lushping

but if we go by the timeline, he already had kylie while with yongso and was never starved hell i blv their sexual compatibility was one of the reasons he didnt want to leave that man

perhaps he was attracted to someone like him(broken) which is why he actually went out of his way for yongso bcs from how much he was attached to that man i wouldnt put it past him to agree to a hidden relationship if yongso asked. That was the first person he was willing to introduce to his mum when he didnt even talk to his friends about his mum. Yet, he wanted yongso to meet her even knowing the type of person he was. of all the 3 bf's yongso was the person who didn't need him as much so whenever they were together it seemed they had this little world no one could come into without their permission. It was just them.i also think yongso being more mature was part of what attracted him

after 2 yrs?? do you think gyu ho is just sitting around while yeong has had as many partners since then

just bcs he did not talk doesnt mean go yoeng did not feel it. Imagine if he brought it up wouldnt he be labelled a jerk?? go yeong did tht for the both of them bcs it will be easier coming from him than from gyu ho

the one person he communicated with about his life and their life and just talked was yongsoo,he was the bf he met sober had an insight of wht his life was like b4 they went to bed.They could talk all day and about nothing superficial yet go yeong would not be bored

it was available, i heard gyu ho even placed it out for him every morning.

no matter how beautiful they paint it, they never had a future. The age gap wasnt huge but their experiences in life created the gap.gyu ho was just starting his adult life journey while go yoeng was already in the system of mundane office life, and kylie made him see his options as very limited even their financial situation made it impossible.I sometimes think if gyuho had a place to go they wouldnt hv lasted that long. They got to a stage in their relationship where they resented each other and it only got better when gyu ho's financial situation improved then gyu ho did not want to leave so he wouldnt seem ungrateful bcs how are you in a loving relationship and not touch your partner for 4 straight months out of a year of being together

I just keep thinking that yongsoo was the first time he felt loved and wanted to love back, He took care of him in a way he had wanted to be taken care of since birth. Valid they argue bcs of their life beliefs but yongsu was always the first to seek peace. They always have something new to talk about, he even introduced him to his football friends(im guessing these ppl are not judgmental towards him)wanting him to go eat with them. Their love wasnt something either of them planned ,Go yeong was sober and seeking healing with that class when he met him,like for the first time he starts a relationship outside the club and not drunk. Everything about yongsoo appealed to him, if yongsoo was more willing to open up, he was willing to give him time, hell he was dancing to whatever tune yongsoo was playing at tht moment which is the reason i believe he went physical when yongso gave him that washed up excuse but in all tht he still gave him a pasta date, actually went to the park to see him and his mum even if he never showed up in their presence

truly lost in your own world, handle your issues. I repeat there is no difference between Bl and LGBTQ tag shows as they are the same. Take your anger issues to your family members as they are better suited to help you .

"Gyuho provided Yeong with stability in the big city, and accepting him with Kylie made Yeong more attached. However, as their relationship progressed, it became apparent that Gyuho wasn't fully on board with the Kylie situation. It seemed like they became roommates, and Yeong silently resented him for it. Yeong realized that Gyuho's future didn't include him, and even I felt like Gyuho would have moved out if he could afford it. When Yeong asked Gyuho if he was really okay with Kylie, it was clear that yeong had been thinking about it and had it on his mind bcs he felt gyuho saw him as dirty , but only brought it up during the vacation because deep down, he knew maybe from their interactions and how they were barely physical anymore that gyuho wasnt that into him anymore.
The night Yeong left their bed to sleep alone was when I knew there was a problem maybe that was when he started noticing the little things gyuho did to avoid him without making it obvious. gyu ho was the first person to acknowledge him with kylie and move in with him which really made him not want to loose him ,but Gyuho seemed to tolerate him to avoid appearing to abandon him. Gyuho went from being mr. 3days date before sex to just random hookups, barely having sex with Yeong. So, when Gyuho ghosted Yeong, it was expected.

Youngsoo loved Yeong but couldn't face society with him, which is why he never labeled their relationship. When Yongsoo said that being with Yeong made his house feel less lonely, it was like he was calling Yeong his home. Youngsoo understood Yeong's quirks and handled them like an equal, whereas others just apologized or silently endured. Youngsoo communicated directly and set boundaries, which is a real relationship.

I wonder if the real Youngso has accepted himself or is hiding behind a mask. People say Youngso was jealous of Yeong without knowing his life, but Yongsoo was jealous of the people in Yeongs's life, while Gyuho was jealous of Yeong's perceived privilege. Youngsoo loved Yeong and heard all the unspoken things Yeong said, which is why he ran. He went out of his way to give Yeong that pasta date, even if it was their last time together, but Gyuho couldn't wait to ghost him."

what did I expect?? You can't even manage a respectful conversation without resorting to personal attacks and inflammatory language! and Yes, you did group them saying bl is for straight female fans while lgbtq is for queer ppl. Newsflash: queer love encompasses a broad spectrum, and using the term BL does nt diminish their story or tie it to a specific audience. It's about love, not demographics! Instead of throwing tantrums when people disagree with you, learn to engage in constructive dialogue and respect different opinions. Grow up and converse better!

its really hard, like we are doing the discrimination ourselves and wonder why its hard for us to get good actors to play these characters

well said

and your saying hetro dramas dont over the top unrealistic romance??? BL is literally what it is boys in love or romance involving boys just the same as GL. The fact that you/many others see it as only something catering to "straight girls" and not on the story the producers are telling is where the problem lies and probably why its never taken seriously bcs why would someone work hard and tell a story and you just group it into catering to straight girls? bg/gl all fall under the LGBTQ umbrella but when ppl want to be messy while rating a show they go "this is not bl but lgbtq" like boys romance isnt that already. if ppl who constantly watch queer shows are prejudiced like this towards the labelling of works under the umbrella by constantly putting classes on them then what do i expect from anyone else. The shows can be called whatever as long as it communicates its a queer show but the classism is a major problem

bro self exited!!!

then why is there an umbrella for all queer instead of just a man and a man or a woman and a woman? This world can't really function without labels no matter the setting from school to work to even food(halal) labels also provide a shelter for all under it. when you think it is bad it becomes bad because thats all you see.

exactly, and i really hate when ppl go "this shouldnt be labellled a bl" then what should it be? I truly hate that bcs to me it feels like they love to put down Bl's like its not a SERIOUS genre and these comes mostly from bl fans whenever we get a really good show.its honestly really annoying

and i can't help thinking that if he talked more and Yeong understood him more, even if they broke up they'd forever be in each other's life. Maybe he'd have been more cautious with his hookups and not have to live with Kylie, because after that relationship he believed he was trash to the world and could be discarded anyhow, he gave his all to that relationship and that feeling may be why he enlisted in the first place(the running to the military when things go bad). I also blv that the person the professor talked about may have been a relationship he ran from or the person who outed him. He was never going to have a life in SK and abroad was the best bet for him and knowing how clingy Yeong can be long distance wouldn't hv worked.I still blv that out of all the boyfriends young so was the one he most especially loved, He was willing to marry that man if he asked and I believe that if that man came back for a second chance he'd go back in an instant

i blv the truth is in his background, when he said "you dont know what ive been through" i just knew he was going through it. probably homophobic parents who hated him so much he had to study homosexuals and "its evil" as an adult while living like a ghost. the abroad was probably him running away from rumors probably started by that nosy professor and his wife. i just know he is also suffering but doesnt trust yeong enough to truly open up

I still believe that he would have loved the photographer if he was a red flag, remember it was also the unapproachable IDGAF attitude the photographer gave at the first meeting that him that drew him in, but when he realized the guy was a straight jacket he got bored. He lives for the thrill and no matter how many men he meets, as he grows he would come to realize that he really had it good with him and he can never go back to that. Of all the boys ive seen so far he was the only one he could call when he was lost and knew he would come get him