Simi_Tutu:


Oh yes,  the epic battle to squeeze in some time for anything other than BL is so real! Just ask the RR club member who's already devoured 108 BL titles (This girl here) —😅! We’re all about that struggle, but hey, we keep on trying.  😂😭 

Screams Xu Kai !! 😍😍😍

Oh my god, this looks adorable!

I wanted to quote just parts of what you said like you did for me but for the life of me I cannot figure out how, it will only let me quote the whole thing? I've never participated in a forum like this on MDL, I don't know how it works, sorry!

But! I am very impressed by your 108 BLs! I don't have nearly so many but I watch a lot of them for sure, especially Thai these days, though I am behind on basically everything.

Also Xu Kai! He's so cute! And he plays confused and hapless so well. I am enjoying SaHPH although I could do with less of the women v. women office politics and stuff. But the main couple together is so great, I especially love how he supports her. (I far prefer RR when they're both clearly *into* it.)

And Colorful Love is super adorable! Definitely that hypercolored big-emoting style of jdrama, but it fits with the setting. Main couple is super RR, not totally clear how the second couple will shake out just yet.

Anyway, do you have a favorite RR drama?

 octopus_joy:
it will only let me quote the whole thing?

I will send you a DM explaining " How to 'Quote 'part of a long post in a forum" I originally posted it here but then realized it could be considered spamming because it's off-topic. Hope it helps. 

 octopus_joy:
I am behind on basically everything.

No worries! The charm of the BL series is that they tend to be short, making it a breeze to add new titles to your completed list. Plus, I don’t think there’s a concept of being “behind” in dramas—everyone has their viewing speed and schedule. It’s more like you’re just checking off dramas from your list! 

 octopus_joy:
Xu Kai! He's so cute!

Boy, is he ever!

 octopus_joy:
I especially love how he supports her.

We love our MLs supporting FLs here, so you'll fit right in.

 octopus_joy:
Colorful Love

Sounds interesting. I'll add it to my PTW.

 octopus_joy:
do you have a favorite RR drama?

Top Four

Angel's Last Mission: Love - Girlboss is a ballerina, and our passive ML is an angel! When I first saw the drama, I felt it was so underrated. It's an absolute masterpiece, and I wish more people would discuss it.

Sell Your Haunted House-  our Girlboss takes on the role of an exorcist, while our main lead is a smooth-talking con artist.

Encounter - A Rich Woman/Poor Man, Boss-employee relationship, where the man stands out as the most encouraging partner a successful woman could ever wish for!

Kimi wa Petto- An age-gap romance blossoms as an office worker and a dancer embrace a contractual relationship. Our male protagonist is quirky, charming, and quite a handful, but we love him all the same!

 octopus_joy:
Hi, can I join?

Absolutelyyyy! Welcome to the club! Be sure to grab a cool badge from the index. Hope you enjoy your stay with us! <3

 octopus_joy:
I really like your lists! altho I am very slow at watching things (esp because I also watch a lot of BL)

Glad you liked the lists!! I'm a very slow watcher too so no worries there, friend!

 octopus_joy:
Currently watching She and Her Perfect Husband and Colorful Love, fave RR so far is definitely The Glory

Ooooooo, all on my PTW but none watched yet! Will defs be watching Colorful Love and The Glory this year! 


 octopus_joy:
would looooove a serious romance-focused RR drama of that quality

Yeah, I completely get you. It's hard to find RR dramas that aren't comedy- It's definitely a pet peeve of mine. Like I'll take any cute RR I can get but it'd be swell for it to not be exclusively slapstick T_T The trope seems to be becoming more popular though so I think we'll be getting more! 

 Simi_Tutu:
I didn’t realize there could be more than one harem

Yeah, I didn't get it at first either but harem refers to a man surrounded by women and reversed-harem is a woman surrounded by men T_T 

 Simi_Tutu:
Is it correct to say that it’s a reverse harem that fits the RR tag?

Some consider reverse-harems to be RR by default, I'm more on the fence about it hence why I didn't include it in the trope list xD (tho there are a lot of tropes I didn't include yet, still working on it) I guess it kinda falls under RR in the same way noona does. Technically yes but depends a lot on context 

 Simi_Tutu:
it's the secret sauce to our awesome friendship, haha!

LMAAAOOOO so right!

 Simi_Tutu:
I don't believe that drama aligns with the theme

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. You said what I was thinking much better than I could ^^ 

 Arclei:
Yeah, I didn't get it at first either

I clearly don't pay attention to what I'm doing. The amount of anime I have seen that is considered a harem and the amount of manga I've read in the early 2000s that are reverse harems are ridiculous * Facepalm*; apparently I only paid attention to the pretty men and women, not the words on the page or the subtitles 😭😂⚰️

 Arclei:
Some consider reverse-harems to be RR by default

In my opinion, I would add Reverse Harem to the RR tags, but I wouldn't necessarily add Noona unless it was combined with another RR tag. Noona is such a broad tag that, it can fit into a whole bunch of other tags that would be non-RR related, and that could get too messy. That's why I thought of making a Noona club because I do feel that tag does stand on its own, there are so many out there. But maybe somewhere down the line if another MDL user doesn't make one first. Secretly, I hope someone steps up to the plate because I don't think I can handle a side quest and a full-on club. LOL

 Arclei:
LMAAAOOOO

Good to know someone thinks I'm funny cause most of the time I feel like I'm just laughing with myself AND AT MYSELF 😂💞

 Simi_Tutu:
apparently I only paid attention to the pretty men and women

You're so real for that. That's the important part anyways XD

 Simi_Tutu:
I do feel that tag does stand on its own

Oh, 100%. I don't think noona and reverse-harems are on the same scale at all, just that both tend to have overlap with RR. Noona romance is a on a whole other league XD 

 Simi_Tutu:
Secretly, I hope someone steps up to the plate because I don't think I can handle a side quest and a full-on club.

Oh god, I seriously feel that T_T I was gonna make it myself but seeing how time-consuming the RR club is already, I don't think I have it in me

 Simi_Tutu:
I feel like I'm just laughing with myself AND AT MYSELF 😂💞

Definitely laughing with you!! 💗 I always love reading your comments 

 Arclei:
For now I added Kao Dake ja Suki ni Narimasen to the upcoming list

Thank you for the recommendation. It seems interesting.

 octopus_joy:
Hi, can I join?

Hello 👋 | WELCOME to the club. I loved Shu Kai in "She and Her Perfect Husband". Enjoy. 

I like this drama until 2 episodes before the ending. Let me know your thoughts once you finish it.

 Simi_Tutu:
Is it correct to say that it’s a reverse harem that fits the RR tag?

I don't think a reverse harem means a role reversal because the heroine can still be very stereotypical. 

The reverse harem begins at 4 love interests for the heroine. The Harem begins at 4 love interest for the hero.

Just started watching love scout. On episode two and it is so good 


I found a behind-the-scenes video of the cast from Love Scout. My cheeks hurt why are they so adorable??! Lee Jun Hyuk looks like a daddy penguin.  😂💞 (This video contains no spoilers)

 Simi_Tutu:
Lee Jun Hyuk looks like a daddy penguin

You nailed that omg xD THIS IS SO CUUUUUUUUUTE 💖💖💖

 Simi_Tutu:

I found a behind-the-scenes video of the cast from Love Scout. My cheeks hurt why are they so adorable??! Lee Jun Hyuk looks like a daddy penguin.  😂💞 (This video contains no spoilers)

He really is a daddy penguin istg :((((

 Arclei:
omg xD

 is Daddy Penguin going on the BINGO  card?  😂😂😂

 Simi_Tutu:
I don’t think there’s a concept of being “behind” in dramas—everyone has their viewing speed and schedule

This is definitely the best way to think about it! I get impatient sometimes because my viewing list is so long - also I have a bad habit of starting a new drama at the drop of a hat, so then I look up and I'm in the middle of 10 different shows, oops. 😅

 Simi_Tutu:
Top Four

I had never heard of the first two shows you listed, so that's really exciting! I will have to add them to my list. Encounter is already on it, and I read some of the manga of Kimi wa Petto but I haven't watched the show(s) - the manga for me was a little too focused on having her still think she wanted a guy who was more impressive than her, but I have been meaning to at least check out the drama!

Thank you for being so welcoming!!

 Arclei:
It's hard to find RR dramas that aren't comedy

This is really frustrating for me too! I struggle a bit with slapstick and really broad acting (not that they are bad! just not for me, mostly) and also obviously I wish the idea of a woman being more powerful than a man wasn't automatically funny. Also I guess it sometimes seems like they're hesitating to really commit to the idea - same when it's villainous/toxic, or when it's an SML who's the submissive one. (Of course, this is all also based on what I personally like in a show!) If you have any recommendations off the top of your head for specifically more serious shows, I would love to hear them - no pressure, though, obviously you already do a TON of work putting lists together and so on 😊 

 Arclei:
Some consider reverse-harems to be RR by default

I actually also have an opinion about this, which is that it is not RR by default, because quite often the reverse harem fantasy is "what if a TON of men ALL swept me off my feet!!" - which is a totally legit fantasy but not really RR at all 😂

 octopus_joy:
my viewing list is so long

 Oh, I completely understand, my watchlists are monsters! I've got three stacked up, each with over 100 dramas and films, and it’s just ballooning like my snack cravings during the holidays. At this rate, I’m gonna need at least 10 lifetimes to even think about catching up!

 octopus_joy:
I'm in the middle of 10 different shows

My watchlist is practically begging for mercy, and my on-hold list is overflowing. So, I decided to pick up "The Spring-Cleaning Watch Challenge" to try and trim the fat. You know, out with the old, in with the new! But let’s be real, every time I finish something, I just add more titles. 😅

 octopus_joy:
that's really exciting!

Angels Last Mission is like the Mona Lisa of scripts—sheer genius wrapped in a celestial bow! 😭🎀 I’d recommend checking out that one first, but honestly, it seems like both dramas are the best-kept secrets since sliced bread. 🍞I just can’t wait to see you chat about either of them in this club! 💞

 octopus_joy:
Thank you

Awesome! It looks like you've mastered the art of quoting sentences!