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thank u for the rundown girl. wasnt really needed tho, unlike u, im not a law student, i acc hold a master of laws (professional degree), and ur comment is totally uninteresting. u know why? bc u responded to me in a reactive and defensive manner, to such a degree that ur not even addressing what i was talking about in the first place. did yall have philosophy of law yet? my comment addresses a topic within that area of study, and not criminal law. i was talking about issues surrounding morality of laws, not whether he’s legally guilty or not. i clearly stated in the beginning that i don’t have enough insight about the case. i was just saying that there’s no need to so viciously defend him like ur doing (to the point that u can’t even respond logically), nor is there any need to viciously hate on him. we don’t know what happened. all i know is that patriarchy enhanced by money can bring any woman down. we have seen it a million times, just as we have seen false accusations from vengeful women. however, in my country, women getting raped and not getting a ruling in their favor happens way more often than women making false accusations in court.

ur welcome😌 hope im not one of them🥹 but yes i completely agree!! im watching and loving this drama myself (and his performance) aka im supporting him. i didnt even know its been 9 years, thats crazy. i have never engaged a lot w the kdrama community, but this meeting w it makes me kinda sad with all the internalized misoginy

stick it out. they all pull themselves tg. i acc quite liked that depiction bc they redeemed themselves. i think it’s very human for both adults and youth to have an irrational and emotional initial reaction when something they care a lot about is threatened. it’s what y do after that that matters, and I think they solved it beautifully

and for the rape allegations. im not going to say anything about this specific case, bc I really have not heard about this case before, so I don’t know enough to make up on opinion. but I will say this: yall need to stop using a country’s laws as a moral standard. laws are NOT some perfect moral standard that have the power to undo a rape. rape is non-consensual intercourse period, in South Korea, Sweden, Brazil, everywhere. however, many countries’ laws do not reflect that AT ALL. unfortunately, laws reflect the biases of the lawmakers, and only 20% of Korea’s National Assembly are women. that in itself does not immediately equate unfair laws, BUT would sexual harassment be so widespread in korea if it wasn’t a culture for it amongst men? would 4B be a thing if women didn’t feel oppressed by the patriarchy in korea? i get that many of u like this actor, but don’t defend him if he doesn’t deserve to be defended at the expense of women. it’s only thru sisterhood we have managed to get our rights in a world that has always been oppressive towards us

the people commenting that the age gap is disgusting must be in their teens or early 20s. it’s good that u think such an age gap is disgusting bc some significant maturing needs to happen for it to not be disgusting (e.g. a 35 year old w a 20 year old. bc what does a man who could be a dad of three have in common w someone who barely just graduated hs???) HOWEVER, when ur past 25 and in ur late 20s (like FL), a 10 to 15 year age gap isnt really something most ppl think about a lot if the chemistry is there and u met organically

I just looove when the ML’s serious lawyer face is about to be compromised w a lil smile due to FL, and it looks like he’s fighting to hold back🥹🥹

She made that decision completely on her own, without even mentioning it or intending to mention it. and while it is her decision to make 110%, making it without consulting your partner and without trying to include them in the process so they can grieve is incredibly disrespectful in an established marriage. I understand why he couldn’t stay w her, bc the resentment from NOT being told
and not being involved would have ruined the happiest relationship, I think.