Secret Lover - episode 8 & 9
These two episodes properly fleshed out the emotional foundation of Tuo and Junxi's relationship. We see how Tuo's fear of abandonment came into play; compounded by the fact he has been the driving force of their relationship. He felt that he was forcing feelings on Junxi, which is what many fans thought as well. I think the break from each other was needed to give Junxi a breather, so that he could determine how he felt on his own. I think it was also needed in order for Tuo to get some reassurance that his love is not one-sided. Therefore their relationship can now stand on a solid foundation free from doubts; there is now clarity of feelings and priorities.
I think whether Junxi's brother had confronted them or not, at some point Junxi would have to face the reality of coming out if he wants to sustain a healthy romantic relationship with Tuo. It can be viewed that in this sense Junxi's brother's inquisitive actions did them a favour by having them overcome this hurdle from early. That being said, I do think that it was not the brother's place to intrude in Junxi's life the way he did, especially since he has been absent for some time. His persistence for answers was disrespectful to Junxi's privacy even if it came from a genuine place of care. Please keep in mind that I am an only child, so I have no sibling experience, and therefore I am unaware if this is normal sibling behaviour despite a sibling being absent.
In regards to Tuo's boss, he is being very unprofessional and inappropriate. If he wants to mentor Tuo outside of work related matters, then I think there is a more appropriate way to give advice to a junior that does not come off as sexual, intrusive, and harassing.
Regarding the preview of episode 10, I think Junxi's parents will accept them, and they may already know. I think Tuo's father will be the true parental obstacle.
Normally, I would save all of these comments for my finale review, but I am in a talking mood tonight lol
I look forward to the next episode.