Watch it to see the 'friendship' bond of a mother and her daughter.
This drama was good.First part of the story revolved around how Kim Jinhee and her mom lived throughout her childhood as a single parent and a daughter who learned to keep herself out of her mother's dating life. I loved the way how they were more like friends than mother and daughter, I adored their relationship.
But as soon as the Jinhee's biological father came into the picture, it went downhill for me, the bond that I adored so much. Jinhee particularly said hurtfully that she didn't want to become a burden to her mother's lovelife, she kept it to herself as a child so that her mother could still date peacefully without her being an 'interruption' and nuisance, and yet, her mother was annoyingly insensitive towards her own daughter's feelings, her insecurity, and continued to bring her current boyfriend over and over, trying to force her relationship to Jinhee.
The unique plot for this drama, that makes it so different from other dramas is that, it focused not only on the hardship of a single parent, but also to the hardship of the child in the society. Her fear of being abandoned by her parent, the helplessness towards being a burden to their parent's life.
Later in the series, at least she acknowledged that Jinhee is only her daughter, and didn't make Jinhee to accept her boyfriend as her father. The way she fought with her grandparents for her daughter's freedom and wishes. I loved it all. This mother and daughter duo could fight blood for each other and I loved it.
And the ending, it was just lovely. Watch it for a light-hearted drama, if you're looking for one.
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Mother and Daughter Dynamic Duo.
I really enjoyed this drama. I watched this for Sooyoung but I became a fan of everyone! I appreciated that all the romance majorly took a backseat to the core plot and motivations of the drama, which mostly was about chosen family. A lot of people found the mom annoying, but I think Eun Mi is meant to be frustrating as someone who lives for her inner child — something she didn’t get to experience due to life circumstances. I appreciated her free-spiritedness and how much she challenged her daughter and social norms. Jin Hee, on the other hand, is very straight-laced and strict (especially towards her mom) as someone who had to grow up pretty quickly too and also wanted to be a source of strength and support for her mom. Their chosen family — a first love/estranged father, a chosen sister/aunt, and an adoptive mother/grandmother — round out the spirit of the drama, which is to challenge the typical tropes and cliches. I wish we got to experience more of the grandmother but I appreciated how much we got to see the aunt; and even the other aunt made an impression on me with proving how characters/people can grow in the right circumstances. I was surprised that Ahn Jae-wook was in this with a pretty significant role; I hadn’t looked at the cast list beforehand but thought he did a great job as someone who was dorky and lovable. I liked that his character was satisfied with as much as he was given and he prioritized the women’s needs since their relationship came first. I also wish we got to see just a little more of Jin Hee’s romance subplot, but maybe that’s because I am so conditioned to watching romcom dramas. For instance, the ending was a little weird and confusing to me, but the more I think about it the more I believe it fits the show well, and I can’t really imagine another ending that would be satisfying. Maybe I would’ve liked a little more explanation on why Jin Hee decided that trip specifically (as well as Eun Mi), but I actually enjoyed the fact that they just up and decided to leave and do their own thing without any worry for people (especially the men) in their lives. Over the course of the drama, you’re always rooting for them and realizing how many times they’ve been knocked down, but you come to love how much joy and persistence they have against all odds.Was this review helpful to you?
stands out for its genuine portrayal of love, growth, and the intricacies of family ties
Not Just Others is a captivating Korean drama that unfolds its heartwarming narrative across twelve engrossing episodes. The series beautifully delves into the intricate dynamics of a mother-daughter relationship, showcasing a bond that's more like friendship – one built on unwavering reliance and shared experiences.The story's foundation is set in a pivotal moment: the mom's life-changing discovery of her pregnancy during high school. Her courageous decision to raise her child alone laid the groundwork for an extraordinary journey. Through the years, we witness the profound growth of both characters as they navigate life's challenges side by side. Now, with the mom in her forties, a skilled physical therapist, and her daughter a dedicated police officer at twenty-nine, their closeness remains strikingly palpable.
The series masterfully juxtaposes love with bickering, portraying the mother-daughter duo as they grapple with their contrasting personalities under one roof. Jeon Hye Jin, portraying the mom, delivers a stellar performance, capturing the essence of her character's strength and vulnerability. Choi Soo Young, as the daughter, shines brightly, embodying the complexities of her role with finesse.
This drama masterfully blends moments of laughter and tears, evoking a rollercoaster of emotions. The finale provides a satisfying resolution that left me both elated and moved. The credit undoubtedly goes to the adept writers, talented cast, and the entire production team for creating a touching and memorable series. In a world of numerous dramas, it stands out for its genuine portrayal of love, growth, and the intricacies of family ties.
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Give it a try.. its nice
I started watching this after accidentally seeing one of the short video. Initially when I started i wasn't having much of an expectation, but after watching the 4 episodes I can say that THIS ONE IS A MUST WATCH. Story wise it hasn't progressed much as its only on the 4th episode now. But we could actually feel that yes, there is space for growth. There is a bit of mystery and a lot of fun for 4 episodes. The mother - daughter duo is really cool. And the fellow officers are good.When it comes to casting, I think Park Sung-hoon as Eun Jae-won is overall a different experience. Its a complete 180° turn from what we have seen in his previous drama.
Jeon Hye-jin as Kim Eun-mi and Choi Soo-young as Kim Jin-hee as the mother -daughter duo is really nice.
Waiting for next episodes to air..
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A good show about mother/daughter relationships in adulthood
PLOT: The FL, only daughter of a single mother, is a police inspector, demoted, and sent to a small police station. There she finds her sunbae, the ML, also a disgraced police officer.The FL's mother had difficult times, as a pregnant high school student, she was abandoned by her boyfriend et had to face theis difficult situation alone. She became a Physiotherapist, yet still has the soul of a teenager. But later FL's father reappears in their life...
PROS:
+ the series is mainly focused on the mother-daughter relationship, played by 2 great actresses.
+ the 2dary characters are well developed, and all the actors are excellent.
+ The story tells the daily life of ordinary Koreans (no Chaebol or CEO with succession conflicts)
+ The production is dynamic, without length
CONS:
- this series is about family relationships (biological or not) and family ties,....... Therefore there is little romance, but really few sweet scenes. i was disapointed !
=> We let ourselves be carried away by this mother-daughter duo, a little too close-knit at first to life their life separatly...
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Un bon show sur les relations mère/fille à l'âge adulte
PLOT : La FL, fille unique d'une mère célibataire, est inspectrice de police, rétrogradée, et envoyée dans petit commissariat. Elle y retrouve son sunbae, le ML, lui aussi policier en disgrâce.
La mère de la FL a eu des moments difficiles, qd, lycéenne enceinte, elle a du affronter la situation. Elle est devenue Physiothérapeute, mais garde une âme d'ado. Le père de la FL réapparait dans sa vie ...
PROS:
+ la série est surtout centrée sur la relation mère-fille, interprétée par 2 grandes actrices.
+ les personnages 2daires sont bien développés, et tous les acteurs sont excellents.
+ La story traite de la vie quotidienne de coréens ordinaires (pas de Chaebol ou de CEO avec conflits de succession)
+ La réalisation est dynamique, sans longueur
CONS:
- une série qui traite de la famille (biologique ou non) et des liens familiaux.
- un peu de romance, mais vraiment peu de sweet scènes.
=> On se laisse porter par ce duo mère-fille, un peu trop fusionnel...
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Not (an)other drama - but a masterpiece
This will be my first review, something I thought I will never do. But I am just so impressed that I need to share my experience of this show.First of all this is the first drama recently that I was able to connect to - it is super relatable.
Characters are not some crazy chaebols or unique geniuses, but your next door neighbor type of people. With their highs and lows. People with struggles, but still pushing through life.
The show was EXTREMELY FUNNY, but not cringey like some sitcoms tend to be. It was romantic, but no one lost their identity or themselves due to it. It was thrilling and suspenseful, but it wasn’t dark or depressing. It was just a perfect amount of everything you need to stay focused and involved with the narrative.
It is an ode to women and mothers. How to respect and love yourself first as only then we can share it with others. By loving ourselves we will know our strengths that will help us push further in life.
Also it got me thinking about my mom so often and it made me so grateful! We should never forget who loves us the most. And it had an amazing message as it has pointed out that there are BOTH biological and chosen mothers. It is not only about the blood we share, but it is about the love we receive and give back. Just beautiful!
Show was progressive! It tackled some basic things we do or feel in our everyday lives, but TV makes it almost like a taboo. Single parents, s*x, hygienic “topics”, same sex relationships and free speech.
Please disregard people saying it was “too much”, as it wasn’t. They have never - ever crossed the line of good taste. It can be only too much for people who come from censored countries and social backgrounds.
All in all, it is one of the most thoughtful and comprehensive stories with well developed characters. It is a healing show as not even a single episode ends with a negative feeling or bad energy. So please give yourself a break during a weekend and take a look, it is well worth it!
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"Not Others" it's a drama about the relationship of Eun Mi and Jin Hee, mother and daughter who basically grow up together, since Eun Mi had Jin Hee when she was a teenager.Eun Mi was extremely brave to have Jin Hee, without a family by her side or even the child's father. Thankfully she had Mi Jung and her mother, who became the support she needed to move forward. Mother and daughter fight all the time, but the two can't live without each other and even though it was difficult, Eun Mi doesn't regret her decision, since Jin Hee is the best thing in her life, but the two are also very codependent and Jin Hee's decision in the end made a lot of sense, for her to put herself first.
Humor is the main focus of the drama, but there are still light moments of romance, which made the story more special. Jin Hee and Jae Won are cute and have very similar personalities, Eun Mi and Jin Hong are complete opposites. Seeing these two couples develop throughout the drama was a beautiful experience.
The was one of the best dramas of 2023, simply sensational in every way.
I didn't imagine that I would love this story so much, but it keeps you hooked from the first episode and that continues until the end.
The relationship between Eun Mi and Jin Hee is incredible, I lost count of how many times I laughed because of them, because of all the crazy things and even though they didn't want to admit it, how similar they both are!
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Funny and lighthearted
Tl;dr - A good light hearted and funny drama - Recommended watch if you are into this type of genre.For starters, I didn't read the story summary or synopsis anywhere prior to starting it. So, when I started watching this movie, I expected it to be a lot heavier and emotionally draining. But to my surprise it was pretty light hearted and conveyed the emotions pretty well.
The story has a perfect blend of humor, emotion, and lightheartedness, this story captures the essence of a unique bond formed against the odd. The relationship between the mom and daughter and the people around them is pretty well written. The humor is spot on for me and helps pace the story well. For me, the witty dialogue and amusing situations not only make us viewers chuckle but also underline the incredible resilience they both have. The story will tug at your heartstrings while leaving you with a smile on your face.
The cast is apt for the role too. Both Jeon Hye Jin (the mom) and Choi Soo Young (the daughter) portrayed the roles very well. Their characters had a decent depth but they portrayed it very well. Though Ahn Jae Wook and Park Sung Hoon are integral part of the story, their screen time were less compared to the other two. I felt Park Sung Hoon's character was a bit of a snooze fest and they could have added a bit more flavor to that.
Cast - 8/10
Story - 7.5 / 10
Writing - 9/10
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Finding Your True Family
Heartwarming to the last second.Eunmi and Jinhee are the definition of Ride or Die. That was evident from the start, but we got closer to the characters as they cleared their misunderstandings. While Eunmi and Jinhee's relationship was goals for most of the time I did find it a teensy bit toxic sometimes. But you'll get what I mean when you watch!
It showed us the reality of teen pregnancy (well, one reality ig) without glorifying it (see what I mean in ep 16)
Touched on gay relationships
2 (separate) AMAZING besties for our FLs
A lovely hate-to-love relationship between our police officers <3
It mentioned how blood relations can potentially, truly mean nothing at all but it's the relationships YOU choose. And I loved that.
Flaws -
More Jinhee and Jaewon pleaseee
Didn't like how their love story was so short.
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Lacking If You’re A Daughter AMAZING If You’re A Mom
To start off, I liked everything about this show. The casting was great and the blending of genres was too. However, the storyline focusing mostly on the mom towards the last 3 or so episodes was a bit of a let down. The story starts off with the FL being the cop daughter but then morphs into a story when the 2FL gets pat on the back so much where she becomes the new female lead. This would be fine if the early episode themes weren’t that the daughter felt pressured to constantly be there for her mom, who treated her badly when she was a kid. And her whole career and life has been about taking care of her mom and proving her worth so she wasn’t thrown away, like her mom did once and thought about giving her away too. The apology given from the mom was a non apology so switching to her as FL and giving her a full romance and happy ending while leaving the actual FL’s story open ended and rushed seems like a choice from the writers and producers to soothe their past decisions. I am not saying reconciliation is bad or that a 50 y/o mom can’t have happiness and love but make a story about that instead of forcing more than 60% of the show to be “woe is me” for the mother. Most of the flashbacks did nothing for the FL and only backed up the 2FL. You only need one or two flashbacks to solidify “mom had a hard life” trope more than that is dragging out an idea for more air time.Although I dislike the writers choice to favor the mom and give her everything she ever wanted and needed in life, it’s a good binge choice for a simple show with a bit of true crime and thriller. And romance! If you count a 50 y/o woman going back to her high school fling , not the daughter though. It’s hinted at and they kiss once or twice but they never solidify their relationship or emotions by the end of the series.
I think mothers who have unresolved guilt over how their daughters were raised and grew up would LOVE this. But if you’re a daughter it feels like a cop out for actual responsibility and accountability for a mom’s past actions.
Again, the mom (2FL) cared more about a random girl and EVEN TOOK A KNIFE TO THE STOMACH BECAUSE OF HER, than her actual daughter. It felt like a very draining relationship that the daughter is stuck in (hence why she doesn’t want to leave her new coworkers and could be boyfriend at the end, when she has to go back to HQ). A lot of her actions is based off of unresolved feelings and trauma but the only one who gets comforted is the mom who caused it all.
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I watched this show on going since the very start. I watched it for Park Sunghoon, so I didn't think much of it, but somehow this made it's way into my 10/10 rate list. I had a break from watching any dramas for the past few months until around last month when i picked up this drama along with two others. And out of all that I've watched recently, this really takes the cake. I was abolutely invested in this, I kept thinking about this, I felt every single scene. This drama hurt me, and made me giggle like a high school girl.The drama I think is pretty realistic in a way, at least to me. The mother-daughter's relationship that had a lot of misunderstandings, the two being stubborn and having their own views, the two keeping things from each other so they won't be hurt. And I think the way the drama is written shows that quite well. In a way that every scene, my emotions were like roller coaster. I would side with a character on one scene, and then a few scenes later, I would understand the other character's perspective too. Of course, other dramas do this too, but I don't know why this is just so perfect for this drama specifically.
Personally, the ending is very different from what I imagined and from what I wanted. I do feel a little disappointed that there weren't as many jinhee-jaewon flashbacks as much as eunmi-jinhong. And it's a bit sad that their relationship only bloomed in the last two episodes, but even then, they're not officially dating and they even barely have any scenes together as a couple in the last episode. But, at the same time I can't really get mad because their slowburn is what made me love jinhee-jaewon so much. Any scene together at some point made me excited and happy for what their next step as colleagues or couple would be. I loved overanalyzing their every move, their stares, their words towards each other. It was the most exciting part whenever I wait for the new episodes each week. And just for that, even if it wasn't what I wanted exactly, I'm happy enough like this.
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Lots of loose ends; the ending was set up for another season
Review8.5/10 is my rating. Overall I really liked this and would highly recommend it. My main disappointment is just that it, in my opinion, ends with a lot of loose ends because it is obvious they were planning for another season. I do not personally like when they do that because, with streaming platforms, there is no guarantee there will be another season. Also, for me, I watch so many dramas that if the other season does not come out quickly I will have to rewatch the first season. It is really intensely focused on the mother-daughter relationship. The romances are more of an aside. So, I wouldn't recommend it strictly for the romance aspect more for family dynamics and slice of life.
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The mother could be extremely selfish. She did not encourage the relationship between the daughter and the father which I thought was very wrong. If she had done it because she thought it would be harmful it would be one thing, but her motivation seemed very selfish. I started out really liking the mother as a free spirit but then, as the series progressed and she did many things (like locking her daughter out or stealing her underwear when she was angry) I liked her less. And that might be my personal bias as I have a relative that she very much reminded me of. It is real though. There are mothers like that.
The daughter not desiring any relationship with the father did not make sense to me. She seemed as if she always wanted that and then this nice person comes along and wants to be in her life and she just refuses.
I thought the series would show how the mom and daughter had this co-dependent relationship that was unhealthy and it would evolve into a much healthier situation. But it didn't seem to go that way. They did not change a whole lot through the course of this first season. It may be one thing they are setting up for future seasons but it didn't happen in this first one. That was disappointing.
Neither romance fully took off. It was clear the mom and dad would likely stay together. But the daughter and "senior" had that one night then he said never mind and she decides to go off on some long journey. They had their touching I will miss you and I will wait for you moment but, come on, that is all we get? Another one where i think they were setting it up for a second season.
Introducing the grandparents did not make complete sense either. They were on the brink of becoming a complete family, they pulled their jerk move, then there was zero resolution or reconciliation. It is hard to picture a Korean family operating like that. Based on everything else I have seen their culture doesn't tend to write the elders off that easy. But that is another situation that seemed set up for something in the future. Maybe it will be picked back up in a 2nd season but having it be so transitory did not make sense in the context of a relatively short first season.
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Synopsis
This is a 2023 South Korean romantic comedy drama that centers on the relationship between a mother and daughter. There are 12, 60 minute episodes.
Kim Eun-mi (Jeon Hye-jin) became pregnant with her daughter Jin-hee when she was still in high school. Surprisingly she elected to raise her daughter herself as even as a grown woman she remains very free spirited. To support her daughter she became a physical therapist and is much sought after at the clinic where she works. Kim Jin-hee (Choi Soo-young) is the opposite of her mother she is mature and calm is often the stabilizing influence in their household keeping her boisterous mother out of trouble. Jin-hee was a lieutenant at her previous station but got caught in a situation where an influential criminal got in trouble and she took the fall. She was temporarily demoted (1 year) and sent to serve at a new precinct under Eun Jae-won (Park Sung-hoon) a man who she has a not so good past with who thinks she is only book smart. An ear, nose and throat doctor Park Jin-hong (Ahn Jae-wook) emerges and it turns out he is Jin-hee's father who abandoned the two women when Eun-mi became pregnant. The story centers around the troubled relationship between the mother and daughter as they learned to understand each other. Romance is right around the corner for both women.
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