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Gosh, do I watch today's episode or do I wait until Thursday... decisions decisions.....

Someone said on this comment thread that Bai Xi will probably want Bai Shou to remember Bai Xi as the gentle and loving sister and not the evil Fu Ling who killed their father and continuously try to hurt Bai Shou. I think maybe she will die protecting Bai Shou in a way and not succumb to the poison even if it is killing her.

How can anyone rate this drama a 1/10 and still watch up to episode 24? If it was really that bad, wouldn’t you have dropped it way earlier? A 1/10 would mean there’s nothing redeemable about it, but honestly, this drama has so much going for it.

The characters, for one, are far from one-dimensional. The FL is incredibly strong and resilient, and her journey shows how she rises above everything thrown her way. Yeah, her forgiving nature might not be for everyone, but it shows a level of depth and maturity that’s hard not to respect. The ML might not be the typical romantic lead, savior of the day, knight in shining armor all the time, but he clearly admires her independence and strength. Their dynamic is subtle and layered—it’s not some over-the-top romance, but it feels real. That’s what makes it stand out for me.

Then there’s the way this drama handles difficult themes, like Sheng Yi’s struggles with abuse and insecurity. Sure, her decisions can be frustrating, but they’re a reflection of her reality. It’s messy, and that’s the point—it’s showing how hard it is to break free from a cycle like that. The drama doesn’t sugarcoat things, and that makes it more relatable.

The pacing might be slower than some people like, but it mirrors the real challenges of rebuilding a life—it’s not supposed to be easy or quick.

A 1/10 just feels overly harsh. Clearly, you stuck around for a reason, so there’s something about the show that kept you watching. It’s okay if it’s not your favorite, but it definitely doesn’t deserve to be written off like that!

You’ve summed it up so well! Mu Dan and Sheng Yi’s relationship is such an interesting contrast. Mu Dan’s strength comes from knowing her worth and having the skills her mother taught her, while Sheng Yi’s lack of self-worth and constant need for validation make her story so heartbreaking. Her betrayal wasn’t malicious; it was more about her not knowing who she is without someone else defining her.

I also love how the show respects that women can want different things. Both Mudan and Shengy's wants are valid, but their inability to understand each other makes it clear their paths can’t align anymore. It’s sad but feels like the right move for their story. I don’t love or hate Sheng Yi either, but I do feel so sorry for her—she’s such a tragic, layered character.

I totally agree with you! JCY was definitely intrigued by Mudan when they first met in the temple, but over time, you can tell he kept falling harder and harder for her. It’s not just that she’s beautiful—it’s her strength and resilience that really got to him. Every time he saw her pushing through everything she’s been through, his feelings just seemed to grow deeper.

And with Mudan, at first, she was just grateful for his help, and there wasn’t really anything romantic there. But you can totally see the shift happen—like when he became her creditor and kept showing up, especially for those late-night snacks. Those little moments started to mean so much, and you can see it in her eyes that she started seeing him differently. It’s so sweet watching her walls come down little by little. Letr's see who becomes a dog first LOL

After today's episode, don't tell me Shengyi is going back to that of a bastard husband Wang Qin. That man is never going to change even after being humiliated like that by our Mudan. I am feeling as frustrated as Mudan is. I really can't defend Shengyi anymore. Like, you made the mistake of going back to him once and see that he isn't going to change- you have a choice now, please, girl, LEAVE HIM!

I agree! I get frustrated too, when the ML isn’t there to help, especially when the FL is in a dire situation. Sometimes I just want that 'knight in shining armor' moment, and honestly, it would be nice to see her get that more often than she does.

But, I think the story is trying to show how capable the FL is. From the start, we’ve seen her handle tough situations on her own. She’s smart and strong enough to turn things around without always needing someone to save her, which I think is pretty refreshing.

Also, the ML has other priorities right now. It’s clear that his focus is on his bigger plans, which is why he’s not always around for her. That doesn’t mean he doesn’t care—it’s just that saving her isn’t his main focus. But I have a feeling we’ll see them working together more- can't get enough of their antics, putting on acts. As their problems start to overlap (like how in today's episode, MD is going after the same people as JCY), I think they’ll realize they’re better off working as a team.

Season 2?

I was thinking she might even go crazy and kill off Wang Qing 🤷‍♀️

Ji Yun and Eun Ho gives me butterflies but I have second lead syndrome. I really like Su Hyeon. Also visually her and Eun Ho looks good together too 🤦‍♀️

Apart from Sa Ding Ding's ost in here, Bu Cai's "Under the moon" is also really good. It really is so sentimental and carries a sense of yearning and longing 😭

Is it just one episode today?

I also don't understand the hate towards Sheng Yi either. My feelings toward her were mostly pity because she was stuck in a deeply abusive relationship with a man who would beat the shit out of her for even minor defiance. She's hurt and broken, and that kind of trauma doesn’t just vanish simply because she met Mudan, who offers her warmth, love, and care. Sheng Yi definitely has a lot of growing to do, but what really prevents her from becoming the person we want to see her to be is Wang Qing's constant reappearance and manipulation.

To us, it might feel like she's betraying Mudan or setting her back by going back to Wang Qing, but from her perspective, those years of abuse left scars that never fully healed, making it easier for her to fall back into old patterns. She’s incredibly realistic in this way because, sadly, women like her exist in the real world today. It’s heartbreaking, but also a reminder of the complexity of trauma and how it really affects someone’s actions. Al in all, I really do hope that Sheng Yi does eventually learn and grow and realize that Wang Qing is a pice of shit

coincidence? lol. the fact that her actual name is bai XI.

Lol. Agreed. atp in the drama, wouldn't there be another ost at the same level of emotion as it is for SDD to be used. Either way, I love SDD ost so I can't really complain anyway.

Done! lol. I forget sometimes that not everyone is caught up 🤦🏻‍♀️

Honestly, I get it—Fu Ling is evil. She’s done so many horrible, unforgivable things that redemption feels impossible. But now that it’s confirmed she’s actually Bai Xi, it makes you wonder—what really happened to her? And yeah, she can be so annoying sometimes, always pulling these sinister moves and causing chaos left and right. But even with all of that, I just can’t bring myself to hate her. Instead, I feel this weird sense of pity for her. If she’s been manipulated by the "Eternal" or is it that she is surrounded by all these terrible people who’d kill her at the first sign of weakness, it makes you wonder if she’s just been living in constant fear. She's probably going to have a redemption—but not a full “I’m good now” moment, but maybe a tragic one, like sacrificing herself to make up for everything. It’s sad, but at this point it is the only way her story can end.

You know who’s really getting annoying now? Chong Zhao. He’s so convinced he’s this righteous savior, always acting like he’s doing the noble thing by being a double agent. And let’s not forget how he keeps acting like he’s the only good thing in Bai Shou’s life, as if she can’t make her own decisions or find strength without him. At least Fu Ling knows she’s evil and doesn’t hide behind a facade. But with Chong Zhao, everything feels fake, like he’s projecting this image of being the “good guy” while ignoring the consequences of his actions.

I really need Chong Zhao to take a hard look at himself and realize he’s not as righteous as he thinks he is. And that not everyhting is black and white. He needs to stop thinking he’s above everyone else and start considering other people’s feelings—especially Bai Shou’s. Like boy c'mon, I am trying to like you lol

Exactly! Like what more does it take for him to see she don't wanna go anywhere with him.

Oh no! Why can't tragedies just happen without the death of any loved ones of Mudan. She literally needs a break for like the entire drama 😭

I’m in love with the ost 🥰