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the revelation personally ruined the drama for me.. its a healing drama dealing with mental health and they showed a mentally ill woman being a head nurse at a psychiatric hospital roaming around experts just for the suspense? now if they show that even the doctor is with her then its the last straw in the coffin..

i just hope they dont show DH and SB getting manipulated by YJ and stretching it.. it already only have 2 episodes left and they have been doing well for the past 5-6 episodes..

they should have just let YJ be the ex gf.. she was insecure and an inconsiderate girlfriend but had genuine feelings for DH.. she never respected him when he was her bf and the least she could have done is let him be.. he lost his job because of her and she got it back for him.. there was no need to make her the manipulative b**ch and even using his parents.. she had eaten enough screentime for 9 episodes..

he confessed and proposed her.. finally..

it atleast deserves 8.3 which is the standard rating for a decent drama... i guess after it get finished it will go up..

going by the preview it seems like they will kiss at the rooftop( if that was a rooftop).. there were candles, a surprise and it was night.. everything needed for a perfect kiss..

i see this many negative comments only on mdl.. on the comment section of kissasian or dramacool more than 80% of the comments are positive and after ep 9 almost all commets are positive.. even comments under the articles related to BR are positive.. it is no.1 on the official streaming site and has a steady viewership in korea.. so majority of the people who are watching it for real are liking it..

SB didnt bottled it up.. she clearly said she is not comfortable with his ex being around him at work but she has faith in him..

DH's mother is not pushy and she is someone who works.. not like YJ's mother who has all the time in the world to interfere in her daughter's life.. also YJ herself never wanted to meet his family and DH is someone who dont force her on anything.. but when she met YJ she was very nice to her.. it was YJ who didnt reciprocate and behaved distantly... SB dont behave like that.. if DH's mother was mean and rude she would have never swallowed her pride and kept quiet in front of YJ's mother.. like almost all the characters her loud nature makes people think she is very rude but she isn't..

EB is a teenager who grew up being laughed on for being poor and parent-less.. so obviously she will have the desire to make more money and climb the social ladder but she also worked hard for it. some of her choices were wrong and had poor judgement but she didnt chose any unethical ways to make money..

DH has a backbone and one dont need to be macho to have a backbone.. just because he chooses the non-violent ways to solve things dont mean he dont has backbone.. he stands up for himself when people cross the line too much.. he has a lot of patience so he dont get angry easily.. he dont waste his time on getting back at people, and it takes much more backbone to let go of people who are not worth it.. thats why he his still very civil with the boss.. its not because he dont know how to get back but because the boss is not worth it..

for what should SB need to apologize to DH?

people need to see comedy as comedy and dont use too much brain into it..
nobody takes ross's 3 divorce or pheobe's childhood seriously in friends.. if put in a melodrama then pheobe's childhood is quite tragic and nobody will joke about ross's 3 divorce..
the perspective of an action changes according to the genre of the drama or a movie.. hitting someone on the head in a comedy is different from hitting someone in a melodrama or a thriller..
people dont watch friends and game of thrones with the same mindset..

dont know ha seok jin, knows woo do hwan even though i havent seen any of his dramas and only seen my gf is a gumiho of lee seung gi.. i liked LSG in the clips of busted i have seen..

hyungsik and boyoung are literally human forms of puppies.. i dont think any other couple can be more cute than those two..

JCW looks taller than he is.. i first thought he will be above 6 feet.. i think the 2nd ML from healer is more than 6'2".. he towered anyone and everyone in that show.

i have seen 3 dramas of njh and liked her in all of that.. thankfully she didnt play the typical damsel in distress in any of them.. heard her last drama is good.. might give it a try.. she is one of my fav.. watch the bts of SP.. those two are amazing together and their kissing scene in SP is one of my fav kdrama kissing scenes..

that hyperactive behavior around DH is solely to gain his attention and her being totally infatutaed with him for almost a decade makes it kind of understandable.. besides most of the times DH plays along with it.. he also rarely behaves like a grownup around her..
i guess the only time it feels like she is younger than him is when she behaves that way.. else the age gap is not that visible..
i am not someone who has seen kyj play child artist so i dont really feel she is very young.. she looks matured for her age esp with long hair and no bangs.. she and moon ga young looks like of similar age even though the latter is 4 yrs older than her..

she did show her matured side when she left the job and genuinely wanted DH to be happy even without her in his life.. today also she kept her discomfort aside and though of whats good for DH.. she does behave maturely when needed..
she generally is a playful person so her being playful around DH is mostly not her being childishness but her real personality.. she is like that with puppy as well.. she is serious only during emotional scenes.. else she would be jumping around with or without DH.. the reason why the store saw an increase in customers is because of her chirpy and friendly nature.. everyone around the store likes her..
i guess since DH started reciprocating she tonned downed her hyperactive behavior around him as she is getting his attention without her trying for it..

i dont know the entire story of MMS but i didnt like the pairing or the synopsis.. heard its from the makers of swdbs and its one of my all time fav.. hyungsik and boyoung are my no.1 kdrama couple..
for me even if i like certain actors i wont watch a show just for their sake.. i the drama dont attract me i just dont watch it.. park bo young is my fav kdrama actress but the trailer and her pairing in abyss didnt attract me so i didnt watch it.. same with hyunsik.. i started watching suits when it was on-air but lost interest midway.. but they will still remain my favs and will cheack out any news related to them and i loved the movies they acted in after swdbs.. i miss hyungsik and looking for the day he comes back..
i liked PMY in whats wrong with secreatry kim but couldnt stand her in healer.. i didnt even see the chemistry everyone was talking about.. i guess she was the only 1D character in the show.. everyone else had more depth.. i really liked the 2nd lead guy as well.. he is so freaking tall.. he makes JCW look tiny..
more than the onscreen chemistry, i loved all those offscreen bits of NJH and JCW.. i totally ship them.. i have only shipped boyoung and hyungsik before that..

i never said puppy wasnt a good friend to SB but he was a childhood friend who came back to her life..you said in your previous comment that he was there for her all through the years which he wasnt.. thats all i wanted to say.. DH was there for her as much as puppy was there for her..
i didnt put DH's mother to put down puppy.. SB still has puppy as her friend and she is gonna have a great guy like DH so she clearly didnt loose anything.. as someone who grew up without a mother, DH's mother in her life means so much to her..
again there is nothing uncharacteristic of DH's mother.. except for being loud, she was never shown to be a mean lady.. she gets angry only on family members(esp her husband and daughter) when they dont appreciate her or look down on her.. DH's mother is also a very hardworking woman like SB and thats one of the main reasons she loves SB so much..

we generally meet good people more than bad ones or thats what i like to believe..
also its true that mostly its the good guys that get treated badly in a relationship like DH.. in my college life i saw good guys getting dumped more than the bad ones..
i havent seen MMS.. i watched the trailer and didnt like it.. if the main couple dont attract me then i usually dont watch that drama.. i didnt like JCW and the FL from MMS.. i saw some clips and it didnt interest me much..
i fast forwarded K2 of netflix just to see jcw and he looked so freaking good in it.. i personally dont like watching action dramas so i didnt watch it..
i tried watching healer 2-3 years ago and couldnt pass after ep7.. then recently i tried it again and somehow watched till ep 15-16 then dropped it.. for some reasons i just cannot stand the FL in healer.. JCW was good in it though..
i guess the reason why i loved SP so much is because i really like the lead couple.. i personally think NHJ looks the best with JCW..

in any of the dramas i have seen of him, he was never the rich entitled chaebol and thank god for that.. in SP he was well off but not filthy rich..
DH is the kind of character that can be seen around us.. i myself can name 2 or 3 guys who are similar to DH..

you do know that puppy meet SB after years and he wasnt even aware that his mentor passed away.. . the only people who was there for SB all along were her 2 best friends..
DH gave SB a chance even though he wasnt completely sure of her.. so yes DH and his mother would have given her a chance no matter what.. SB took that chance and built the trust.. thats why DH's mother trusted her even after reading everything.. she gave them enough reasons to trust her in those months she spend with them..

she was upset to herself and didnt give any hard time to DH over it and at the end was fine with him working with YJ.

she got beaten up so that the bullies will get self satisfaction and they will agree for a compromise which happened till they though SB called the cops..

SB never wanted DH to get involved in any of her troubles and give him a hard time over it.. even when she got scammed she never asked anyone's help.. thats how she is.. but anyway she opened up to him at the end..

DH's mother is DH's mother and that itself explains why she is nice to SB.. he clearly got all the good qualities from that woman.. she was super nice to YJ as well but its not her fault if YJ didnt reciprocate.. she would have treated YJ the same way.. there were more than enough scenes that showed why DH's mother is so affectionate towards SB.. they both had more than enough heart felt conversations.. infact SB opens up more to DH's mother than to DH.. good people dont need reasons to be good to others..

SB's sister didnt do anything annoying or irritating for the last couple of episodes.. she did want she did to make her and her sister's life better... its pretty traumatizing for a teenager to get bullied for not having a parent or for being poor..

YJ has the right to try on DH as he is not officially in a relationship but only after telling him that she cheated on him with her boss.. DH is clearly capable of handling that.. he knows how to reject her respectfully..

DH is already a nice guy with good morals and ethics.. his only weakness was how he was in the realtionship with YJ and he got pass that phase..

i guess DH takes after her..

i like her childishness with DH and his mother.. the girl clearly never had a chance to be immature and childish.. DH's mother treats her like a child coz she knows SB never got that kind of love from a mother.. DH's mother started treating her like that after the hospital scene.. before that she was nice to her but didnt treat her with so much love and affection..
after her father's death SB has to grow up and take responsibilities beyond her age.. so if she gets a relationship where she is the one being taken care of then its totally fine..
physical appearance wise i dont see much age gap b/w jcw and kyj.. kyj looks pretty matured for her age and jcw can easily pass off as someone in his late 20s..