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didnt MY's father meant MY's mother looks like an angel but is a monster?

the fiery priest is a good show.. if you watch it you will understand that the director kind of shot BR the same way but is not as good as FP.. both the shows have the same director..
parasite is an amazing movie.. you should give it a try when you get time..

i havent seen born again so dont know what happened there.. in iotnbo MY has a disorder and she herself dont know that her behavior towards others is problematic and the male lead knows that.. thats why he treats her the same way he treats his autistic brother at times.. he tells her whats wrong and right how parents tell their children.. so they are not romanticizing her behavior..
till now SB is not in love with DH and what she has is infatuation and admiration towards DH. since she never had any romantic feelings for anyone else she thinks she is in love with him.. but since its a kdrama and the genre is rom-com her infatuation will turn into love soon.. seeing how nice of a guy DH is, its not that hard for fall for him.. its DH's side i am more curious about.. how he will fall for her.. i guess he will start liking the attention and respect he gets from her.. its pretty clear that none of his previous girlfriends appreciated his kindheartedness and he was the only one completely invested in the relationship..

has YJ kept spy cam on DH to know YJ was touchy feely with him? except for the piggyback she never saw SB being physically close to DH.. so SB being physically close to DH has nothing to do with YJ's insecurities and not a justification for YJ's actions..
the drama is far away from the webtoon and even korean audience who has read the entire webtoon has forgotten about it and the show is only seeing increase in viewership.. so the webtoon is no more valid to crucify the show..
you know that way of showing affection is also part of someone's personality? some people dont like holding hands in public but some people dont mind.. it depends on their personality and comfort level.. SB is comfortable enough with DH and puppy to be physically close to them.. some people are physically close to people they are close to regardless of the gender of the other person.. she holds hand or keeps her hand of the shoulder of a person she is comfortable with regardless of their gender.. she gets comfortable with people easily and it is part of her personality.. her bright and friendly personality is one of the main reasons why the store saw increase in sale..

the purpose of the first 2 episodes were solely to make the viewers misunderstand SB the same way DH misunderstood her.. her entry into the store, her looking at the cash counter and cigarette packs were shot in a very shady way.. every misunderstanding everyone had on SB was cleared by now..

if her purpose was intact then she would have never left her job and never would have felt guilty for creating problems for DH..

again why the hell should SB leave her job right after knowing DH has a gf? you also clearly said she might not get job as good as this one.. as a young girl, DH's store is one of the best places she can work.. safety is a very important thing..


wash way sins for one character? she haven't committed any sins.. you are talking as if SB did some unforgivable crime and she got a free pass..
she did some stupid stuff while being blinded by her infatuation for DH but never meant any harm for anyone and backed out when she realized she was wrong..

watch the 2nd lead's cameo in its okay to not be okay.. he is amazing in it..

its not that easy to get a job and the struggle SB had to go through to find a job is shown in the show.. SB works at the store not simply because she has feelings for DH, she gave her 100% to that job and was very sincere towards her job.. even after knowing DH has a gf, she did her job with uttermost sincerity.. she does that with every job she did..
YJ didnt know SB had feelings for DH when she spied on DH in the 1st episode.. infact she didnt even know the name or how the parttimer looks.. then she secretly went to the store to check out the girl and misunderstood SB's friend to be SB.. went satisfied thinking that girl is not a competition to her as she isnt pretty enough.. then the moment she found out a pretty girl is working with her bf, accused her for bullying her with in seconds. when she accused SB she didnt know SB had any feelings for DH.. then when they met at the office, she was the one who showed SB attitude first and didnt even felt guilty for falsely accusing SB.. till now she had problems with SB only because she was insecure and she had no idea of SB's feelings.. till the piggyback scene YJ didnt had any valid reason to hate SB except for SB being pretty and working with her bf.. she herself was working with a guy who openly admitted of having feelings for her and she even hangs out with him outside work as well but cannot handle her bf working with a young girl..
you clearly said YJ and DH has problems even without SB in the picture then why is she made into the evil 3rd person in the relationship when she isnt.. YJ would have had a problem with any girl who works with DH.. i never said DH was not at fault.. his fault was never stating his uncomfortableness in the relationship and keeping himself second in the relationship apart from that he was nearly a perfect bf... gave her all the freedom she wanted, was always understanding towards her job and never was insecure of the fact that his gf earns more than him..
the biggest difference b/w YJ and SB is SB feels guilty when she does something wrong and is ready to rectify it but YJ dont.. till now YJ dont care for the fact that she cheated on DH and she ditched DH on multiple occasions for her own benefits but made DH feel guilty for even the smallest mistake he does. she pretends to be the perfect gf.. she even now accuses him of cheating and was downright rude to him.. on the other hand, SB is guilty of creating trouble b/w YJ and DH even if its unintentional and kept her distance..
also if she dont want her bf to be around someone she knows has feelings for him then why does she hang out with her boss? she should have also drawn the line.. she took into her professional life into consideration and her friendship with the boss but didnt care for the fact that due to SB, DH is also doing well professionally and that too after struggling for 6 months..
its easier for YJ to find another job than SB.. she is qualified and filthy rich and is good at her job.. then why wasnt she quitting her job.. she even went with the guy she cheated on right after breaking up with DH in front of his eyes.. that's absolutely insensitive and disrespectful towards DH..
the main point is she dont trust her bf and is highly insecure but wants herself to believe she is perfect and not ready to see her shortcomes... she is putting the entire blame on DH and SB..
also except for the first 2 episodes, SB didnt flirt with DH and she is naturally a touchy person.. she does the same with puppy as well.. she gets physically close with people she gets comfortable with.. she dont do that intentionally.. even DH is like that.. he gets quite close to SB when they are bickering..
dont judge SB based on the first two episodes which was clearly shot in a way to show SB in a bad light..

ya.. just checked his profile and he already has another drama airing along with iotnbo

havent seen that show..
i remember him the most in touch your heart..
he was also in swing kids

i just watched the fabricated city and sangtae oppa is the main villain in it.. i have only seen the actor playing funny characters.. he is good as a villain as well but i couldn't hate the villain solely because i love him as ST.. i loved him it touch your heart and when the camellia blooms..
he is amazing in iotnbo as well.. he portrays a person with autism so well.. i personally like his acting most in this drama after seoyeji..

the feisty girl and calm guy thing..

i just meant dont stress about the ratings when its not affecting the show in a bad way..
also the majority of the reviews are good.

why care about the rating when the show has only good reviews and keeping the views satisfied.. its a netfliz show and its doing well on netflix and tvn dont seem to have a problem with the rating.. also the rating havent affected the quality of the show either..

just because DH has a gf is not a reason for her to quit the job when she didnt had any intention of breaking them up.. she was good at her job and she was truly dedicated to her job.. she gives her 100% on any job she does.. its not her fault if YJ is an insecure person and has no trust on her bf and dont listen to anything he says and makes assumptions on her own.. if the role was reversed and DH was the insecure one, should YJ leave her job just because of DH dont like YJ interesting with her boss? should YJ leave behind everything she worked on just coz someone is insecure?
also just because YJ's father is not a primary character like YJ's mother in the show doesnt mean he has no hands in raising YJ or has no influence on her.. she is an only child so obviously she got all the attention from her parents considering how asian parents are..
just because she never had a one on one interactions with any of her friends doesn't mean she dont have any friends.. you need to be close enough to someone for them to show up instantly after going through a breakup.. the boss is also her close friend and she never drew any line b/w them even after knowing he loves her but she wants to control DH's interaction with other girls.. relationship is a two way street.. she wanted all the freedom but wanted to control DH's life.. thats not how a relationship works..

ya.. the parody thing is not for everyone and unfortunately the drama has more parody than comedy.. but then the show is mainly made for koreans and they get it and thats what matters for the makers..
also the dialogues exchanged by SB and DH while they are bickering are also funny..

i loved that movie..

its the exact same.. thats for sharing..
do you mean the umbrella scene from temptation of the wolves? i know that scene was shown in descendant of the sun and i saw dots before watching temptation of the wolves so at that time i didnt get it..

her dad was shown and DH saw the boss with YJ on her father's birthday.. so YJ grew up with both her parents.. her father was mentioned multiple times on the show and was even shows 1 or 2 times and it is her father that has the 2nd highest share at the company..
again YJ has a lot of close net friends and she was seen hanging out with them on two occasions.. she has friends close enough to be with her at night after her breakup..
for the last 10 episodes YJ was given as much importance and screen-time as SB and DH to the level some people questioned who the FL is and it was made pretty clear that YJ does have feelings for DH but she still wasnt sure about her relationship with him. so nobody really questions her feelings for DH but her behavior in the relationship.. she clearly dont respect him or trust him.. she made the entire relationship about herself and never had any consideration towards DH.. so its not like YJ's thought process or her pov was never shown in the drama.. there is no justification to the treatment YJ gave DH after the breakup.. she is the one who cheated on him and she called him a cheater based on her assumptions and showed no guilt for what she did.. (what happened to his parents was not her fault and i dont blame her for that).. how is having a controlling mother leads up to cheating DH.. her mother had nothing to do with her cheating.. she did that coz she was done with the relationship..
SB clearly has a lot of respect for the person DH is.. she acknowledges the goodness and kindheartedness of DH which most of the people sees as his weakness.. if her sole purpose was to break his relationship and have him for herself she would have never even thought of quiting the job and keeping her distance.. she kept her distance from him the moment DH told her not to cross the line and willingly stayed far away from him after YJ asked her to.. DH himself went to help her and DH's mother took her to their house.. so any interaction they had after the hospital was not initiated by her and she was completely out of the picture when YJ cheated on DH..

so true, if i have watched the fiery priest before this, i wouldnt have understood half the comedies.. i didnt get the imaginary fight b/w YJ and SB but ones i saw the scene from the world of married i found that scene really funny..

you do know that the background and age of a person are taken into consideration while giving judgment.. not everyone who kills a person gets the same number of years in jail as punishment.. at the end of the day killing is killing but still, the intensity of the punishment varies based on the circumstances and nature of the crime. if everything was black and white then the job of the judges, lawyers and prosecutors would have been so much easy..
the advantages of having a wonderful father are clearly shown in the characteristics of SB.. she uses her fist only when she is wronged and dont use it to bully people, she makes money by working hard and not by any illegal method, she has the sense of responsibility towards her sister. SB clearly has more good points on her side than bad.. a person's character is not solely based on their upbringing by their parents but other factors as well.. SB clearly has a higher sense of right and wrong than YJ..
except for having a controlling mother, YJ dont have any other weak points.. she is educated, financially strong and has a successful career.. she never had to face the harsh reality of life at a young age.. she got everything she wanted easily.. on the other hand, the only advantage SB had is a loving father and she lost him at a very young age.. she grew up without a mother, financial security or education.. also its not like YJ has an estranged relationship with her mother.. the only thing YJ has a problem with her mother is her controlling nature.. except that they seems to have a normal mother-daughter relationship.. almost all rich asian parents have problem with their children dating from lower social circle..

the girl clearly needs to grow and she dont think admiring him while he is asleep is invading his personal space.. infact half of the leads(esp male leads) regardless of the country dont know that. i have seen lead kissing the other lead who is sleeping and its shown to be romantic.. she at-least knew where to stop and didnt kiss him.. these kind of scenes were not invented by this show..