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Therefore repeat and binge , I shall and I will🔥💖🙌💯

Same! I love this drama so much !! It has really become my happy place since the day it started. I laughed, I cried, I healed with them but I never thought I would be this severely unprepared to say goodbye to them when this heartwarming journey finally comes to an end 😭🥹🥰😍💖💯✨

I know rightt! They are such a cute family 🤩💓

Someone needs to block this prabhakar from here. His messages not only are rude, but also tone deaf to the entire situation of the MC’s. Besides, if he hates this show so much he can just leave this platform and never give another minute of his to it, including writing nonsensical comments. Let this space remain safe for people who understand this drama.

Thank you thank you!!

Just saw, and it’s soo cute! I can’t wait for tomorrow!!

Me too. I’m here with you

Thank you for writing all this, so many of my thoughts match with yours! I am loving this drama so so much. As someone who’s been through burnout and depression and chronic illness and returning home due to illness after giving up on my dreams despite working my ass off to achieve them, I feel so seen. I have been in BSR’s place and I have cried for the both of us and I have felt so happy to see her starting to heal from the traumas of all the deeply jarring ordeals she endured. I also love Jung So Min so much for doing dramas that have a special and profound impact of healing souls and making me feel all the feels.

This is so true. Both male lead and female lead’s exes were genuinely good people who did everything possible for their partners when they were together. It was just somethings aren’t made to last. And one party doesn’t necessarily need to be a villain for the couple to break up. Sometimes people drift apart. And sometimes they need different things from life and have to move on separately.

This, yes exactly my thoughts!

Oh thank you, you are an angel for sharing this!

No relapse. Only some stomach infection. The episodes showed her past cancer being revealed to her family and friends and them realising how they had wronged her by isolating her and by putting too much expectations on her

Things don’t always have to be dialled up to a hundred to be enjoyable, you know. Some of the cutest romantic moments are the small everyday things, despite life’s hardships. And that this drama is showing beautifully. MMC’s father properly settling up his wife’s meal tray despite him deeply hurting in his relationship with her shows how he still wants to show up for her despite feeling discarded by her. FMC’s father bringing his wife roses just because they make him think of her and him wanting to give her something, not because there’s an occasion, but just because he wants to in everyday life. Despite being made to feel incompetent by his wife and still wanting to impress her, shows his constant efforts in keeping his relationship happy. And both the wives misunderstanding the ir husbands and not communicating their insecurities and pressuring their children for perfection to fill the void in their lives to maintain an “acceptable” social image of their family. The leads have to overcome a lot to get to their romance. Unlearn a lot of things they must have seen from childhood and internalised regarding the realities of romance and relationships looking at their parents. this is also romance, this is also comedy, but this is all done up in a way that feels relatable and not something out of k-drama fantasy lands. Mmc is not superhero, all green flags and stuff, nor is fmc a damsel in distress or an all good and capable enchantress. They are flawed and they feel real. Which is why their romance also does not feel like “escapism” but more towards IRL “relatability”. Still romance. Just a different style and feel.

I think you are attacking a peaceful alternative viewpoint quite strongly. Pleading people to give the drama a chance and see what sort of angle it is taking to show its version of romance cannot in an objective sense justify as “gaslighting”. Also from what I gather, a very big lesson the drama is preaching about is to let people be themselves and relish them and moments/life with them as they are, not as what you want them to be.

I know right!! That was so cute!

Honestly to all the people who are obsessing over a rom-com tag, you are looking at the picture and inferring the wrong message from drama’s story. They are not showing some fantasy land, extremely sugary rom-com story. It is a romance coming alive in a intricately woven web of relationships with all its real life complexities. People are not one dimensional, with one track mind in romance and relationships. Nor do they act at same speeds. A lot in life and in turn in romance has to do with one dealing with the confusing and complicated intrinsic feelings. And that happens slowly but often can feel not so “thrilling” for third party viewers. But I plead to you, if you take a moment to empathise and think about them as yourself, you will see, as I do, a little bit of your own emotions and insecurities reflecting back. And just watching them overcome their troubles and traumas, in itself makes me feel good and want to live vicariously through them.
So I hope you will try to see them a little differently after reading my pov and not post about being disappointed without really giving the show a chance to be what it actually wants to be, despite being boxed, nay, caged in a rom-com genre tag.

Actually it’s not that cliched and much more close to one of the harsh possible realities of pushing through burnouts and living a life trying to be perfect and that too to meet someone else’s expectations. Denying oneself the basic right and space for introspection and rest can truly lead to some of most life altering diseases, most times in terminal ways. So in that sense I really REALLY like this drama for not going with over dramatic climaxes and sticking to its good slice-of-life, rom-com theme. Also I understand the show has a main couple around whom the story revolves but a lot in life is determined with how the people around the MC are behaving. The push and pull that moulds the psyche of the MCs has a lot to do with the relationships they have seen of their parents. So the writer tackling that in the drama is somewhat a good approach I believe. Because a lot of our MCs trauma has come about due to their parents actions and/or relationships. Just like for most people IRL. And they can’t be free to find out and live the life the truly want until they put in the work to reform the dynamics of al their relationships. And that the drama has been showing beautifully. Even the pacing of story line is quite good considering the kind of reform they are trying to portray for their MCs.

Oooh, i’m so with you on this

P.s. Min-Young unni really is the queen of chemistry and expressions! Love watching her work so much for they are really that entertaining and satisfying!

Honestly I really liked all her dramas since WWWSK, and I never got why they got such bad rep. Each had their own unique feel and personality to them. And Min-young unni as always brought her A-game to them all. (What’s wrong with secretary Kim, I’ll go to you when the weather is fine, Her private life, Forecasting Love and weather, Love in contract, and now Marry my husband) All were extra special to me personally because they were not just the plain old formulaic Kdramas. But they had a special emotional feel to them, and I relished watching and rewatching them still. For the whole cast and not just Min-young unni, because the dramas are really nice imo.