The First Frost

the fairy and her most handsome man, the love that kept the ghosts away.

Love was never something to give expecting something in return.. that’s what their love was like, sublime, pure, selfless, unrealistically real.. their love was greater than anything, so they’re to me..

Perfectly opening, perfectly reaching the climax, then perfectly writing the last line..
While it sounds ridiculous to some, this is the greatest modern romance drama that came out from China, not meaning that anything else is mid, but for me, everything else is below The First Frost.

The slow burn burned me, in a good way..
The heartbreaks also broke me, in a perfect way..
I never felt so connected and related to a character story like I felt with Wen Yifan, we didn’t have the same struggles, but it was so relatable and natural that I cried for her like I was watching myself going through all of that.. and while accepting her ‘only’ bad decision would be hard for somebody, not understanding her is possible, let alone blaming her.. it doesn’t take you an experience to empathise with a survivor..
At the same time, loving Sang Yan was only natural, such a lively man, confident and kind, gives without expecting, and waits for you like a fool—
How can a lady's heart not swoon for him? not even fairy Wen Yifan resisted his charms.. even in her sleep she walked to his embrace..
while watching them yearn for each other, and suffer alone, how bad I wanted to give her a hug, how bad I wanted to heal their scars, to unalive whoever made them unhappy.. how bad I wanted to rewrite their story so it would be less painful for them..

What I loved the most about this story is the angst and complexity of the characters, especialy Wen Yifan, you don’t see this often in modern romance dramas, that’s what makes The First Frost undeniably special.

“It seems like Beiyu rain soaked my bones, no matter where I go, I can’t run away from that rainy night” Wen Yifan - Is the line that broke me the most .. no matter how hard you try, how far you run.. you can’t escape from that prison, that memory will keep haunting you until you collapse, and you’re no longer you..

But don't let anyone deceive you and tell you that Sang Yan is one-dimensional just because he sees Wen Yifan as his life, being madly in love won’t make him a poor-written character.. he’s not you typical cold/bad childhood/vendetta/bad behaved male lead.. rather, he was raised with love, wealthy, energetic, determined, picky, talented, intelligent, lazy, emotionally sensible, responsible, understanding, cocky.. and much more! He’s the perfect blend of a bad guy and a bubbly girl..
And please, Wen Yifan is the only one who deserves Sang Yan, no one will make him happier than she did, she's the only one who sees the real him, the bright, humble and confident him behind the arrogance appearence and sarcastic tone.. despite being broken and stuck in her pitch-dark nightmares, she stayed gentle and kind, elegant and proud.. not even the worst turns of life kept her from living on.. she's literally the strongest and the most brave one in this drama..

The acting? Never seen characters alive as I've seen here..
Cinematography? Can't get enough!
Chemistry? Watching them from my screen isn't enough I want to be a chair in their room.
Music? Yeah baby, already memorised it
Storyline? I don't think I can describe how hooking it is..
My only issue with this one (besides the grandpa filler story) is that it ended too soon !! I wanted to see a lot.. much more than this !! Not even my daydreaming will help fulfill my needs !
Other than this, it’s subjectively 10/10, objectively 9.2/10… it feeds the passion of a writer (me) now all I want is to write fanfictions about them.

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I'm not sure I'll ever move on from Sang Yan's love for Yifan.

Best contemporary melodrama I've ever seen

==Breakdown==
Background plot - 35%
Romance - 50%
Misc comedy - 15%

Background plot - Interesting
Romantic chemistry - OFF THE CHARTS AMAZING
Misc comedy - Cute
Production value - Good

The story is about a girl who is naturally quiet, thoughtful, and reserved who experiences a period of intense trauma (outside of her control). About a year before this period of trauma, she meets a boy and they are smitten with each other, although not overtly. It has lovely first-love and young-love vibes throughout as their history unfolds through short flashbacks at the beginning of each episode.

The bulk of each episode takes place in present day, where the woman and man encounter each other 6 years after she abandons him and breaks his heart (her reasons are explained fully by the end of the drama and make total sense / feel very real and authentic).

The casting for both the FL and ML was perfection.

The FL character is ridiculously adorable. She's not "cutesy" at all. There's no baby voice (in fact, her voice is soft and deep) but she's so darn wholesome and adorable, I often wanted to put her in my pocket and protect her from the world. And that makes watching her ordeal all the more difficult.

The ML character is played by the lead actor to absolute perfection, balancing on the line of "I'm angry with you for breaking my heart" with "I care deeply about you and want you to be safe and well." I was impressed with his delivery. One second he's giving her the most heart fluttering look of pining and longing, and then in the next moment he's arrogantly insisting she finish his left over porridge because he hates to waste food.

Their story was so good because it was clear that Sang Yan truly loved Yifan and cared about her, regardless of whether they ended up together or she ever wanted to date him. He did things in secret in order to ensure she was taken care of and safe. He felt she deserved the best, even if she never chose him. This doesn't make him a push-over, these actions demonstrate how truly exceptional his character is.

The author cleverly introduces several other male characters who all show interest in Yifan, but are clearly more interested in dating her/what they can get from her than her well-being. They mansplain, they strut, they try to make their feelings her problem. Sang Yan never does this, but rather disguises his feelings by coming up with excuses for the kind things he does so as not to make her feel pressured.

I've enjoyed a few contemporary Cdrama romcoms, but haven't (hadn't) yet found an adult contemporary romantic melodrama that I could stomach. As an aside, I typically don't enjoy adult contemporary romantic C-melodramas. Usually, the plot suffers from the infusion of Chinese government propaganda and is centered around how great China is (because one of the show's main characters-- usually the guy-- has a job as a "selfless hero," like a firefighter, policeman, soldier, etc. all in service to the greater good that is China). But this one had absolutely none of that, thank God. I think it was a much better story overall because it lacked the propaganda rampant in the genre.

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THE DRAMA I WATCH WITH 1X SPEED

I really pat myself on the shoulder for watching The First Frost in real time. It's challenging but this is an experience to see everyone being so passionate abt it ! And this is the best drama I've watched in a looong while. Bless. the first frost is literally everything I've been looking for in a drama and it's the best feeling when you've been waiting for something for so long and it absolutely exceeds your expectations like it's literally so so good!!! im obsessed!!No one could have played wen yifan and sang yan better than zhang ruonan and bai jingting, their acting was so good, felt natural and they had great chemistry together. I am so glad that they got casted as the leads of the first frost🥹❤️

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Beautifully healing…

Personally, I’m not one to watch too many modern shows however I made this exception for BJT after seeing him in Destined.

I’ve never seen Hidden Love so I have nothing else to compare it to, however I feel like anyone watching The First Frost or Hidden Love should watch these two without any biases.

I thoroughly enjoyed every single thing about The First Frost. Our female lead, Wen Yifan portrayed by Zhang Ruo Nan did an exceptional job. As humans we all have our past and there are things that we rather leave behind, Zhang Ruo Nan did a such a good job at showcasing how someone with such traumatic past behaves. She is not your typical walk in the park female lead who going to have the upbeat personality, she isn’t bubbly nor is she going to be outspoken (at first) and that’s okay. At first I didn’t like how she wasn’t outspoken, but after experiencing all the thing she’s gone through and how so many people silenced her, why say anything else if they won’t stand by you. I began to understand her as a character and felt true compassion, every action that she has decided on is basically to protect herself. She’s flawed, but she’s also willing to allow herself to be free from her past. Her character is probably one of the best character growth that I’ve seen that felt organic with each episode.

Now for our male lead, Sang Yan who portrayed by Bai Jing Ting, he did such an impeccable job. He blew me away in Destined so I knew he would deliver as Sang Yan, and he sure did. Bai Jing Ting was able to convey so much love and patience towards the female lead. Even in times when he was at a lost for words to comfort our female lead, his eyes spoke so loudly for him, his actions that he did for her went beyond all measures out of care and love.

I truly like this show because it’s not all fluff and light, The First Frost appealed to me because it felt realistic and organic. The emotions that these two characters gave to the viewers is one that I’ll always remember. To be able to help each other, comfort each other and to help each other heal — it truly warmed my heart. I enjoy seeing broken characters who end up healed in the end, that’s just my cup of tea. However this may not be for you if you don’t prefer heavier subjects and want full fluff. But if you want an actual storyline that showcases the romance evolving beautifully, this is for you.

As someone who mainly enjoys seeing characters cultivate and immortals fight each other, this is the first (hopefully not last) modern show that I will have to give a solid 10/10 respectfully.

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the definition of " i will always be there for you even you don't see me"

" Tell me, were you sent by my dad to take care of me? " Wen Yifan asked. "No, I volunteered." Sang Yan replied.

The First Frost is a heart warming story about two young people who met at high school and they had a crush on each other, but life wasn't fair enough, so they don't met for like 7 years, then became accidently a roommates !
our ML is Sang Yan is a handsome confident man who had a crush on his highschool friend " Yifan" a beautiful and talented girl and she seems to have feelings too but her life was complicated enough as after her father died, her mom abandoned her to get marry again and sent her to relatives, that's how Yifan find herself in her aunt's house where ahe gets the truma of her life " poor girl". any way San Yan and Yifan decided to go the same collage but suddenly she tells him she don't want to see him again in that heartbreaking scene..
after about 6 years, they met again but this time as roomates by accident and it's finally when you should hold your breath and get ready because all the secrets will be revealed and with every episode, we get to understand the past and why she broke up with him like this. and did they really moved on?
..
with each flashback in every episode, your hear will grow warmer because these two had the most beautiful and heartbreaking story ever!
but no worries cuz the ending is so beautiful too.
and for us " Hidden Love" fans , thia story tell us about Sang Yan who is is the older brother of San Zhi which is soooo warm cuz i swear to god i was so curious about him since Hidden Love.
i loved everything about this drama and i don't know how I'm gonna move on! so probably gonna rewatch soon :)

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Loved the novel...but definitely not this drama. Huge Letdown :(

I came in with lots of high expectations because I love Sang Yan & I read the novels of both Hidden Love and First Frost...so imagine my surprise that I would dislike this drama this much. I may prefer Hidden Love's drama & novel more because of the sweetness, but I also loved the First Frost novel for its own charms-- none of which met my expectations, to be honest. I went in not comparing Hidden Love with First Frost because I really wanted to love this drama for what it was, Sang Yan & Wen Yifan's story (which I also adore). I know that First Frost is from Wen YiFan & Sang Yan's point of view, so he isn't going to be as silly as he was in his big brother role, but in First Frost, he is still supposed to have a realistic goofy side to him besides his fake nonchalant/charmingly narcissistic persona. I have lots of respect for Bai Jingting's other works, but I didn't feel like he suited Sang Yan, nor could he connect with this character enough for it to feel genuine. As for Zhang Ruonan, I don't usually enjoy her dramas, but I love her in real life. However, I do think that this was the first drama of hers that I liked the best out of the rest.

First Frost is supposed to be more serious because the themes involving the FL are traumatic to her directly, so obviously, she would be more guarded against opening up...but dang, they really made her look flighty with that Hong Kong plot. She never did this in the novel but instead followed Sang Yan to Yihe when he discovered Sang Zhi dating Duan Jiaxu. It was more romantic because it wasn't just Sang Yan doing all the chasing, but her finally taking steps to join him in the fight for their love. The drama's version of their reunion in Hong Kong was also...stale. They really dulled down the love in the drama adaptation to make it seem like Sang Yan loves her so one-sidedly that his whole life decisions creepily revolve around Wen Yifan because of how he constantly follows her without her knowing over the years, & they never really portrayed why he fell for Wen Yifan well either. It makes his feelings look shallow, like puppy love for her appearance at first sight, which became obsessive. Wen Yifan didn't really do much to show how much she loves Sang Yan in return besides standing up for him a few times & since she was in a vulnerable state in their youth, she never showed much interest in Sang Yan (understandably), so I can't understand how Sang Yan fell that deeply with how they made it seem in the drama. Many of the men in the drama were either creeps or obsessed with Wen Yifan, and as hard as it was, she really should have opened up about her problems to her friends/Sang Yan to avoid so many unnecessary misunderstandings. One of the best things about Hidden Love was how open the main couple communicated despite having misunderstandings as well, but their misunderstandings were never big because the second one of them had doubts, they talked it out clearly.

I also couldn't feel any chemistry between the main couple in this drama. The acting felt very robotic, like they were simply going through the motions rather than the micro-movements that make all the difference. It felt like Sang Yan did all the heavy lifting in the relationship, but even with him, I couldn't see much emotion beyond just through his actions (like I felt there was a disconnect with how much he did for her vs how much emotion he showed in his eyes/face, but that may just be the acting). Sang Yan is more emotional than the drama gives him credit for & so is Wen Yifan. Her love is supposed to be more cautious but warm, not silent/non-existent. I initially tried to watch this drama but didn't like what I saw from skimming it while it was airing, so I dropped it...I felt like I should at least get through it once fully, just so I could give a proper review. Thus, I finally watched it fully this time. And my oh gosh, it was torture. They added things that made the story boring, like the 2nd couple's story & the grandpa...like what was the point. This drama needed to cut out lots of scenes or replace them to show more relationship buildup, but even then, no more than 25 episodes. Some stories need a longer run, but this drama didn't, so it didn't feel like a slow-burn-- it was a letdown.

It honestly felt like every slow-burn ever, but without any refreshing elements to help it be even remotely engaging. I typically love slow-burn dramas, but this drama made it look painfully one-sided till the very end so the slow pace & long episodes didn't feel worth it. In conclusion, I will say that this may be for people who like dramatic darker stories with a ML who is obsessively in love with the FL (ML falls first and harder), but for those who like more of a balanced relationship, Hidden Love may be more your cup of tea (FL falls first, but ML falls harder) even if the first 8 episodes are a bit boring since it's about FL's innocent teen crush on ML before they meet as adults which is when he finally falls for her. Just because I didn't like the drama version of First Frost doesn't mean it's still not good for other people since we all have different opinions/preferences. :)

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The First Frost changed the trajectory of my life and will forever be etched in my heart.

The First Frost is not for the faint-hearted. It tackles themes of suffering, sexual harassment, and heartbreak, but beyond that, it delivers an important message: the pursuit of justice is essential, especially for those who, like Yifan, have endured unimaginable pain. Above all, it tells the beautiful love story of Sang Yan and Wen Yifan, who faced countless trials before finally getting their happily ever after.

Bai Jingting perfectly embodied Sang Yan’s blend of shamelessness and arrogance, while also capturing his deep yearning, empathy, and unconditional love for Wen Yifan. His portrayal feels raw and genuine, as if he’s living Yifan’s pain. Zhang Ruonan’s portrayal of the gloomy Wen Yifan is equally powerful — her performance will move you to tears.

What I love most is how involved the actors were in creating certain scenes, including contributing their own ideas. This collaboration made these moments feel incredibly authentic — especially the proposal scene.

Finally, the soundtrack. Every OST was so thoughtfully chosen, perfectly complementing each scene and deepening the emotional experience.

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If it doesn't speak to you, you won't like this

Objective rating 7/10, subjective rating 8.5/10

This story is:
- a vibe (atmospheric)
- heartbreaking
- slow-paced and drawing you in slowly
- glorifying romantic relationships
- not about healthy relationships either
- delivering on all your dramaland fantasies

Storytelling:
We get thrown right into the very confusing relationship between both, no explanations given. Heartbreaking music wants to convince us that every single scene is utterly dramatic, yet what we see looks like a random dramaland breakup scene. Skipping between past, present and trauma, we only get to know each character painfully slowly. What do they like, what is their life like - all we get is melancholic slow-motion with heartwrenching music while watching the characters live their life. Something clearly is off, but what is it?

Tiny pieces of Wen Yifan's past - the only thing that initiates and drives the plot - are thrown out to make up your own mind about it. For me, it was too little too late, but the atmosphere still had me hooked. Until these scenes became too repetitive as we never saw any of them from a different angle or adding a different detail - nothing changes. While at first that felt realistic, it later felt like buying screen time. As we saw Wen Yifan grow in character, so should have her interpretation of her past.

The plot:
There isn't much plot apart from the relationships forming. I really liked how they showed the couple do the most mundane daily tasks together and although it was slow-paced, the build up was made very well.
The family drama was realistic, its closure very anticlimactic. Wen Yifan's story ended up feeling a bit rushed, over the top and lost its relatability when they tried to make it even more dramatic later on. I wish they would have stayed closer to reality instead of one-upping it unneccessarily. For me, that sent the wrong message and the topic could have been handled with a bit more sensitivity, especially after they dealt well with it for the most of it.
Certain archs were understandable, but I still strongly disliked them and wish the drama had explored their neccessity for the characters in a bit more depth. And of course, nobody ever goes to therapy.

The couples:
This story should have centered entirely around the main couple or at least have portrayed the friendships they had a bit stronger. Instead, we got a second couple thrown in that I personally fully could have done without. Their story lacked depth, and as individual characters they got so few screentime that it was almost impossible for me to root for them. They barely had any relevance to the story and seemed to barely impact the main couple's life. It felt like they were meant to include some story about the true meaning of life and love without considering if that was actually the atmosphere this show was going for.

The second couple felt like that one person hitting the light switch after you've gotten cozy in a dark room. You get sucked into the pretty yet cruel world of the main couple, heartwrenching music, warm colours and soft imagery everywhere, just to then get thrown into bright, crystal clear images with standard music, standard bickering and standard "cute petite happy-go-lucky woman". Others might have found that relieving, I almost skipped their parts as I found them too disruptive.

Characters:
Wen Yifan was the star of the show and actually the only one with clear characterisation and character development. She had things she loved doing, a work life, a past and clear issues to resolve. Sang Yan revolved so much around her, he seemed to not have a life of his own. I don't mind romantic dedication, carrying the damsel in distress to her happy end, but he barely had any personality to him. Instead, we had a green flag guy with a big red flag called stalking. No hobbies, no work life, no past aside from her, no issue beside trying to win her over. The side characters in Wen Yifans life all worked towards giving us an impression of her life, adding outside perspectives of her, while everyone else seemed like an NPC without a real purpose.

Acting:
Zhang Ruo Nan did an amazing job at portraing that strong-willed yet always wary character, trying to be stronger than the past that kept haunting her. Her story spoke to me on more levels than it should. Bai Jing Ting did a great job at portraying his character with the few personality traits he was given. His facial expressions were the only reason he didn't come off as the guy with no personality who doesn't really care about the FL either. At least he visibly cared. Apart from that, I am very convinced they tried to pull the face-card with their cast to enhance the atmosphere they were trying to create.

OST:
The music was beautiful, but as mentioned above, seemed a bit over the top not knowing all that had happened. Slowly increasing its intensity through the course of the episodes instead of throwing it at the viewers right away could have helped build and maintain suspense even with the slow pace. The repetitiveness left an impression too, but I wish they used it more selectively. And sometimes, silence can create a lot more tension than any soundtrack could. 10/10 for the music, 6/10 for its use.

Final conclusion: This drama lived from the atmosphere it created, the mysterious depressing aura around Wen Yifan and the viewer's despair to see her have her well-deserved happy end. If you look behind its incredibly beautiful facade, you will find that this drama actually leaves a lot to be desired. But then again, a beautiful fairytale from time to time won't hurt. As I slowly grew to like the silent and calm beauty of it all, Wen Yifan's story deeply spoke to me. I never knew I could fall in love with heartache like this.

PS: I still can't get over the clock in the background of the living room always showing the exact same time.

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