Why Is He Still Single?

Why is he still single? Well, because he acts like a narcissist..

This is a story about a middle aged single guy who is quirky, stubborn, socially awkward and most of the time unintentionally rude.. Someone who just isn’t like other people.. And then we see how the people around him and the few who enter his life later, deal with that.. That’s basically it..

The story isn’t driven by a strong or fast moving plot.. It takes time to connect with the main characters.. But as the drama goes on what really gives us a satisfying experience are the characters in the story and the nuances in their relationships..

I surprisingly liked the drama, despite the lack of plot, heavy conflicts or major twists and despite it being 16 episodes when it honestly could have been shorter.. I just wish it had a little more substance.. I don’t mind slow paced dramas as long as they have something worth watching.. The premise of this drama is what caught my interest and the main reason I watched it.. It’s not every day you get a story like this..

And frankly I liked that the romance was kept to a minimum.. It’s a romance between grown ups, not teenagers.. So you get fewer dramatic scenarios, more emotional honesty and the emotional chemistry actually works.. And their bickering was fun to watch.. Simply put, it’s a bit childish, yeah but still mature and meaningful..

I liked the ML’s character growth and how he grows not because the drama forces him to but because life and relationships finally reach him.. How he becomes more self aware about his own problems and slowly comes out of his shell.. It felt more real..

The supporting characters were rather interesting and each had their own quirks.. That short story arc with the photographer was interesting too, but it felt a bit disappointing in how it concluded.. I really thought they could have done more with it, because she herself was an interesting character and would have been a nice addition to the group..

Overall, there’s nothing fancy about this story but it will relate to a lot of people.. It’s just a good story with some fun characters trying to get through life in their own ways.. Definitely worth a one time watch..

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It is all about the pay out

You don't see many 12-16 eps c-dramas. Sure, there are short form ones that are basically chopping a mini series into 8-10 minutes segments. Then you have ultra short vertical dramas dominating phone screens nowadays! It is rare to see one that seems to share DNA with k/j-dramas though.

As A-plot goes, it is old school. It is centred on a 40 years old bachelor who is set in his ways. He reads like a thesaurus for a zero EQ personality. Taciturn, self-centred, opinionated, and that is him before breakfast! It gets worse, much worse. If I'm honest, it was exhausting to watch him in the early episodes. He is not evil or malicious, but you will thank your lucky star that he is not your friend, better yet . . your neighbour!

It is quite obvious who is our OTP from the start. As expected, they start off on the wrong foot. It is their romantic journey we are invested in.

This is where we can truly appreciate the acting abilities of our leads. They are handsome/attractive. As far as I'm concerned, their maturity gave them an edge over young idols. This is a double edged sword though . If you are in the idol drama demographics then this show might not appeal to you.

Of course, the ML took his time to grow into a "human being". It is just as well his progress is measurable or you will be tempted to rage quit by the half way mark. ;)

While there are the odd second leads, they are low angst and have minimal impact on our OTP. In that sense, they are their own worse enemy. With all the prevarications and meaningful scenes, you would expect them to progress faster.

Thankfully, our dear writer didn't go down the j-drama path and leave them in limbo. Picture this typical j-drama scene . . they look longingly at each other . . across a bridge . . snowing . . fades to black . . (Shudder)

Hence my comment about the pay out. The second half of the last EP is the ultimate reward for our patience and forbearance. It was dreamy, sweet and swoon-y. I haven't felt that way about a c-drama for a while. There have been some great romantic c-dramas, yet this one just creeps up on you and hits you with the swoon-y stick when you least expected! LoL

In the end, it is a good drama. Hardly original, yet better than expected. A lot of that comes down to the acting of our leads. There is also a hint of k-drama structurally, and it worked. The storyline is not cluttered. The pacing is on point. The support cast earned their pay. You gotta love the old bikers. ;) Production value is solid. OST is nice. A neat and tidy bundle, if I say so myself.

I can recommend this drama . . as long as you can put up with the behaviours of the ML or . . hit the skip butron. ;) Peace.

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It takes a strong person to remain single in a world that can easily find you your wrong match

It's a unique drama that delves into the mind of a single established man who is quirky, fun and unbelievably kind to whom he cares. Here the dialogues are so hilarious and relatable, sometimes brutally honest, that you'd think you're watching a stand-up comedy not a drama. I love these slice of life shows where people are being themselves, just living life between triumphs and struggles, breathing and trying to make life better every day. Even if it's mundane, realistically flawed, it has its own charm. 

Personally, I find ML's character perfect for a snobbish single person who refuses to accept anything but his own opinion. Even if he's single and aging, he doesn't see that as any flaw, unlike some. He's really contained with himself and his hobbies. As an introvert, I don't see anything wrong with it, just like him. He's apparently rich but prefers eating where he gets a discount but won't think twice before buying his favorite board game at triple his daily expense. He isn't frugal, he's economically aware. Surely he has a sharp mouth but never intended to hurt anyone's feelings. He has his own set of values to guide his path and carve his life into an idealistically independent man who enjoys life fully. He's the most kind-hearted jerk you've met in your whole life. 

It's all before Dr. Gu Yeijia and Xiaoman entered his life. Because what happened after that is the storyline of the drama. Yeijia is that catalyst which redefined his way of living and got him thinking about the other's perspectives in contrast with each other. Without spoiling the story, I would say, take it as a tea break, which allows you to slow down and relax your complicated thought process while taking a bite of your favorite piece of cake. 

Overall, this drama is nothing special story wise, but it is a special, one-of-a-kind contemporary drama that will leave a good feeling inside you. 

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Older aged romance done right

I was afraid to have too much expectations for this drama. First, it’s middle aged romance which is my cup of tea. The bigger plus is the male lead whom has been out of the limelight (Wallace Huo) and a charming woman (Zhu Zhu) whom I got to like the more I see her. To my delight, now that it has ended, I can say it is definitely worth the watch.

From the title and synopsis you might expect it to be an ordinary story of a single man and his quirky ways. It is! However, the writing and production is presented in a way that really made me think of the unique side of those who chooses to be single. The male character is accomplished in his career, multi talented in his many hobbies, so ideally in that perspective, he is in the comfort of his element. The writer in this storytelling presented his at such but with harmonious symbolism of how his subconscious may be missing something. I’ll leave it at that and let you find out.

The romance part is super slow built. However, the leads interactions are so sweet. There’s plenty of comedy to make you laugh and yes, in depth moments that gets you thinking. The side characters are there to keep the story with variations but the male lead is totally the eccentricity of this story.

Mind you it’s not perfect. I think towards the end they may have decided to trim it down so there’s disconnection in some parts. I wish they made it longer and had more depth in closing BUT, it’s hea. This drama engaged me from beginning to end.

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A Heartfelt Tale of Love, Friendship and Life’s Perfect Timing!

This drama is a heartfelt journey that blends friendship, romance and social expectations with surprising sincerity.

It explores the pressure to marry young, while beautifully reminding us that love can arrive at any age—and that it’s never “too late” to choose happiness. Although it isn’t trying to reinvent the genre, it stands out through its charming execution: the cinematography is lovely, the OST fits every scene perfectly, and the dialogues feel natural and meaningful.

The characters are refreshingly realistic, flawed in ways that make them deeply relatable rather than idealized. It’s a small drama, where every episode carries warmth, comfort and emotional honesty. If you’re looking for something genuinely good and easy to enjoy, this one is absolutely worth your time.

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Finally, a high quality adult drama

I went into this drama thinking that i would watch this over time but once i got to episode 5 it became my go -to drama for the month. I had seen Zhu Zhu in many other roles as 2nd or 3FL but in this she was the lead for a change. This is a GORGEOUS women and its a shame that she hasn’t played more lead roles but maybe she put her family life first and acting secondary. What ever the reason, she should do/get more lead roles because she is so natural and her with William Huo was on target throughout the drama. They played off each other little by little, making me laugh most of the time but also cry once in a while. The co-stars were also on point, especially his next door neighbor, making this one of the more enjoyable dramas of the year. Especially in the romance/adult them category.

- One of the best Adult Dramas in a while
- Leads are perfect together
- Co-stars where all on-point
- Rewatch Value = YES, YES

Get to episode 5, guarantee you want drop unless you just don’t like the slow process of love between two people that didn’t realize they need each other so adjust there living conditions, letting the other into their world.

Wayne G.

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Character driven perfection

Why I'm Still Single" masterfully blends rom-com charm with slice-of-life storytelling, cleverly using familiar tropes to create a fresh and engaging experience. The series follows Yuyu, an architect nearing forty and contentedly single, whose life unexpectedly intersects with a doctor, leading to a clash of personalities and ideologies. Their journey, however, reveals unexpected similarities, fostering a mature romance filled with humor, slice-of-life moments, and genuine emotional depth.

The show's strength lies in Yuyu's character. Initially presented as somewhat obnoxious due to his strong principles, Yuyu's bluntness and dedication to his work gradually give way to vulnerability and loneliness. His character arc is compelling, not through drastic transformation, but through a refined understanding of himself. The series invites viewers to empathize with his perspective, offering a deep dive into the reasons behind his single status.

The show also gives us an equally compelling female lead. She's a breath of fresh air: mature, hardworking, and warm. Her calm and soft-spoken nature perfectly complements Yuyu's intensity. She is immediately likable, offering a patient presence that allows Yuyu to grow and discover himself. She embraces his flaws, fostering a connection that's both endearing and insightful.

Their chemistry is a highlight, evolving from playful bickering to moments of deep understanding, culminating in a well-earned romance.

The supporting characters add further depth, each with their own compelling stories that enrich the plot. While the pacing might seem slow initially, it allows the series to build a sense of warmth and intimacy that rewards patience.

Ultimately, "Why I'm Still Single" offers a rich tapestry of comedy, romance, and introspection. It's a show that invites you to warm up to its characters, appreciate their flaws, and celebrate their growth.

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Chinese Mr. Bean, his friends, and their daily adventures!

A Bowl of Everyday Warmth: "One awkward man, his noisy circle, and the small, clumsy gestures that end up meaning everything."

It's magical how this show made me dwell on what to do when in life I face similar dilemmas, problems, and take notes.

🍲 🍲 🍲 A Warm Little Slice of Life🍲 🍲 🍲
They’re not just telling a story—they’re letting us quietly slip into the everyday lives of these characters.
It’s not trying to be some deep, life-changing documentary, nor is it an over-the-top, unrelatable sci-fi fantasy.

Even the title reflects that vibe. It’s not some “once in a century, never-heard-before” kind of name,
yet it’s also not something you’d see slapped on just any random drama. It sits in that sweet spot—simple, but memorable.

It’s simply:

A well-directed, well-edited, well-wrapped-up show
With interesting, layered characters
And unforgettable relationships
It never overwhelms you, but it never feels empty either.
Wardrobe of every character!! perfect!!! from earpieces to shoes

Just like the message it wants to convey, the whole project feels beautifully balanced
—helped even more by its gorgeous colour palette and the genuinely solid acting. 🎨🎭




🐱🐱🐱 A Grumpy Tsundere You Can’t Forget🐱🐱🐱
We’re introduced to a grumpy tsundere who means well, has a good heart… and an absolute menace of a mouth. Nothing we haven’t seen before, right?

But wait—this time, he actually does mean well.
He’s not your typical domineering CEO, OCD team leader, or goofy flirt with “issues.”

He’s a genuinely quirky architect:
a child at heart with the
emotional awareness of a mature adult.

He's not the most gentlemanly (with words) out there, but he is still better than the most gentlemanly one in the crowd sometimes.
He annoys you, and suddenly amazes you with his big-heartedness, and the small things.

At some point, I related to him so much that I started screen-recording his scenes and sending them to my bestie—and she couldn’t even argue.

He’s always trying to smooth over awkwardness or fill the silence with his strange, out-of-this-world conversations that he’s actually interested in. He tries to lighten the mood with his absurdity, or talk things out—while pretending he’s not doing you a favour, he’s “just being normal.”

But because his communication skills are tragic,
he ends up annoying everyone around him.

"The magic, however, is that the people who stick around him know he genuinely cares. They can feel it."
We Scorpios, sun signs with a moon Cancer, must relate heheh


He “hates” the idea of having a neighbor… but goes out of his way to help her, even on his birthday.

He “hates” the thought of his routine being disturbed by a new presence (the dog he shares his name wth kekekekek), yet gets attached in just a few days of caring for it.

We’ve all seen this character type in manga and dramas—but among all of them, he’s the most relatable.

Bro doesn’t explode in rage;
He just loudly and proudly flexes--
his single life, his routines,
and his “good habits.”
in the quirkiest way possible.

He’s the kind of character who quietly takes up residence in your head and just… stays there.

What’s not to love about him?
His ruthless truth-arrows, his low-key, zero-pressure kind of care…

I love how his friends don’t even take his insults seriously anymore.
In his head, love = taunts and honestly, the Yu Yu–Ye Jia bickering is elite 😂

Once you understand him, you can basically get him to do anything for you.

P.S. Every morning, Lin Sa and Shen Wu have to deal with a petty Yu Yu like:
“Why didn’t you like my Moments?”
“Why did you bully me in my dream?”
(Tbh, don’t we all ask our friends these things with full sincerity too? 😭💀)



💌💌💌 More Than Just “Single Old Guy Finds Love”💌💌💌
But the drama doesn’t stop at “quirky single old guy, or he finally finds love.”
It actually begins by explaining why he’s still single—
And by the end, you find yourself wondering, how was someone like this single for so long?
Because by then, you clearly see what an incredible person he is. [Ex: Even xiaoman ends up feeling she has fallen for him]

One of the best parts is that the story doesn’t just belong to him.
The supporting characters are treated with just as much sincerity.
The show doesn’t drown you in melodrama or endless sobbing;
Instead, it gently explores a wide range of relationships with a lot of warmth and nuance.

It reminds us that not every connection between a man and a woman has to be romantic.
Throughout life, regardless of gender, we meet people we simply don’t want to let go of—
people we want to walk beside, whether that bond is romantic or purely platonic.

Shen Wu and Yu Yu
Xiao Man and Shen Wu
Yu Yu and Xiao Man
(he cares for her like his own niece, though lowkey in his eyes(and concern level) dao, her pet>>> xiaoman)
Lin Sa and Yu Yu
Xiao Man and Ye Jia (one of the best found friendships!)
Yu Yu and Ye Jia
…honestly, if we keep listing them, it never ends.

The tiny group chat they formed just to discuss Yu Yu’s daily adventures was adorable.

Through Xiao Man, Shen Wu, and Xiao Xiao, we see what the younger generation is going through—
the decisions they’re forced to make, the pressure they face, and the kind of protection
and the guidance they need from the older generation:
lifestyle choices, career confusion, existential crises, financial struggles, messy romances…

Through Lin Sa, Yu Yu, and Ye Jia, we see the world of the older generation,
where romance becomes a luxury, and finding “the one” is truly not simple.
Career often becomes everything, yet even after giving it your all,
You still end up standing at a crossroads, unsure which path to take—
whether to prioritise stability, companionship, or your own peace.
(And in a way, those same questions echo back into the youth stories too.)
The body keeps getting older, but the heart… It’s still learning what it wants.

Even the side characters—like Ye Jia’s dad, the bike gang, Yu Yu’s family, Xiao Man’s friends—are all portrayed with the same care and attention that Yu Yu gets.

No one feels like a filler character; everyone is treated like a real person with their own weight in the story.

PS: Life is about learning from each other! I am glad Yejia helped Yuyu navigate his relationships more carefully and treat the people he cares about with the deserved respect and outspoken love. She is what my mom and my sisters are in my life!! The main character might be Yuyu, but the closest to the perfect?..warmest?..most mature? human in real life is what Yejia looked like.

There are so many things I love about this show and story that if I truly went ahead with listing them all.. MDL might overload!

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Rare feel good Cdrama

Watching was my daily 2 episode happy place: assume best for those thirty and older. A second season is in order as there is a lot of gold to mine as they date and perhaps marry. There was good lead chemistry built on very slow burn and modest enemy to ... trope. I enjoyed all the supporting characters, the filming quality/locations, and the humor. Only change would be to NOT have Xia Xiao Man "like' ML. Since I have only been watching K/C/Taiwan dramas about a year this was my first Wallance Huo and less know but equally entertaining Zhu Zhu. I have to admit I'm still dismayed about C Drama dubbing as occasionally the actual actor/actress does their own voice but know it's rare. It would be nice if every drama had to list the VA's too.

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Super Funny but doesn't rely on second-hand embarrassment or over-the-top hysterics

How many comedies out there do NOT rely on crude jokes, second-hand embarrassment or over-the-top humor? Hardly any and yet “Why is He Still Single?” is a rare example.

The success of this drama lies in the witty dialogs, the unique characterization of ML and the incredible performances from Wallace Huo and Zhu Zhu. Yu Yu (ML) is an eccentric, quirky, childish, petty perfectionist, who is also a pro’s pro and probably has a super high IQ and low EQ. Wallace did an incredible job in making me fall in love with this insufferable character. The main focus of this drama is the character development of Yu Yu. Though kind, he has his priorities and just doesn’t care much about what’s important to others. But no worries, here comes the beautiful, mature, kind-hearted, incredibly PATIENT and witty Dr. Gu (FL) who basically acts as Yu Yu’s life coach and helps enlighten him. Wallace and Zhu Zhu have great chemistry and their back-and-forth banter and comeback lines are incredibly fun and well-executed.

There are so many laugh-out-loud moments in this drama if you pay attention to Yu Yu’s antics and words coming out of his mouth. “Why is he still single?” does not need to rely on over-the-top and hysterical plot, or the actors embarrassing themselves. They just need to act as themselves, and then viewers will have a great time.

This drama is full of lovely and supporting characters and some really lovely relationships in this drama. At work, the trio of Yu Yu, assistant Shen Wu and boss lady Lin Sa have an interesting and entertaining dynamic. They really know what to say to trick Yu Yu to agree to their demands. Zhu Zhu and Xia Xiao Man have a wonderful sismance, while Yu Yu and his brother-in-law have a fun bromance. The parents are meddlesome but adorable and not annoying. I really enjoyed the neighborly and siblings-like relationship between Yu Yu and Xia Xiao Man and was very disappointed in how it turned out in the end.

If you are looking for romance, you will not find the typical fluffy and sweet rom-com gestures. Instead, the leads have one of the slowest and most subtle romances I’ve seen in a while. The romance is developed through MANY doctor’s visits and hospital stays, bickering and verbal challenges and dares, and caring considerations of each other. There are many funny and weird moments between the leads, and these are the building blocks of their relationship. I actually would have liked to see more traditional love signals sprinkled throughout the drama. But, this is a mature romance and when it matters the most, the most thoughtful and romantic conversation is also the most serious one Yu Yu and Dr. Gu has at the end of the drama. I just wish it had come just a little bit sooner.

“Why is He Still Single?” not a plot-driven drama and the pace is moderate and steady. I would recommend this drama if you enjoy a quirky ML, witty and sarcastic dialogs, or a mature, slow-burn and subtle romance. Fans of Wallace Huo and Zhu Zhu should not miss this drama. This drama is incredibly funny without insulting your intelligence.



Completed: 11/30/2025 Review #648

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China's Sheldon Cooper

I can't help but compare this show to The Big Bang Theory and Yu Yu to Sheldon Cooper as each episode unfolds with rich characters. The actors play their roles very well and express the sophisticated emotions and complex relationships realistically. The cast has excellent chemistry.

It might be because I have people in my life on the autism spectrum (ASD), but that's the lens through which I see Yu Yu. Like Sheldon, Yu Yu thinks he is smarter and more talented than everyone around him. His quirks are borderline OCD, he misses social cues, is passionate to the point of obsession in a single subject he doesn't understand metaphors or sarcasm leading to misunderstandings, and he tells the absolute truth as he sees it, all leading to awkward yet funny and endearing moments. ASD brains are wired differently so they can appear cold, arrogant, eccentric and very quirky which can make them seem rude yet they care about people and have a warm heart yearning for connection with others.

I'm not sure how wallace Huo prepared for this role but he nails the complex nature of a man struggling through relationships with ASD. Awkward moments happen which leads Yu Yu through some brilliant yet subtle humor. Excellent show.

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