The First Frost

BEST ROMANCE DRAMA EVER

i think one of the reasons why i love the first frost so much is because they portray the intimacy of being in love so intricately like you can feel the melancholia and the longing they have for each other so intensely and a very few shows are able to capture that. THE FIRST FROST having forced proximity,second chance and slow burn romance tropes,REAL yearning,stolen glances,delicious angst,insane visuals,outstanding actors,beautiful cinematography and heartwarming osts and the perfect pacing; thats MY drama.
The cinematography of The First Frost is truly praiseworthy, as if it came to life from the pages of a book. It enhances the nostalgic atmosphere of the cdrama. More people should recognize how stunning it is.

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First Frost - A Visual, Emotional and Introspective MASTERPIECE!!!!

I loved FF from start to finish. It just doesn't get any better than this. Here's why:

The chemistry between the leads simmers beneath the surface, subtle and slow-building—like a spark held just out of reach. It’s the kind of connection that grows with quiet glances, lingering silences, and the ache of what’s left unsaid. Every interaction carries an undercurrent of tension, an emotional gravity that pulls them together even as the story holds them apart.

There’s a tenderness in their restraint—a sense that they’re constantly on the edge of something deeper, something inevitable. When their walls finally crack and feelings come rushing in, it’s not sudden—it’s earned. Their love doesn’t explode; it *unfolds*—carefully, beautifully, like watching dawn break after a long night.

The slow burn makes every moment matter: the brush of a shoulder, the flash of jealousy, the shift from strangers to something infinitely more intimate. It’s a romance that feels not only believable, but deeply felt—one you don’t just watch, but *yearn* for alongside them.

This stays with you long after you have finished it. It's just magical :)

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First Frost is not for everyone!!

I never write any reviews publicly; this is the first since I had written notes about this drama on my phone, so I thought of sharing them here.

Love is rarely a straightforward path—it is often tangled with misunderstandings, regrets, and the lingering weight of the past. With that said, love alone cannot guarantee a happy ending. The First Frost perfectly captures the fragile nature of love—one that is hard to coax but even harder to forget.
Wen Yifan and Sang Yan shared a deep but unspoken affection for each other in their youth. Though they never put their feelings into words, they both understood what was in their hearts. When the time finally came for Sang Yan to confess, Wen Yifan ruthlessly rejected him, leaving him alone in the rain—like a loyal dog abandoned by its owner.

I won't be too detailed about their characters because it might take me too long praising how wonderful they are. Sang Yan is indeed a green flag, but someone that you will not find in reality. He have the capabilities and willingness to do everything for her. But imagine if he grew up in a different environment, like not a lovely family? Or what if he isn't wealthy? Would he be able to do anything that he did? I doubt. But I guess Sang Yan will opt for an alternative. What am I trying to say here is that he's too good to be true. Let's be real that you cannot find someone who have both the same level of capabilities and willingness of Sang Yan. Some may have the will, but no capability to do so. Some may have the capability, but get tired easily. Some may have both, but you can't expect them to reach Sang Yan's level. Because he set it too high!!

Wen Yifan, on the other hand, was said to be weak by the other audience but in actuality she's just reserved and hyperidependent; even with all those that happened to her, she still stood tall. In the first few episodes, her innate loneliness aura deeply resonates with me. I remember that when Zhong Siqiao called her, Wen Yifan just listened. She just stood there inside the train, listening but not saying anything. I don't know but that single scene entirely captures her loneliness. That reason alone made me continue watch it. Her eyes speaks so much sadness, no words needed.

Anyway, they finally meet again after few years, but for Sang Yan, it never felt like they had been apart. Throughout the years, he kept his silent promise—to always be there for her, even if it meant flying back and forth between Yihe and Nanwu. Just as he had once traveled from Nanwu to Beiyu every weekend during their sophomore years to accompany her, he continued to go out of his way for her without expecting anything in return. Despite being rejected and treated as a 'backup plan', it didn’t matter. As long as he could watch over her, even from a distance, that was enough.
His love ran so deep that he was willing to let his own special moments slip through his fingers just to witness hers, like missing his own graduation to watch her's. (This is top tier but actually creepy in reality haha)

Even as she pursued her career as a journalist, Sang Yan remained her silent supporter. Every article she wrote, he made sure to buy directly from a newspaper stall in Yihe. I really love how he still did it even though it's not guaranteed that WYF will see his effort.

On the day of her resignation, Wen Yifan found herself mindlessly staring at a strawberry cake—her favorite. Yet, she didn’t buy it. It wasn't because she couldn’t afford it, but because she believed she didn’t deserve good things. This belief had been forced upon her by her terrible aunt, who had ingrained in her mind that she was unworthy—even of something as simple as a bowl of chicken soup.

To Wen Yifan, Sang Yan was the best thing in the world while she wasn't, which was precisely why she pushed him away. She convinced herself that she would only burden him. She knew his personality—knew that he would go to great lengths for her, flying back and forth between cities just to be by her side. What she didn’t know was that, despite her rejection, he still did.

Their story isn't only about rekindling a lost romance. It is about learning to love oneself to fully able to love another without fear and hesitation. To demonstrate one's love, it doesn't require grand romantic gestures; sometimes, you can find it in quiet and awkward moments—stolen glances, silly actions.

Sang Yan prove it that love, no matter how difficult it is to coax, is worth the patience it demands. As Wen Yifan's reluctance to embrace love is deeply rooted in her past, Sang Yan were able to melt her cold defenses with his silent but warm affection—one that is filled with respect, understanding, and consideration0.

After they became roommates, he appears cold yet his actions speaks otherwise. Afraid that the intensity of his love might scare her away, he could only expresses it in quiet and imperceptible ways; even if, in her pespective, he was seen shameless.

It might seem shameless, but for Sang Yan, it is his way to make up for the opportunites he once missed. After all these years, he never loved anyone but her. And for her, it was also the same. Yet, for Wen Yifan, loving—and being loved—was never easy.

It may have seemed selfish for her to accept his warmth then running away without returning it. But in truth, she was selfless. She let him go, giving him the chance to choose someone better—even if it meant she would be left alone once again.

This was reflected in the way she lived—unbothered, in a small and unkempt apartment—despite having the means to afford a better life. It wasn’t about money or circumstances; it was about the belief that had been ingrained in her for years—that she didn’t deserve anything good. That his love was never hers to keep.
She believed she was a burden—someone no one would ever make an effort for. Who would dare love a woman covered in callouses from the scars of her past? Yet, for him, loving her was breathing—effortless, instinctive, and without hesitation. It wasn’t just love; it was unconditional devotion that only Sang Yan can do.

No matter what, he was always there to catch her. No matter how long it took, he would make sure she knew she had a home to return to. So, when she ran away, he never resented her. He simply understood. Even after all the time they had spent together, he realized how little he truly knew about her world. But it wasn’t because she had hidden it from him—it was because her life had always been like a cage, so small that she could only run in circles, forever trapped by her past. Hence, when she finally broke free and ran toward something new, he understood even if it means leaving him behind. What angered him was not her leaving, but the realization that he had been blind to it all along. He had always thought he was by her side, watching over her from the distance—yet, in the end, she hadn’t trusted him enough to fully open up. That was his failure.

When she was gone, she fought the battles within herself. Without facing them, she knew she could never love him the way he deserved. Before she could coax his heart, she had to first learn to coax her own. That's why, you have to treat yourself well, and the world will hold more love for you.

In comparison to the novel, I might have expected a different ending, wishing that they would sneak a wedding clip, but the ending is undeniably portrayed well. Among all the drama with wedding as the ending, I never thought that ending it with a proposal feels this good. It didn't only looked good, but actually made me feel things. I feel proud as if I contributed in making the proposal be successful. Bai Jingting and Zhang Ruonan acted so well that I totally forgot it's a drama and not their reality.

The cinematography is immaculate as well with the sun almost setting, and the added scenes of other characters giving their blessing to their marriage made me cry more. I thought proposal is just for formalities so I never really think of it as special, but this scene just gave me butterflies. I thought, how nice it is to be proposed with so much effort and consideration. Sang Yan didn't need to kneel down, which actually suited his character, but them sitting in the classroom where their romance started to bloom feels so special. He wasn't wearing a suit, but a school uniform, because to him, their high school life wasn't just a phase but a symbol of their romance. Those little things made it so extra special and authentic for me.

Lastly, as someone who easily get cringed whenever I see an unnecessary scene and if the actors would overreact or if they're too underwhelming; for instance, even if they're on the background, they should still act naturally. In other words, I'd like it if everything is logical and natural. Nevertheless, First Frost never made me feel awkward. Although I can feel their awkwardness, I just think that it was so natural and it has the right amount of it. Like, they portrayed it so well that it made me love their awkwardness and sillyness. (the subplot is little annoying at first but it's because I always crave for SY and WYF momsnts, so it needs to be rewatch with much patience)

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I'm not sure I'll ever move on from Sang Yan's love for Yifan.

Best contemporary melodrama I've ever seen

==Breakdown==
Background plot - 35%
Romance - 50%
Misc comedy - 15%

Background plot - Interesting
Romantic chemistry - OFF THE CHARTS AMAZING
Misc comedy - Cute
Production value - Good

The story is about a girl who is naturally quiet, thoughtful, and reserved who experiences a period of intense trauma (outside of her control). About a year before this period of trauma, she meets a boy and they are smitten with each other, although not overtly. It has lovely first-love and young-love vibes throughout as their history unfolds through short flashbacks at the beginning of each episode.

The bulk of each episode takes place in present day, where the woman and man encounter each other 6 years after she abandons him and breaks his heart (her reasons are explained fully by the end of the drama and make total sense / feel very real and authentic).

The casting for both the FL and ML was perfection.

The FL character is ridiculously adorable. She's not "cutesy" at all. There's no baby voice (in fact, her voice is soft and deep) but she's so darn wholesome and adorable, I often wanted to put her in my pocket and protect her from the world. And that makes watching her ordeal all the more difficult.

The ML character is played by the lead actor to absolute perfection, balancing on the line of "I'm angry with you for breaking my heart" with "I care deeply about you and want you to be safe and well." I was impressed with his delivery. One second he's giving her the most heart fluttering look of pining and longing, and then in the next moment he's arrogantly insisting she finish his left over porridge because he hates to waste food.

Their story was so good because it was clear that Sang Yan truly loved Yifan and cared about her, regardless of whether they ended up together or she ever wanted to date him. He did things in secret in order to ensure she was taken care of and safe. He felt she deserved the best, even if she never chose him. This doesn't make him a push-over, these actions demonstrate how truly exceptional his character is.

The author cleverly introduces several other male characters who all show interest in Yifan, but are clearly more interested in dating her/what they can get from her than her well-being. They mansplain, they strut, they try to make their feelings her problem. Sang Yan never does this, but rather disguises his feelings by coming up with excuses for the kind things he does so as not to make her feel pressured.

I've enjoyed a few contemporary Cdrama romcoms, but haven't (hadn't) yet found an adult contemporary romantic melodrama that I could stomach. As an aside, I typically don't enjoy adult contemporary romantic C-melodramas. Usually, the plot suffers from the infusion of Chinese government propaganda and is centered around how great China is (because one of the show's main characters-- usually the guy-- has a job as a "selfless hero," like a firefighter, policeman, soldier, etc. all in service to the greater good that is China). But this one had absolutely none of that, thank God. I think it was a much better story overall because it lacked the propaganda rampant in the genre.

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Beautifully healing…

Personally, I’m not one to watch too many modern shows however I made this exception for BJT after seeing him in Destined.

I’ve never seen Hidden Love so I have nothing else to compare it to, however I feel like anyone watching The First Frost or Hidden Love should watch these two without any biases.

I thoroughly enjoyed every single thing about The First Frost. Our female lead, Wen Yifan portrayed by Zhang Ruo Nan did an exceptional job. As humans we all have our past and there are things that we rather leave behind, Zhang Ruo Nan did a such a good job at showcasing how someone with such traumatic past behaves. She is not your typical walk in the park female lead who going to have the upbeat personality, she isn’t bubbly nor is she going to be outspoken (at first) and that’s okay. At first I didn’t like how she wasn’t outspoken, but after experiencing all the thing she’s gone through and how so many people silenced her, why say anything else if they won’t stand by you. I began to understand her as a character and felt true compassion, every action that she has decided on is basically to protect herself. She’s flawed, but she’s also willing to allow herself to be free from her past. Her character is probably one of the best character growth that I’ve seen that felt organic with each episode.

Now for our male lead, Sang Yan who portrayed by Bai Jing Ting, he did such an impeccable job. He blew me away in Destined so I knew he would deliver as Sang Yan, and he sure did. Bai Jing Ting was able to convey so much love and patience towards the female lead. Even in times when he was at a lost for words to comfort our female lead, his eyes spoke so loudly for him, his actions that he did for her went beyond all measures out of care and love.

I truly like this show because it’s not all fluff and light, The First Frost appealed to me because it felt realistic and organic. The emotions that these two characters gave to the viewers is one that I’ll always remember. To be able to help each other, comfort each other and to help each other heal — it truly warmed my heart. I enjoy seeing broken characters who end up healed in the end, that’s just my cup of tea. However this may not be for you if you don’t prefer heavier subjects and want full fluff. But if you want an actual storyline that showcases the romance evolving beautifully, this is for you.

As someone who mainly enjoys seeing characters cultivate and immortals fight each other, this is the first (hopefully not last) modern show that I will have to give a solid 10/10 respectfully.

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the definition of " i will always be there for you even you don't see me"

" Tell me, were you sent by my dad to take care of me? " Wen Yifan asked. "No, I volunteered." Sang Yan replied.

The First Frost is a heart warming story about two young people who met at high school and they had a crush on each other, but life wasn't fair enough, so they don't met for like 7 years, then became accidently a roommates !
our ML is Sang Yan is a handsome confident man who had a crush on his highschool friend " Yifan" a beautiful and talented girl and she seems to have feelings too but her life was complicated enough as after her father died, her mom abandoned her to get marry again and sent her to relatives, that's how Yifan find herself in her aunt's house where ahe gets the truma of her life " poor girl". any way San Yan and Yifan decided to go the same collage but suddenly she tells him she don't want to see him again in that heartbreaking scene..
after about 6 years, they met again but this time as roomates by accident and it's finally when you should hold your breath and get ready because all the secrets will be revealed and with every episode, we get to understand the past and why she broke up with him like this. and did they really moved on?
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with each flashback in every episode, your hear will grow warmer because these two had the most beautiful and heartbreaking story ever!
but no worries cuz the ending is so beautiful too.
and for us " Hidden Love" fans , thia story tell us about Sang Yan who is is the older brother of San Zhi which is soooo warm cuz i swear to god i was so curious about him since Hidden Love.
i loved everything about this drama and i don't know how I'm gonna move on! so probably gonna rewatch soon :)

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"Love that Waited, Pain that Endured: The First Frost’s Silent Strength"

In a television landscape often dominated by conventional storytelling, The First Frost emerges as a breath of fresh air — a drama that trades fast-paced plots for emotional depth, and grand romantic gestures for quiet, patient love. It is a drama about trauma, recovery, and the slow journey of healing, all wrapped within the emotionally rich romance between Sang Yan and Wen Yifan.

The love story between Sang Yan and Wen Yifan is not one born of fantasy, but of real, lived emotional experiences. Their reconnection is marked by unhealed wounds and years of silence, and what follows is a process of rediscovering each other through empathy, patience, and emotional intelligence.

Sang Yan, portrayed with understated brilliance by Bai Jingting, is not your typical romantic hero. He is steady, warm, emotionally intelligent, and, most importantly, patient. His love for Wen Yifan is never performative; it’s quiet yet powerful, rooted in understanding and genuine care. His journey — from a heartbroken teenager confused by a painful breakup to a man willing to set aside his pride to protect the woman he loves — is a masterclass in nuanced emotional writing. Bai Jingting brings layers to the character: vulnerability, restraint, and fierce devotion. His performance, particularly in pivotal scenes such as Episode 27, is a standout — communicating anguish, fear, and love with just a glance.

Zhang Ruonan as Wen Yifan delivers a quietly devastating performance. Wen Yifan is a complex character — traumatized, guarded, yet fiercely trying to survive in a world that has not been kind to her. Ruonan’s portrayal captures this duality: the dead-eyed stares of someone numbed by pain, and the flickers of warmth when she begins to trust again. Her arc — from a woman running from her past to someone finally learning to stand tall in spite of it — is executed with grace and empathy. Zhang Ruonan makes Wen Yifan not only believable but deeply relatable, especially to those who’ve known what it means to live with invisible wounds.

The core of The First Frost lies in how it explores healing not as a grand moment of catharsis, but as a slow, often painful, and deeply personal process. Wen Yifan’s trauma is not something love instantly cures, and Sang Yan’s devotion is never about "fixing" her. Instead, the drama beautifully illustrates what it means to hold space for someone else’s healing. Their relationship is defined not by romantic highs but by emotional intimacy: shared silence, gentle confrontation, late-night conversations, meals cooked and eaten in quiet company. They grow, stumble, and slowly learn how to coexist with their pain while reaching for something better together.

Flashbacks to their youth further enriches their bond, showing the youthful innocence they lost and the maturity they gain. Sang Yan’s POV moments at the end of several episodes serve as emotional anchors that allow us to fully empathize with his quiet but unyielding love.

Visually, The First Frost is a work of art. The cinematography — soft, grounded, often wistful — perfectly mirrors the emotional tone of the drama. The use of natural lighting, muted color palettes, and subtle framing adds texture to each moment, especially during emotionally charged scenes. The soundtrack deserves its own praise — emotionally resonant, unobtrusive, and deeply tied to character beats. The opening song, which initially feels skippable, grows on you and eventually becomes a part of the storytelling itself.

The directing and writing team clearly approached this project with deep care. There’s a remarkable attention to detail — from character expressions to scene transitions — that reflects their understanding of the source material and their commitment to doing it justice. While the supporting characters add texture, though the balance between the main and secondary arcs falters at times. The second storyline, particularly the Qiao Qiao-Haoan dynamic, feels underdeveloped, and the drama could’ve benefited from showing more of Qiao Qiao’s emotional landscape. Despite these hiccups, they do not undermine the power of the central story.

FINAL THOUGHTS

The First Frost is not a story for those in search of lighthearted entertainment or fast-moving plotlines. It is a drama for those willing to sit in silence, to feel deeply, and to embrace the messy reality of healing. Bai Jingting and Zhang Ruonan deliver some of the best performances of their careers, breathing life into two flawed, beautiful characters. And behind them, a production team whose dedication is felt in every frame.

In a world that often celebrates grand gestures and instant resolutions, The First Frost reminds us that true love is found in understanding, patience, and the quiet act of staying.

To the cast and crew, especially Bai Jingting, Zhang Ruonan, the director, writers, and everyone who made this story possible—thank you. You didn’t just make a drama. You told a story that stays with us long after the screen fades to black.

“Wen Shuangjiang, I’ve finally waited long enough for you.” — Sang Yan

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A heartwarming series

I will apeak honestly ,I didn't watched the trailer nor did I know the synopsis ,I just watched a clip and wanted to watch it.
I don't regret a single second.Everything was perfect start to end.A 45 minut episode passes out so quickly and I wouldn't realise it.worthwatching drama .not only it is a love story bilut it also tells us about society where we live .Full of emotions FL is not weak .she is strong .At the time when she was harassed she didn't care and wanted to jump out.Her character is definitely worthwatching.
Sangyan is perfect.his favial features and the mole are exceptional.plus the black dresses he wear look so good.Baijingting is cool.its his fifth continuous drama topping the charts.
1000000000/10🤩🤩🤩🤩

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I love you even with all your flaws, you are worth it, wen shuanjiang

Okay dont quote me on that cause I’m not sure if he did say that or not but he has said some of these words

Anyways I still remember when I first heard the news’s of this drama and coming back once and a while to check on any updates then the excitement of hearing it started filming then it wrapped up filming then impatiently waiting for the airing date (excuse me I’m just getting emotional)

Okay onto the real review
This drama itself is quite slow pace and does have triggering scenes involving SA (I cannot remember all episodes that include SA scenes but those I can remember is ep 25,27,28 maybe there is some in the beginning episodes as well)

if you are a person that is rather impatient I would not recommend this drama but like bai jing ting said in a interview recently for this drama “I hope they give it a chance” cause in the end everything is quite subjective
This drama itself is quite different from hidden love despite having the sang siblings as the main love interest both of their stories are drastically different so please don’t compare them

I enjoyed this drama as someone who has read the manhua but it does have its own flaws such as the arc from ep 24-26 I understand why they did that over the novel version of what was supposed to happen but there is quite some plot holes in that arc
Such as how yifan friends found her so easily in such a big city tho they probably had a ruff idea of where she was

It had its own comedic aspects as well which was nice nonetheless I wish they could’ve handled the second storyline better as there really wasn’t much balance between the main storyline and the 2nd one and sometimes it felt random in certain episodes
I wish they could’ve showed us more of Qiao qiao side of feelings when it came for hers towards haoan
The 2nd lead mu cheng yun was really annoying, it seems he doesn’t have this much of a annoying role in the novel but it looks like they really dialed him up for more dramatic effect

Nonetheless it had many amazing aspects that appreciated them for and it showed just how much effort the director,writer and crew did
The cinematography was beautiful, we were able to see so many beautiful done scenes that added depth in the episode itself
I appreciate how they added flashbacks to their younger days back in highschool in majority of episodes because it really adds more depth to our characters relationships and meanings to some action as well
I don’t know how it was supposed to go in the novel despite not really hearing good things
But I like the direction they took as the fan of the manhua I’m happy
I also appreciate how in a majority of the episodes they add sang yan pov at the end cause we get to see a bit of how he felt or what he did during that episode
Also how they gave us one last scene after a “this story is not over yet” like a bonus scene lol

The soundtrack I loved it and it seems I won’t stop listening cause it’s ending today the drama and I’m too emotional attached to it
A lot of the songs and lyrics fit the drama very well which I’m glad
I used to skip the openings but I learned to appreciate it more and more plus bai jing ting said in the interview for this drama something about how it’s unskippable or something similar but I agree with him

On the acting both leads did such a good job so did the supporting characters and the villain
To me bai jing ting did a great job at portraying sang yan it’s as if I saw him come to life from the story honestly and his subtle acting through his eyes in important scenes such as ep 27
Zhang ruonan did a great job as well portraying wen yifan especially the dead eyes in a way to make us see how Wen yifan really live in a way but just like BJT it’s as if I saw wen yifan come to life despite yifan being described more as a cold beauty and zhang ruonan having more cuter features she did a very nice job
The actors who played her family did a nice job as well cause they made me hate their characters so much

I love this story because we get to see two characters who are flawed in their own ways, learn and grow from the past selves so I hope you give this drama a chance than just listening to reviews and decide for yourself if you like it or not

This part is more of my own opinions/view on both Sang Yan and Wen yifan
So I hope that if you ever struggle to understand them this could help offer you a new perspective

The comment section on MDL (here) has been quite hell for the past few days because of certain opinion that has resurfaced many times to the point it’s scary how similar they are

For Wen Yifan it’s clear since the beginning that the girl has issues and pain
She was abandoned by her own mother, got SA by her aunt’s little brother(he’s a grown middle aged man) , got told to hide this SA by her mom and aunt and that it’s shameful and at her previous work place she got harassed
However I have seen the same argument come up in a lot of people’s opinion
“I understand her pain but why is she so selfish and not one ounce intelligent enough like she was described or she’s a reporter”
It makes me wonder did you really understand her? Or that she just went through pain and trauma?
It’s clear to me that WYF decided to lock that part away in hopes that it will be forgotten
and has been surviving everyday trying her best to be away and afar from her own family who caused her pain
Ultimately when her perpetrator showed again and hurt Sang yan bar’s reputation she spiraled after the threats her perpetrator made and now hurting her lover then went to threaten them hoping that this could be the end but it wasn’t and she ran because she only knows how to do that and even in these moments where you’ve spiraled it’s hard to think “rational” like someone said
I myself see a lot of me in wen yifan that’s why I love her as character and I know what it’s like to spiral and honestly during those times I was more overwhelmed by emotion then able to think smart or rational

I saw a lot say they don’t prefer this coward and weak FL and wish she stood up and stop being a weakling
Nevertheless haven’t we all been a coward in our life? Courage isn’t something you earn the moment you’re born
The reason why she ran away was after all those years of not confronting her trauma ultimately led to this situation we saw in ep 23-24
It’s not that she doesn’t trust Sang Yan and her coworkers or friends, it’s that she’s too scared she’ll be the reason why they get hurt whether reputation or physically even
During that arc of ep 24-6 I don’t think she was healing but took the time to find her courage and properly process the situation also to give herself time to think
Dont we all sometimes take a walk to clear our minds? In a way this is what I mean and she was planning to return after that long walk so she wasn’t planning to live there hiding

Some people forget that legal action or police reports always need evidence or her perpetrator can get out of it easily then
So I don’t understand why call her dumb when you’re dumb of not thinking that
Seeking help isn’t always easy especially someone like wen yifan who got abandoned and no one bothered to care about she thinks, trust issues are there but also who’s to say they would believe her? In our modern day, victims get more scrutiny than the perpetrators
Isn’t that ironic? Instead of asking if she was okay, it’s more she was the one who seduced him by her looks or provocative clothes in response

She herself has acknowledged that she hurt Sang yan with her words back in beiyu and how the moment she chose to run she knew and left it in her vague letter that she doesn’t deserve to ask for sangyan forgiveness

Not everyone is gonna react the way you want them to, she did her best as an adult to stand up for herself despite no one being there, she got distant and cold cause that was the only way to protect herself from anymore pain
After all this pain, I admire how strong she is for still even living and breathing and got herself a career

She herself is a flawed character that’s what makes me love her more, I relate to what she went through despite not going through the same pain. She herself is a complex character that’s not many understand after all they say “you should walk a mile in someone’s shoes before you judge them” and I guess seeing so many not understanding her means you probably lived a better life then her which you should be very thankful for & dont take it for granted
She is flawed but aren’t we all? So is the Justice system, we get to see her grow even tho the journey might be slow as hell for many but love can’t heal wounds such as trauma
Somehow we get to see a different side of a story that not many has seen in real life or fiction

Sang yan
many have complained about how this guy is too unrealistic and a SIMP
But pray to god we get a guy who is emotionally intelligent, chose to understand someone
And knows how to take care himself and devoted/loyal, he gets labelled as a doormat
These individuals can’t help but make their comment come off as rude and hateful
I didn’t see people complain about other green flag guys who are “simps” instead they get praised for that, example sungjae from lovely runner or minhyuk from strong women do bong soon

However I have seen majority a dissatisfied with how it seems yifan barely makes much effort as he does (we do see she cares like in ep 28 or how she bothered to cook for him)
She does care it just that not all of us are quite expressive in words or actions and I know well enough that if this is reversed y’all would be slamming the guy like no tomorrow

The thing about him is that since reuniting with her, he never had hopes the she would reciprocate his feelings. After all the young him that separated with her didn’t knew of her pain and struggles and believed what people said around him
To quote what user (u10146071) said in the comment “And he buys into the narrative that then everyone in school would have: oh, SY played himself. That pretty admired girl was never serious about him. How embarrassing.”

In ep 28 we see him say that lowering his pride means nothing for him now especially if it can put her perpetrator behind bars because the young him never understood why she hurt him with those words that day in beiyu until he learned of her past by himself and through her own words. He learned that he was immature and foolish to have had those thoughts about her with his broken pride

He was frustrated with her decisions especially that in ep 24 because then he didn’t understand why but still chose to give her space well he did search for her like a maniac so one can say he maybe lost his mind

Nonetheless he told her how his world crumbled and how sorry he was for his judgments about her back then

The sang siblings love surely is selfless they both don’t expect anything back from their lover but some individuals complain on “his behalf” saying this dynamic is bad
Let’s be honest sang yan himself never expected anything back from WYF, he just hoped that she lives a better life and one she deserves above all he just wanted to make sure she lived a good life and a happy one and he would have been satisfied

He simply saw what life she lived and decided to stay to help her and make sure she knows that he is there for her, that she isn’t alone

So I hope this could’ve offered you a different perspective on these two characters and what I thought of them and If you have made it this far omg congrats I typed a lot

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Becoming Each Other's Sunlight: A story about growth, healing and enduring love

The First Frost is easily one of the most well-produced Chinese romance dramas of 2025. From its brilliant acting and plot progression to the impressive official soundtrack and meticulous attention to detail, The First Frost takes viewers on a journey about what it means to love another, and oneself. If you were waiting for a Chinese modern romance drama with enduring love, the most loveable couple and healthy character growth, say less. Although much more “melo” than Hidden Love, The First Frost will leave you looking forward to every loving interaction between the leads (and perhaps swooning at Sang Yan’s good looks).

ꨄ OVERVIEW------------
Adapted from the novel of the same name by Zhu Yi, The First Frost documents the decade-long romance between Sang Yan and Wen Yifan. Despite becoming close friends in high school and agreeing to attend university together, Wen Yifan breaks the promise, leaving Sang Yan questioning their relationship for years. Their reunion is bittersweet yet provides the leads with the new opportunity to say their unsaid words, feel the unfelt love, and truly be together.

The structure of each episode is unique and appealing, as it starts with flashbacks that dive into scenes that molded the leads into who they are today, and end with scenes in Sang Yan’s perspective. The beginning flashback ends with a timeline that documents how many days the leads have known each other for, as well as an unfinished sentence that is completed at the end of the episode. The novel is written in Wen Yifan’s perspective, an aspect that the drama maintained. While some have expressed disappointment over the supposed imbalance between the leads’ efforts into their relationship, I would argue that Sang Yan and Wen Yifan’s romance is one built off of immense mutual respect and care. However, Sang Yan plays a pivotal role as the sunshine that melts the frost. Growing up in a successful family that has showered him with love, he aims to do the same with Yifan. One of my favorite quotes from the drama is Wen Yifan’s response after the nagging Mu Chengyun asks, “Has he (Sang Yan) ever confessed to you?” to which she answers, “He treats me so well that it’s like he’s confessing to me everyday.” The way both leads treasure one another is the sweetest thing ever. We also see Wen Yifan’s outpouring of love towards Sang Yan, the immense worry she has for his safety as she regains confidence in herself.

ꨄ ADAPTATION------------
While TFF is set in the same universe as Hidden Love, the timeline between the two dramas is slightly different. There was much debate over the leading roles of the drama adaptation, especially among Chinese netizens, as the original web novel is extremely popular. When the lead casting was announced to be Bai Jingting and Zhang Ruonan, the news received extremely mixed reviews. Never having watched Zhang Ruonan in a drama before and looking forward to another Bai Jingting hit, I dived into the first few episodes of TFF with curiosity and basic expectations (coupled with excitement after having watched cute Hidden Love). 10 episodes in, I could simply not imagine another pairing embodying Sang Yan and Wen Yifan as remarkably as Bai Jingting and Zhang Ruonan. As with all novel adaptations, whether shows or movies, it’s impossible for the entire progression to remain the exact ‘same,’ and quite unrealistic. Having read the novel, I was pleasantly surprised by how true to the original story the drama was, down to the small details. Despite certain scenes that may have fared more preferably if aligned with the original plot, the overall story was well-paced and sprinkled in the sweetest scenes at the perfect times. Given the nature of the leads and their history together, their reunion starts off slow, but their relationship and romance quickly picks up from there.

ꨄ SECOND COUPLE------------
When it comes to the second lead couple (portrayed by Chen Haosen and Zhang Miaoyi), the leads’ best friends, they were certainly cute, but I couldn’t feel much chemistry that kept me on my toes. Perhaps this is because they have a much shorter history than the leads, having known each other for much less time. However, much of their screen time together was partially overshadowed by the grandparents arc, which quickly turned dull IMO and took away screen time from both couples that could have been utilized to better develop and expand on their relationships. However, given the time allotted to side characters, I do have to say that Sang Yan and Wen Yifan’s relationship was developed very well.

I’d also like to take a moment to address the drama relationship between TFF and Hidden Love. While established in the same universe and both dramas have the same characters, a major concern among Hidden Love fans was the total change in casting. While I greatly enjoyed Ma Boqian’s portrayal of Sang Yan, an annoying older brother, Bai Jingting fully embodies the other side to Sang Yan, the composed yet loving man who silently stayed at the side of the only girl he has loved, and the only girl he will ever love. Given that Bai Jingting and Zhang Ruonan weren’t present in Hidden Love, it makes no sense that Zhao Lusi and Chen Zheyuan would even make a cameo in TFF. Sang Zhi and Duan Jiaxu are also not a main focal point in TFF, and I personally enjoyed watching the bantering interactions between the Sang siblings, as well as the strong bromance throughout. Liu Chutian and Wu Yuheng were satisfactory as Sang Zhi and Duan Jiaxu. If the connection between these two Zhu Yi romances does capture your attention, however, you may or may not have noticed Sang Zhi’s phone case in both series, which have been the same.

ꨄ ACTING------------
As mentioned before, Chu Yuning did brilliantly casting his lead roles. I’ve watched Bai Jingting a few years ago in Reset and later in historical dramas, but he really brings out another extraordinary aspect to his acting in TFF. There’s such an obvious difference in emotions that Bai Jingting carries in his eyes. The eye candy is such a plus (and even Bai Jingting himself said that TFF captured him at his handsomest lol), but it is clear that Bai Jingting is the perfect Sang Yan.

Going back to watch the lead’s reunion scene after six years in Jia Ban (Sang Yan’s restaurant), you can see the sadness and longing in Sang Yan’s eyes, and the disbelief and denial on Wen Yifan’s face. The chemistry between Bai Jingting and Zhang Ruonan subtly increases, and if I could say so myself, this pairing is absolutely perfect, and just the couple we needed in the Cdrama romance world. The crying scenes also particularly stood out to me; The leads poured their heart and soul into their roles, allowing the viewer to feel the pain they have felt over the past decade and feel that same hatred towards the antagonists.

ꨄ CHARACTER GROWTH------------
The First Frost also effectively touches upon a very delicate topic. In the face of her father and grandmother’s death, Wen Yifan no longer has anyone in her life besides Sang Yan who really cares for her (with the exception of her best friend Zhong Siqiao, who is truly the sweetest), and even Sang Yan is far away from her, unaware of her situation. As a teenage girl with no adult family member to protect her from the threats of harassment, she is left to fend for herself. Her experience parallels those of many women in real life. The nuances in Zhang Ruonan’s facial expressions reflected that of Wen Yifan’s past experiences, encouraging sympathy and admiration for her personal growth. As the drama progresses, we witness Wen Yifan’s transformation: She starts standing up for herself, and later, others with similar grievances. She ‘rediscovers’ ballet, something so dear to her. She addresses her strained relationship with her mother. And of course, she gains the confidence to reach out to Sang Yan. I simply cannot express how much I adore Zhang Ruonan in this role. Her acting was just so realistic, from the nights of sleepwalking to Wen Yifan’s cute, bubbly moments. She nailed it all.

ꨄ PRODUCTION------------
The editing and filming aspects are also top-notch. Chu Yuning and his team absolutely found the best angles and lighting for their shots, capturing the leads in the best atmosphere possible. Filmed mostly in Chongqing, the audience was able to admire the cityscape and beautiful modern culture, from the trains that ran through tall buildings to serene night scenes strewn with fireworks and lights. The transitions were also seamless, allowing for the best-quality watching experience and satisfaction.

ꨄ OST------------
When it comes to the OST, I have to say that there are not that many Cdramas that can compare to the quality of these songs. We have well-written lyrics, a line of talented singers, and catchy tunes. Whether it’s “Willful” by Mayday, a song filled with strength and determination, or the dreamy “Like a Sunny Day, Like a Rainy Day” by Silence Wang, there’s a song for every scene. And by every scene, I really mean it. I fell in love at first sight with the OST the way Sang Yan did with Wen Yifan:

“Willful” - Mayday: Theme Song
“Like a Sunny Day, Like a Rainy Day” - Silence Wang: Romance Song
“Late” - Zhang Bichen: Past Pain Song
“Serenade” - Mao Buyi: Self-Healing Song
“It’s You” - Li Yuchun: Ending Song
“My Dear” - Zhang Zhenhao: Reunion Song
“The Invisible Man” - Bai Jingting: Waiting Song
“I’ve Never Liked Anyone Except You” - Zhang Lei + Fine Band: Longing Song
“Everything” - Zhang Ruonan + Zhang Miaoyi: Friendship Song
“Look at Me” - Yan Yidan: Heartwarming Song
“I Want To Quietly Slip Into Your Soul” - Xiao Bingzhi: Protection Song
“There Is You Amidst Raindrops” - Chen Kexin: Memory Song
“Stubborn” - Sandee Chan: Heartbeat Song
“Crush” - Chen Haosen: Adoration Song

This drama has carved a special place in my heart with its moments filled with love, acceptance, growth and resilience.​​ There are so many admirable traits in both leads, and their love story will give you butterflies in your stomach until the very last episode, the cutest little ending that marks the continuation of their happiness together.

˚ʚ♡ɞ˚ “Besides me, there will be many people who love you.” - Sang Yan

˚ʚ♡ɞ˚ “Love is…becoming each other’s light.” - Episode 31

˚ʚ♡ɞ˚ “It’s okay. The boy you like will also think that you were so brave. He’ll thank you for protecting yourself.” - Wen Yifan

˚ʚ♡ɞ˚ “Tell me, were you sent down by my dad to be good to me?” - Wen Yifan

“No, I willingly do so.” - Sang Yan

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Yifan is a beautiful lotus flower

Zhang Ruonan and her character Wen Yifan is so beautiful. I'm not talking about just physically. She is resilient and strong in the face of adversity even if she's more delicate on the inside. The girl is a survivor when the world keeps throwing things at her. She reminded me of the lotus flower, a symbol of overcoming adversity. Even in the murky waters, the plant can survive and a flower is able to bloom. Through it all, she is still kind and gentle. And as already shown in the series, Sang Yan is the sun in her life. If Yifan is the lotus flower, then Yan is the sun that helps her warm up after the rainy moments and gives her the light she needs. While the pacing of the series may not be for everyone, I greatly enjoyed the time it took to craft the story and characters. Beautiful story, beautiful characters, beautiful acting, beautiful cinematography, and beautiful music. Beautiful job to cast and crew!

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