on ep 17 with the eng subs now, and i'm dying waiting for episode 18 for real. i was actually hoping for cheng lang and lin you to get together not because i ship them but because i thought it might help xiaoju get over him faster but i guess it wasn't meant to be for right now.
also, i live for shiyi and xiaoju's scenes, i want them to be together very badly. i have to say that i think people are being a bit unfair with bashing her for not noticing his crush on her. considering the fact that they've been friends since their senior year of high school and although he helps her like a LOT, she could still be viewing what they have as platonic. esp when you consider the way he teases her too. not EVERY m/f friendship has to turn romantic, but in their case, feelings have developed naturally and not overnight or anything on his side. he viewed her as a friend first before his crush started, which i love.
anyways, all i'm saying is shiyi never intended to approach her in a romantic way, it just slowly turned into that as his feelings grew. and since she's unaware of this, she doesn't think anything has changed between them. since it's only episode 17 for me i don't know how much longer she'll be unaware, i'm just saying it makes sense how from her pov they have a close friendship only.
this is so weird i've never seen any other series where they remake something and give the ml from the drama the lead but not the fl the same role. i'm curious does anyone know like.. why this exists? lol
my private life was one i avoided watching at first cause i had heard bad things but it was so good?? just proves you can't listen to EVERY review you hear. it was such a good progression of enemies to lovers and seriously strong and natural chemistry. also one of the only dramas i've been able to find where they don't act like a 30+ year old married couple after they officially get together, which is typically a problem in dramas. lol. anyway, anybody who is on the fence about my private life should watch! PMY and KJW killed it. :))
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also, i live for shiyi and xiaoju's scenes, i want them to be together very badly. i have to say that i think people are being a bit unfair with bashing her for not noticing his crush on her. considering the fact that they've been friends since their senior year of high school and although he helps her like a LOT, she could still be viewing what they have as platonic. esp when you consider the way he teases her too. not EVERY m/f friendship has to turn romantic, but in their case, feelings have developed naturally and not overnight or anything on his side. he viewed her as a friend first before his crush started, which i love.
anyways, all i'm saying is shiyi never intended to approach her in a romantic way, it just slowly turned into that as his feelings grew. and since she's unaware of this, she doesn't think anything has changed between them. since it's only episode 17 for me i don't know how much longer she'll be unaware, i'm just saying it makes sense how from her pov they have a close friendship only.