Replying to Qruuz • Sep 7, 2025
Title Heart Signal Season 8
I think you’re being a little unfair here. What you’re calling “red flags” could also just be differences…
The problem is not her being vocal about her opinions, but her trying to impose them on others. For example, she mentioned about adding her friend even after she deleted her multiple times. There's probably multiple scenarios that compiled/snow-balled for the friend to delete her, but in her conversation with Le Chen she was more focused on showing her "persistence" on getting the friend back instead of showing any willingness to understand her friend's pov. She also mentioned breaking up with her ex-boyfriend because he was willing to put in the effort to change and accomodate her but not at HER pace. This seems very self-centered because we are all adults who have lived our lives for most years based on own individual principles and that too changing at someone else's pace seems too controlling in my pov. If the effort is one-sided, then the other party keeps on expecting their partner to also change and that's not possible nor realistic for everything especially at the cost of your individuality and fundamental values. Also, does she even truly like him? She likes the version of him in her imagination, but not the real person. This is why Le Chen asks her what she thinks of him and finds her answer odd because that's not entirely who he is as a person. This is why it is puzzing for him and viewers on why she insists on liking him without even trying to actively listen and understand him like Yuan did. I am not blaming her for everything, but her values definitely do not align with Le Chen and she seems to view things more from rose-tinted glasses which is not feasible or practical and totally catered to her.
