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being with other men = being with other men..It is exactly as it sounds.

In Kdramas, a strong independent woman is one who is open about her sexuality and has fked around. The strong kdrama Fl may love the ML but she never waits for him and gets her itch scratched by any available man since she is a 'strong independent woman'.

The ML on the other hand is the same same ML we see in every Kdrama romance, an extremely pure virgin who only ever loved the FL and never looked at any other woman ever.

Instead, why don't you stick to the topic at hand,

Topic is - Why are Kdramas so obsessed with ML being a pure virgin who only ever loved the FL, while the FL is happily fking others.

Why are the perverts in Kdrama land so obsessed with ML being a pure virgin?
Does the value of ML go down if he was having sex with other women like how most Kdrama FL's have with other men?

What is this perverted obsession of Kdramas to have their male lead as very very pure virgins who don't even interact with any other woman?!!

Relationships?
Were they married? Unless one is being pedantic, modern dating is pretty much an excuse for people to fk around.

'Romanc in Bonus book', the FL was not a virgin either. She has a child FFS

Nevertheless - the FL was not a virgin either. In fact she had many relationships before she met the ML.

Secret romance - We never see ML being anything like you said. It does not mention anything about either ML or FL in that drama.

Destined with you - the ML was extremely pure virgin, go and watch the drama. He could not give a crap when his fiance was enjoying herself with other man. The only woman ML in this drama ever loved is the FL. The FL on other hand was leaking from her private parts whenever she saw the 2ML.

Not sure about the last drama.

The lies people tell when asked to point at the perverted trope of ML being a pure virgin in Kdrama romance is appalling.

There is only one simple question you need to answer, that's it.

Name a single Kdrama romance in last 3 years where the ML is fking around while the FL is madly in love with ML and only ever loved him and waiting for him for years?
A single drama.

None of the dramas you mentioned fit the question I asked.

Where as there are nearly 20 dramas in last year where the ML is a pure virgin only ever loved the FL, while the FL is fking around.

Now, just give me the list I asked

What you said is true &
what I am saying is true as well.

The answer to what's happening to women in Korea is not these kinds of pathetic dramas, which would worsen relationship between the genders in that country.

I would say these shitty stupid dramas are causing more harm to Korean women.

agree with all that

These stories on their own would make for interesting viewing but for me they get spoiled by the writers characterization of the ML is who is predominantly a pure virgin & almost always is the one waiting for FL.

Now the question is, would this drama be any less interesting if ML had dated other women, enjoyed his life and when the FL comes back, his love for her comes to fore again?
It would not..

but the fact remains the writers mostly go with the same pure virgin ML waiting on FL in almost every Kdrama and the FL is shown having healthy relations with other men.

So, there is not a single drama where the ML was fking around other women, while the FL was a pure virgin waiting for the ML.

Would that be an accurate statement?

That's the base fact I want to start and then take you over dozens of dramas in the last year where the FL was fking other men and the ML was a pure virgin waiting for her.

No Gain, No love,
Samdal,
Serendipity's embrace

Let's start with these 3 and I will provide lot more if you need. it.

More excuses.

If what you say is true about synopsis why does it written so strikingly different for ML and FL.

'First Love' = the first person you love, not the only person.
'Only Love' = the only person you ever loved.

Sorry but even a child can tell you what they mean.

Don't mistake thinking that FL and ML are real people, they are not. These characters are mere thought process of writers.
The writer can easily show FL being very busy in city and hence no time for dating for FL.
The same writer can also show ML being in small town has loads of time and easy access to women for dating.

It's basically up to the writer to spin the story.
And who ever said big cities have more options for dating when compared to small ones has no grasp of reality.

Take 5 Kdrama romances in last 1 year and we can discuss whether you are right or I am.

It's a challenge

Huh, you seem to be misunderstanding something.

I want Kdramas to give ML similar depth as the FL, instead of always showing these men as pure virgins waiting for FL.
These dramas should show these ML's having good interactions with women, similar to how FL's have with other men. The interactions should be friendly, intimate and even casual sex, just like most FL's in most Kdramas have.

I am not slut shaming the FL's.
I am virgin shaming the ML's.

May be you should read my post carefully. Point to me where I asked for the FL's to be virgins? And more importantly, why do people get offended when someone points to how the FL is in Kdramas? Most FL's in Kdramas are drunk & easy with men. That's how they are shown. These same Kdramas also show ML's as smoking hot, pure virgins waiting for the FL to deflower them and never have easy interactions with any women. They are very stern, careful and very conscious when interacting with women, unlike the FL's.
Well, that's how these Kdramas characterize almost every FL and ML in almost every kdrama. If you got complaints, take it up with the makers of these shitty dramas, not me.

regarding synopsis, it's pretty clear, not sure why you would even disagree on that.
If what you are telling is remotely true, then the synopsis should read 'ML is the only man FL ever loved', instead of 'first love', just like how the synopsis says 'FL is the only woman ML loved'.

It's easy to understand what the synopsis is saying.

There is almost nothing feminine about most of the FL's in most Kdrama romances....If anything it's the ML's in Kdrama romances that have feminine qualities.

You are scaring me with your emojees..

read the synopsis,
for FL, it says ML is her first love, NOT only love & the casual fking she infers with 2ML.

With ML, the synopsis says FL is his ONLY LOVE.

What has going to Seoul got to do with anything, You mean the place where ML is staying does not have any women for ML to shag?

You are talking as if this is the first drama with ML staying as pure virgin for the FL, while she is happily shown fking around.
There are like 20 dramas in last year alone with same pure virgin ML and FL happily fking other men and finally settling with wimpy simpy pure virgin ML.

check Samdal & No gain, No love

name one Kdrama where the ML does not wait for the FL and dates other women?

the ML in every Kdrama romance is always waiting for the FL, while she is happily enjoying herself with other men.

It's the writers who write this pure virgin ML waiting on FL for eternity shit in every Kdrama who are to blame.

I mean the usual FL and 2ML being very very close to each other, like in every kdrama romance.

You will never see any ML in any Kdrama romance have similar dynamic with 2FL.

The FL and 2ML in every Kdrama are almost like lovers, having an emotional affair. You can literally see them having more cute/romantic than the FL & ML in many kdramas.

Even in this, just compare how the ML treats 2FL and how Fl and 2ML are...she is talking about fking the 2Ml to his face as a joke.
Have you ever seen ML saying something similar to 2FL in any kdrama ever?

Yes, that's the only explanation for explaining what's happening in Kdrama romances.

It's obvious I hate women because of which Kdrama romances are showing their ML as pure simpy wimpy virgins while the FL are happily fking around and finally settling with the pure virgin simpy wimp ML.

You are spot on that I hate women for pointing at facts in kdrama romance.

When misandry feminazis can't handle the facts they always say 'you hate women'.

Another shit show of a Kdrama romance.

You could literally smell the pure virgin ML from a mile away. And like all pure virgin ML's in all Kdrama romances, this ML also has been waiting for the FL like a puppy for decades.

The FL on other hand, well, she has been around and she already has the 2ML who has pretty much settled his wiener in her behind and it will remain there for most part of the drama - like every other kdrama romance where the 2ML parks his wiener inside the FL.

True,
why should viewers believe what FL says, especially about casually having sex with many men.

Read the drama synopsis, it's pretty much a dead give away that FL has fked around a lot even though the ML is her first love.
The ML on the other hand is a pure virgin who is saving his purity and virginity for the FL.

And LOL, the 2ML already has his wiener in FL's mouth and will not take it out until last few episodes.
And another LOL, the ML will treat every other women except FL as if they have are invisible.

Because that's the only way to describe most kdrama ML's.

A normal virgin is NOT a virgin by choice. It's because they can't get a girl, they remain a virgin.
A pure virgin is a virgin by choice. They are holding back from having sex even though they can.

Kdrama ML's are purest of virgins that korean women ever fantasied. These men are saving their virginity only and only for the FL. They will wait years, decades for the FL. They won't even look at another woman ever.
hence pure virgin or may purest of virgins is better choice of words.

Watch Samdal.
In that the FL dates a dozen men, while the ML nearing 40 years stays as a pure virgin for the FL.
Even funnier is the 2ML, who is also nearing 40 and has been in love with the FL stays a pure virgin for her.

Both ML and 2ML who are nearing 40, stay single. never looking at any women, while the FL is happily shagging multiple men....they just keep waiting never even trying to move on.

The synopsis pretty much states that ML never dated anyone. FL is the only woman he ever loved.

on other hand the FL in synopsis is stated as 'ML is her first love' NOT the only love. So, she dated/shagged other men.

on other hand the ML is waiting for the FL to take his virginity.