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They’re not saying that women shouldn’t earn more than men, they just don’t want their partner to earn more than them because they want to be a provider. Opting to be a housewife is nothing different from wanting to be a provider. And the link you do between wanting a provider and reducing women isn’t right either, there are a lot of social organisation who aren’t equal but have equity. Not everyone think that equality is the best, some people prefer having different roles in a household. Being provider is one of them as housewife. For someone who always dreamed of being the one who can provide his family, it might hurt to not be able to give all they would to because the women is above them, it’s not only ego. Everyone can feel small when they can’t give all they want to, and not wanting to feel that is a right, if they know that they’ll end up hurt, is okay to say no since the beginning.
They choose what they want. If you think that you should be equal with your partner, good for you but don’t impose you pov as something that everyone should follow.
It’s not because they’re from another country and that they think differently that we are better than them and that we know better than them what’s the best for them. If you think like that, sorry to tell you that you’re not thinking differently than a colonizer. Putting people mindset below your own, thinking that you know better than anyone else how they should live their life is not okay.
He has the right to know what he wants, he’s not forcing anyone to think as him, he just expressed what he wanted to be clear. He has to do this, no one should be forced into a relationship that he doesn’t want.
And trying to demonize a social organization is easy, all of them has flaws, even the equality one because real equality doesn’t exist.

i'm just defending an opinion.
everyone should have the right to decide what kind of family he wants. if they have the patriarchy mindset, so lets them find a partner who have the same mindset than them, its not hurting anyone nor any life.
personal belives and wishes is different from a governement restriction or inequality but i'm not here to explain all that.
One doesn't harm anyone and the other restrict people.

Its like the women who wants to be housewife, do we have to force them to work and be independant just because other women fighted for this ?? no. they fighted so we can choose.
And here the men can choose what kind of partner they want (as women should), not understanding that is insane.

if you think like that is good for you, but it’s not right to impose you’re mindset as the best of all.
if some man as woman want to keep the patriarchal family organization, they can do as they please and it’s okay to talk about these kind of topic before dating, they have to get to know each other values etc..
it’s not bad for a man to want to be able to provide his family or partner financially, if he doesn’t like the fact that he’s not the one being able to provide to his wife, it’s okay for him to say so before getting into a relationship. If his vision of being a husband or partner is to be reliable, provider etc.. why judge him ? everyone has his own perspective of life and duty. providing isn’t the same that making other follow.

We are in a era who is supposed to support liberty of thinking, expression, culture, it’s not because new family organisation are ‘appearing’ (they already existed before but I think that you get what I mean ), that everyone has to follow these new ways of thinking and abandon what they truly want think.

what I want to say is that the question is relevant, they have to know that because men who dont want to earn less than their partner exist which is okay, everyone has différents expectations and is important to know that before getting into the relationship.

happy birthday !!!

happy birthday !!!!!

they're active on instgram and youtube, they already announced their reunion last year.
here is their insta if you want :
dahee : https://www.instagram.com/dahye0612?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==
dongjin : https://www.instagram.com/dxseo_?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

her reunion drama with zhang binbin, is one of the most anticiped drama by the chinese audience since Rattan was a real hit in China.
coming to myself seems quite promising !
lets wait and see.

Someone who went in the same highschool than JH, explained that she was a role model, teachers praised her a lot and she was very hardworking!!
And didn’t expected less since a saw her story reveal, to follow such an elite path by her own work tells a lot.

Exactly, he said himself that he started to wonder if he could find someone better than her. I just know too well why she felt like she wasn’t good enough. He made her feel like she wasn’t worthy, not good enough for him. And even if he didn’t do that on purpose, he acted that way because he sincerely thought that there would be a better match for him than her.
It seems like he didn’t consider her being younger than him and stability in our 20s is not an easy thing ?? And even more in the acting field.
She doesn’t need to suffer with this kind of thoughts anymore. She must find someone who will heal her, made her understand that she can be herself whenever she’s happy or not.
Even if now he changed, it’s better for her to move on. He will be a better person to his next partner thanks to his mistakes with JH.

Stability wasn’t the only reason he broke up with her. If it was only about two different values and mindset I don’t think that much people would blame him.
However, in the text he send to JH to broke up with her, he said that she wasn’t the one he fell in love with anymore, because she was more negative, not that cheerful as before etc. Why would you say something like this to someone who’s living a hard time ? It’s like he only accepted a part of her but not all of her. You can’t attend someone to be positive all time, let alone a jobless person trying to change her life, how much stressful this period could have been for her ?
JH can’t be happy all time, as mariage cannot be only easy time.
If they have différents point of view on life, it’s not a bad thing to end the relationship before marriage. But if you can’t support your partner when he’s on the lowest, you shouldn’t come back when all is over.
So he’s coming back to her now that he knows that she’s teacher ??
Even if they end up together again, I think that JH will be afraid of not being positive with him, jobless again etc.. there are some mistakes who brakes trust. She shouldn’t get back with him for her own good.

i think that with her upcoming dramas her popularity is going to rise !

I thought a lot, Ji Hyun shouldn’t even get back with Won Gyu. He wasn’t there at her lowest, he doesn’t deserve to be there when her career is blowing up.
He wanted someone who match his statue but he didn’t find one with Ji Hyun’s personality, now that she’s stable, he wants to get back.
If Ji Hyun has another hard period again, he will leave, because he thinks too hight of himself.
Ji Hyun please, you should find another participant or leaving this show alone !!

She said that she was a jealous lover, so his female friends could have been an issue. But I also think that he did compare her with his female friend regarding her job and their stability (which she hasn’t in this though period), since he’s comparing her a lot with the female participants here, I can totally picture that.

Yess hopefully !!!
Im rooting for her !

I want Ji Hyun to be an actress again. She gained a lot of fans thanks to that show and she deserves it. Going to an elite path all by herself, I cannot imagine how hardworking she is.
Her background touched me tbh, they have to give her some scripts, I’ll be waiting for her.

Regarding Won Gyu, I just feel that he abandoned her at her lowest. A relationship isn’t always happy, there are hard times. He wanted her to be the happy girl he met, but she can be down too, it’s was an important period of her life and he just left her like that. I understand why she hated him, if I was her, I wouldn’t even bother to let him a chance. But I know that she still has some lingering feelings.. won Gyu must fight to win her back, because he says that he want her back but he doesn’t do anything.

I like the new male, finally there is a MAN here. The only one making moves and trying to get to know other female participant. I want him with Ji Hyun, he seems to be kind of straightforward, but I’m waiting to see more of him.

They were catfish so I guess it was to not spoil the show

park jiwon and bonhee are my favorites

Your welcome !

i was thinking about won kyu 's calmness when he was talking to jiyeon while Ji Hyun was hiding. And there are my thoughts, won gyu didn't react because he doesn't care at all and doesn't mind Jiyeon knowing who his ex is. I think that he has good time with her but he is still in love with his ex.

I rewatched all the ep to see him and ji hyun interactions, the way he talks and he looks at her is totally different (which is normal because she's his ex) but there is still tension between them, real chemistry giving married couple vibe.
Him and Ji Hyun are clearly jealous of each of their interaction with other participants. And we can see that there is still some lingering feelings even if they're trying their best to move on.

Concerning Jiyeon, i already said that i didn't like the way she's always trying to hurt her ex. Regarding a possible relationship with won gyu, i don't think that it'll last since we already saw how cold he can be ( lets not imagine without the camera), and she might not acccept this kind of treatment since she seems to be someone who lead the relationship.
She's actually the dominant with Won Gyu, but he doesn't seem like a guy who is dominated in a relationship. He's not his real self with her yet, but they'll not last for long even if they end up together.

i don't understand chinese but there is a video of them promoting the drama !! : https://weibo.com/tv/show/1034:5226056089796699?from=old_pc_videoshow