Meu Querido Jom (2025)

Not my cup of tea...

I don't like the mixture between comedy and drama... either do comedy or do drama but not both of them. The abusive use of the accociated soundeffects did not make it better. While Huey, Dewey and Louie are mostly fun, the hysterical girl was annoying as hell. I guess it's a trademark for BLs to have to include an annoying girl/woman in every production and that is so cliché and should not happen in 2025. But what they did again was lazy writing, because the three boys get lost im the end and did not get involved in anything... even the boy/girl-love story is left unexplored. So the pacing of the whole series is choppy at best.

The actors did a good job, even when I don't feel the main couple. I don't know what it is, both are for sure nice persons and in their way cute/handsome, but together they don't give me a spark.

So all in all a typical BL which did nothing new, played it mostly safe, had of course stereotypical baddies. Also the "ex" was an asshole but everyone forgave him in an instant, not very realistic in my book. For me, not even a medicore show, while some comedy was ok, the storyline was flat and didn't get me emotionally for most of the time. You may watch it and like it, but I did not.

As usual a "cut" version gets a 0.5 de-rating, because they may also cut important story elements, because in this series there a no NC scenes worth cutting...

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Romance was the cameo in this romcom!

The drama had all the perfect ingredients for
a sweet love story with enemies x lovers trope, but dragged on with 72 extra and totally unnecessary plotlines , making romance scarce. The plots centers around Yotin,  a spoiled city kid exiled to the countryside for some good old-fashioned character development and Jom, the responsible village chief appointed to babysit him.

Now, If I am being honest, I probably would have rated this higher if it hadn’t been sold as a romcom. This was more about Yo’s growth than anything else. His slow (and I mean slooow) journey from spoiled city menace to someone who finally gets that actions have consequences. And yeah, seeing that shift was enjoyable but that didn't come without a price. While everything worked for his journey, it definitely made the “rom” part of romcom feel like an afterthought.

The romance finally showed up but it was fashionably late (almost like it forgot it was invited). But when it appeared, it was gentle and adorable. Yo’s effort to show how much he cared about Jom felt genuine and their little honeymoon phase was really cute… just wish it had happened like a few episodes earlier. While their bond does develop over time but for the most part, it felt more like mentorship than romance. Still, there was an underlying tenderness in how they navigated their connection.

Now coming to what actually didn't work for me was the number of detours the drama took from romance. Almost every single side character had a story line with no major payoff. Most of it felt like background noise. They had a bit of everything from drug busts, mysterious exes, feuding uncles, that one female character who can't a hint, secret family drama, high school crushes, you name it, they threw it in. And while some of it was mildly interesting, most of it honestly didn’t serve the main couple’s arc at all. Like, I was here for the soft, slow-burn romance between Yo and Jom and their romance felt sidelined amidst all this.

Also the run time of the episodes bothered me. One of them was almost 2 hours. I guess if the writers trimmed down the filler, this could have been a standout. Maybe I am not acquainted with this particular style of storytelling.
Comedy was also more of a hit and miss for me.

Acting wise, both the leads did a good job. I hope to see them in better projects.
The cinematography was also pretty decent with all those beautiful country side setting shots.

Overall, this was decent, one time watch feel-good show with a wholesome vibe.
Would I recommend this? Hmm… if you are in the mood for a very slow burn, don’t mind a plot sprinkled with cliches and happen to have a whole lot of time (and patience) on your hands then sure. It’s not groundbreaking, but it is cozy.

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