
AthenaTheStorierX:
For me, it's not. Goes back into the subjectiveness. Stalking is a big trigger for me.
Stalking irl is horrible, I can totally understand that. Never happened to me, that I know of.
It goes without saying that I don't wish for the things depicted in these movies and dramas to happen irl, to anyone.
It's just that, maybe if I watch a pinku film once in a while is not that bad compared to consuming outright porn... because lately I've been watching some of that and let me tell you, it's pointless. Nothing screams "I don't know how to have real sex/relationships" than watching porn (tbh I don't know how to relationship/sex bc I never had that... lol) and also, the addictiveness of porn needs to be (and has been) studied.
That being said, unrelated but I don't think ABO Desire is that bad now that I watched an ep. Although I think one guy is a black flag.. apparently not rare in Chinese BL dramas huh, who'd have thought. (This goes back to our falling out in the Discord server... iyryr, where r = remember).
Thanks for the recs once again. ^^
Imma go watch Call Boy now... it's not GL nor BL (or there are some BL scenes..) idk what to expect, wml