they did maintain the long distance relationship for 2 yrs and if SA was selfish it wouldnt have lasted that long...…
Just because he is more in love with her, she should let go off a professional opportunity to prove that she loves him too? Should she ask him to let go of his job and tag along with her to Europe just so she don't have to leave him behind... She also have to leave her mother, her only family and her best friend... He is not the only one she has to leave... There are married men and women with children who has to go to other countries for professional reasons and stay away from their loved ones... Are they all selfish because they have to make a professional decision due to which they might have to stay away from their loved ones? Will CHS also be called selfish if he was the one who had to go?
they did maintain the long distance relationship for 2 yrs and if SA was selfish it wouldnt have lasted that long...…
CHS's second sister did everything for her marriage and her child and look how it ended... songah was in a 2 yr relationship with the SFL and look how it ended... these two were with the guys for years and it felt perfect until they realized it wasnt... so it doesnt matter if they are near each other or is in a long distance relationship... if the relationship is meant to end it will end... songah was atleast very honest with CHS and told him directly were she stands in the relationship... she didnt keep him in the dark... songah was the one who was in difficulty when CHS entered her life so he supported her... CHS never had any trouble so songah never got any chance to be there for him... she did help him with the promotional idea when he was under a lot of stress... personally CHS dont have any other problem... he comes from a happy and rich family with loving siblings unlike songah... she wasnt in his life when his ex cheated on her... songah would have been selfish if she asked CHS to come to europe with her or find a job there... she never asked him to make a professional sacrifice and he didnt ask her either...
Dear feminists supporting Song Ah in the comments, the issue here is not whether its okay to choose career or…
almost every relationship feels perfect when it starts and the leads were in the honeymoon stage of their relationship... her relationship with the SML was also perfect till everything came crumbling down and he ended up cheating on her... chs's second sister also thought her life was perfect and she didnt regret not having a life outside her husband and child but look how that ended up... she invested 8 yrs of her life into creating a perfect family and she was proud of it and she was right on her side but whatever happened was beyond her control... relationships can take any turn and its unpredictable and can never be perfect... even two extremely good people can end in a break up... songah started having feelings for CHS just for few months and he has been liking her for more than an year so obviously he is more into her and she just started off... she was considerate of him and thats why she made herself and her decisions clear to him... she never gave him false hope... she clearly told she wont leave everything in the name of love... he is the one that said break up is not an option and they both managed to make the relationship last for 2 yrs...
also supporting songah dont have anything to do with feminism even though i am a feminist... a person can be a housewife and still be a feminist...
I swearr, and what was her conflict exactly? Her boyfriend had valid questions about the reality of her lifestyle…
we now know why KG managed to have a relationship with SY... SY wasnt as screwed up as EO and RY... she was messed up openly and didnt hide behind a cute demeanor... she atleast has the decency to admit she is the one that was messed up and come clean with KG...
For Kim Ji Won's acting as YSA, I think when Bubbly's acting was purposely made a little bit of effort because…
she was seen as a normal energetic person by jaewon and everyone around her... with the way kim jiwon acted, people should have found her weird because anyone can tell she was faking it... her acting of YSA should come off as natural for everyone around her not to find her weird... exactly how blindly in love jaewon has to be to not notice how fake she is? the dude said i love you to her in a week... she should have come off as natural for jaewon to never even doubt her a bit...
they did maintain the long distance relationship for 2 yrs and if SA was selfish it wouldnt have lasted that long...…
she just started having feelings for him a few months ago... its understandable if she isnt into him as much as he is into her because he has been liking her for a long time... there is no guarantee that their relationship would have lasted till the end just because she didnt chose to go to europe... relationships are not predictable and it will end if its meant to end... also why should she sacrifice her career for a 2-month relationship? just because he is more in love with her doesn't mean she has to sacrifice her career to prove she also loves him... she does love him and she tried to maintain the long-distance relationship for 2 yrs... if she didnt care for him at all she would have simply broken up with him and went to europe and start a fresh life there...
she was already feeling guilty that he waited for her outside the office for hours even after she told him to go home... he tries his best and she might have felt the long-distance relationship is taking a troll on him and she broke up with him... she considers his feelings and thats why she clearly told him where she stands and what are her takes on the relationship... she never tried to give him false hopes...
she did get an early promotion due to taking up the job in europe and its shown at the end... just because she…
she did try to balance and thats why they maintained their relationship for 2 yrs... they both have been together only for like 2-3 months and still managed to have a 2yrs long-distance relationship...
exactly... when i read the comments before watching the drama i though she broke up with him just for the job…
no matter what decision songah makes a set of people wont like it... if she chose CHS over her career then there will be a set of people who will hate on the drama and her saying a woman's life shouldnt revolve around a guy and its 2021 and all that... now that she made a practical decision she is selfish and dont care for CHS... if she didnt care about chs, she would have just broken up with him and went to europe... she clearly likes him enough to try to handle both her career and long distance relationship... they started dating just few months ago...
she did get an early promotion due to taking up the job in europe and its shown at the end... just because she…
there is literally a scene were one girl says that songah got promoted earlier and when will she get her promotion... it clearly indicate that songah got promoted easily because of being in the europe team... also even if promotion wasnt on the cards there is nothing wrong with wanting to have new experiences and wanting to work in a different country... working in the europe team clearly has its own advantages and it was said in the early episodes... the entire market and working experience is difference and it adds to her career growth... there is a difference b/w a person who only knows how the south korean market works and a person who knows how both the south korean as well as european market works... the latter will always have an upper hand...
exactly... when i read the comments before watching the drama i though she broke up with him just for the job…
true... when i read the comments i though songah did something awful to chs... she was clearly very open about where she stands... CHS made the choice to continue the relationship and try till the end... we dont know what happened in those 3 yrs... going by how kdramas work, i think songah might have broke up with him because the long distance relationship was taking a troll on him and she felt guilty that he trying so hard so she broke up with him...
LONG POST WARNING! SKIP IF YOU WANT!I have a few things to say about the FL SongAh and I hope whoever reads this…
they did maintain the long distance relationship for 2 yrs and if SA was selfish it wouldnt have lasted that long... there is no guarantee that their relationship wouldnt have ended in 2 yrs if she stayed with him... they both were in the early stage of the relationship so we only saw the happy part... she gave him the freedom to walk out if he wants but he chose to stay and try out long distance and for 2 yrs it worked as well...
I might be among just a few but I totally understand Song Ah to be honest. She isn't selfish for choosing herself…
true... she just started having romantic feelings for him and he has been liking her for more than an year... so obviously they both are not on the same page but that doesnt mean she don't love him at all or she is selfish for choosing her career over her relationship with him... its not as she put him in the dark or hide things from him... she was very open about it and she did feel bad for him but he chose to continue the relationship and try till the end... maintaining a long-distance relationship for 2 yrs clearly means they both tried to work things out... if song ah didnt try then they would have broken up months after she went to Europe...CHS single-handedly cannot maintain a long distance relationship for 2 yrs...
i never thought jaewon and jiseung will be this cute... they are cuter than the leads... i hope they are going strong even after the leap and we have marriage on the cards...
the 2nd sister and her husband scene made me emotional... she dont even blame him for hiding and offered to stand by him no matter what his decision is... i am sadder for their kid... she is such a happy child and divorce of her parents is gonna affect her...
Everyone on here acting like they would reject their dream job because of some guy that they have been dating…
exactly... when i read the comments before watching the drama i though she broke up with him just for the job but they broke up 2 yrs after she went to europe... so they definitely tried the long distance and seeing how these two are its pretty obvious that they both tried their best to maintain it...
From my point of view, song ah is the most selfish person,its not that i am against her going to abroad,but the…
she did get an early promotion due to taking up the job in europe and its shown at the end... just because she chose her career over her relationship doesnt make her a selfish person... there is a 3 yr leap and they broke up just an year ago... so their relationship did work for almost 2 yrs even after being long distance... she also might have tried hard to maintain it for that long...
as of now the only one without any sort of evilness is rona... she might have been a brat but she clearly never wanted to bring any harm to anyone and even regrets pushing her mom so much and blames herself for seolah's death when the rest of the kids dont even regret bullying seolah or leaving her to die (maybe seokhoon might regret it a bit)... she does have a sense of right and wrong more than any other character... then i guess logan lee... my most fav died last season and i still wish she will be back from the dead as the same person and not as a new character...
If we look at the way how emotionally vulnerable and scared sunoh and jojo is, I feel they both together will…
the one that needs counselling the most is jojo... she is the one that made everything so complicated and only because she couldn't make up her mind... if she wanted to proceed things with HY, just come clean with SO and tell him everything and say she wants to be with HY... if she still has feelings for SO why even think of being close to his bestfriend out of all the people out there...
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Should she ask him to let go of his job and tag along with her to Europe just so she don't have to leave him behind...
She also have to leave her mother, her only family and her best friend... He is not the only one she has to leave...
There are married men and women with children who has to go to other countries for professional reasons and stay away from their loved ones... Are they all selfish because they have to make a professional decision due to which they might have to stay away from their loved ones?
Will CHS also be called selfish if he was the one who had to go?
songah was the one who was in difficulty when CHS entered her life so he supported her... CHS never had any trouble so songah never got any chance to be there for him... she did help him with the promotional idea when he was under a lot of stress... personally CHS dont have any other problem... he comes from a happy and rich family with loving siblings unlike songah... she wasnt in his life when his ex cheated on her...
songah would have been selfish if she asked CHS to come to europe with her or find a job there... she never asked him to make a professional sacrifice and he didnt ask her either...
songah started having feelings for CHS just for few months and he has been liking her for more than an year so obviously he is more into her and she just started off... she was considerate of him and thats why she made herself and her decisions clear to him... she never gave him false hope... she clearly told she wont leave everything in the name of love... he is the one that said break up is not an option and they both managed to make the relationship last for 2 yrs...
also supporting songah dont have anything to do with feminism even though i am a feminist... a person can be a housewife and still be a feminist...
there is no guarantee that their relationship would have lasted till the end just because she didnt chose to go to europe... relationships are not predictable and it will end if its meant to end... also why should she sacrifice her career for a 2-month relationship? just because he is more in love with her doesn't mean she has to sacrifice her career to prove she also loves him... she does love him and she tried to maintain the long-distance relationship for 2 yrs... if she didnt care for him at all she would have simply broken up with him and went to europe and start a fresh life there...
she was already feeling guilty that he waited for her outside the office for hours even after she told him to go home... he tries his best and she might have felt the long-distance relationship is taking a troll on him and she broke up with him...
she considers his feelings and thats why she clearly told him where she stands and what are her takes on the relationship... she never tried to give him false hopes...
if she chose CHS over her career then there will be a set of people who will hate on the drama and her saying a woman's life shouldnt revolve around a guy and its 2021 and all that...
now that she made a practical decision she is selfish and dont care for CHS... if she didnt care about chs, she would have just broken up with him and went to europe... she clearly likes him enough to try to handle both her career and long distance relationship... they started dating just few months ago...
also even if promotion wasnt on the cards there is nothing wrong with wanting to have new experiences and wanting to work in a different country... working in the europe team clearly has its own advantages and it was said in the early episodes... the entire market and working experience is difference and it adds to her career growth...
there is a difference b/w a person who only knows how the south korean market works and a person who knows how both the south korean as well as european market works... the latter will always have an upper hand...
when i read the comments i though songah did something awful to chs...
she was clearly very open about where she stands... CHS made the choice to continue the relationship and try till the end...
we dont know what happened in those 3 yrs... going by how kdramas work, i think songah might have broke up with him because the long distance relationship was taking a troll on him and she felt guilty that he trying so hard so she broke up with him...
she gave him the freedom to walk out if he wants but he chose to stay and try out long distance and for 2 yrs it worked as well...
she just started having romantic feelings for him and he has been liking her for more than an year... so obviously they both are not on the same page but that doesnt mean she don't love him at all or she is selfish for choosing her career over her relationship with him... its not as she put him in the dark or hide things from him... she was very open about it and she did feel bad for him but he chose to continue the relationship and try till the end... maintaining a long-distance relationship for 2 yrs clearly means they both tried to work things out... if song ah didnt try then they would have broken up months after she went to Europe...CHS single-handedly cannot maintain a long distance relationship for 2 yrs...
when i read the comments before watching the drama i though she broke up with him just for the job but they broke up 2 yrs after she went to europe... so they definitely tried the long distance and seeing how these two are its pretty obvious that they both tried their best to maintain it...
just because she chose her career over her relationship doesnt make her a selfish person... there is a 3 yr leap and they broke up just an year ago... so their relationship did work for almost 2 yrs even after being long distance... she also might have tried hard to maintain it for that long...
my most fav died last season and i still wish she will be back from the dead as the same person and not as a new character...
which one is better to watch?