Yes I am on the same boat..... of trying to understand why he would throw back her attempt at reconciliation in…
It was bad and while I wasn't as mad at him as some because I felt he cared more than he admitted, I also thought it would take a lot for him to redeem himself. But I softened quite early and I hope he succeeds soon😂
He didn't believe she loved him. He thought she was acting. He only realized she was sincere when she asked for…
My first thought when he pulled out his research on her and slapped it on the table was that he was on the defensive. Guilt can make you blind. He has too much pride and arrogance. He went into full mode. As Haochen keeps telling him, he needs to apologize.
He didn't believe she loved him. He thought she was acting. He only realized she was sincere when she asked for…
It was brutal. I almost abandoned him if not for the feeling I got from previous episodes. Also, just watching Xu Yan with his family especially with Haochen, how can he not feel something for her? He showed empathy and care for her when he noticed her sadness looking at a height chart in one of the episodes. Also, when I watch his face in the hospital scene when she talked about happiness in childhood and its effect on adulthood, he stared at her as if he sensed her emotions. He was appreciative of her for taking care of Haochen. And when I look at his character I don't see any evil to explain the way he mockingly hurt her in ep 14. All I can think is that the director felt he had to make this bad enough for the next arc to be more effective. Perhaps this is the reason his character was shown to be good in many ways before this. I wish they had shown his expression flicker in hesitation in ep 14 for moment but they made it brutally blunt. But not too long after, the memories came back to haunt him just as he explained in ep 20. I am looking at the whole picture, but I can understand those on the other side. I started forgiving him when I saw him sitting in his chair looking dejected with Xu Yan's text message in his hand.
He didn't believe she loved him. He thought she was acting. He only realized she was sincere when she asked for…
Sometimes it takes someone leaving for you to know how much you love them. And even if you know you have feelings for them, you don't know until happens how it feels not to have them in your life. He also didn't trust her and though he had his feeling under control.
I believe Haoming because I felt he always loved her before he said it. Watching one scene in ep 14 no matter how horrible, does not negate the others that made me feel he cared.
I am 100% with you! Of course, his words in ep 14 were brutal, but I knew it had to be to set up the next arc. However, I never felt he did anything to her that made him unredeemable and he had me when he turned off the AC💗 He also showed tenderness to her throughout the first arc. And he did not fake that look when he saw her looking so beautiful in her wedding gown. People make mistakes. He overestimated himself in his arrogance and she left him to his dismay. I love the way this drama takes situations where the viewers and even the characters think the person is putting on an act but the words are actually from the heart. Everything Haoming said in front of the other couple and Steve was his reality.
Shen Hao Ming is starting to crack me up! He went to little world to pretend he's abroad. William Chan is such…
That was hilarious especially when he asked his assistant to edit the pictures. Then he looked so smug with his sunglasses walking out the door only to undo all his hard work in a split second 😂
I think grandma can do the trick! He needs to go and have a honest humble conversation with her. Grandma will…
I am hoping for this. Many of the scenes I envisioned have come to past and this is one of my greatest wish in terms of Haoming finding truth. I want so badly for him to learn about Yan's childhood. But I think he needs to first open up to Yan Yan fully before hearing all of it. He already loves her. But he needs to apologize before he finds out about her past. That needs to come from within him and not as the effect of hearing about her painful childhood.
There is no way he could fake all the close moments pre divorce era. When Haochen showed Xu Yan a picture of Haoming looking lost as he misses her, that was a clear indication. Haochen is the voice of reason. I love the way the drama uses him for clarity to voice the truth that the adults will not admit to themselves.
I keep trying to watch this and cannot get into it. Would I miss much if I skip to ep 3?
One of my favorite drama was so hard to get into because the beginning kept going from present to past and made my head spin. On rewatch ep 1 makes so much sense. I will push through with this. I am watching Love's Ambition at the moment and it is tough waiting for more episodes so I want to give this another try. I was instantly hooked with Love's Ambition. Some dramas grab you from the start😂
I wish they had shown his expression flicker in hesitation in ep 14 for moment but they made it brutally blunt. But not too long after, the memories came back to haunt him just as he explained in ep 20. I am looking at the whole picture, but I can understand those on the other side. I started forgiving him when I saw him sitting in his chair looking dejected with Xu Yan's text message in his hand.
Oh yes. There is on part I mentioned that was in a later episode but even so, it just validated my thoughts.
I believe Haoming because I felt he always loved her before he said it. Watching one scene in ep 14 no matter how horrible, does not negate the others that made me feel he cared.