the story because it felt like a few major issues were swept under the rug. I will not spoil it, but something significant happens and, for some reason, Ling Xiao appears to have forgiven his mother, and his mother also seems to have gotten better. The only person who truly faced his issues and achieved the closure he needed was He Zi Qiu.
I felt the cast was perfect. Any drama that has a loving and supportive family or circle of friends really does something for me.
I especially loved Li Jian Jian and Qi Ming Yue’s dynamic. I felt Li Jian Jian was the person who helped Ming Yue break out of her shell. Ming Yue was extremely timid at first, but eventually she finds her voice. I really enjoyed her growth and character development.
There are many emotional scenes, but I cried during the scene in episode five when they were celebrating He Zi Qiu’s birthday. His biological aunt was constantly nitpicking his behavior, saying he was not mannered and making other hurtful comments. Li Jian Jian’s father had pent up emotions that had accumulated over the years due to people’s offhanded remarks, constantly reminding him that Ling Xiao and He Zi Qiu were not his biological sons even though he viewed them as his own. Li Jian Jian’s father was extremely loving and compassionate, which were the two things the boys needed most.
I really like how accurately Ling Xiao was written. Everything he has gone through, he has deep inner issues. He is very reserved and only allows a small circle of people into his life, making his world quite limited. He appears to have everything together, but it turns out he is not mentally healthy. In the scene where he tells Li Jian Jian that he only has her and that the thought of a future with her is the only thing that kept him going, she realizes just how unwell he truly is. I felt the writers dropped the ball on this part of the story. They could have explored more of how Ling Xiao deals with his mental health, but instead it seems Li Jian Jian simply learns to become the girlfriend he needs.
The actress Yang Tong Shu, who played the role that betrayed Ling Xiao’s mother, Chen Ting, did an absolutely great job. Honestly, her scenes reminded me of a former friend who reacted in similar ways, though not as severely. You are constantly walking on eggshells, afraid that anything you say or do will trigger a negative reaction. It is extremely taxing. I could not watch many of her scenes because they were triggering for me, but the actress definitely did the character justice.
I feel Tan Song Yun thrives in comedic roles, so it was no surprise that she did such a great job.
I gave the drama an 8 rating for the story because it felt like a few major issues were swept under the rug. I will not spoil it, but something significant happens and, for some reason, Ling Xiao appears to have forgiven his mother, and his mother also seems to have gotten better. The only person who truly faced his issues and achieved the closure he needed was He Zi Qiu.
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