my friend is so annoying

she ask me to buy house .not like she gonna pay

asking me why i dont think what to study when i was younger bla 2 

she says it is harder for me now because i am almost 30 

i am depressed for god 's sake .i couldnt even go class few years ago since i kept getting panic attack ,cant sleep etc

but i will never get better friend ayway .everyone is annoying

 autumn iris:

I think it's out of good intention. But imo, one should not give other people financial advice unless he/she's a financial advisor/notary you've hired. Just say you're not gonna paying him/her so no need to give financial advice.

And why talking about the past, it's not like we could rewind time, tell him/her to make a time machine so that you could start over.

No need to worry about other people's opinion, it's your life not theirs. But I think financial freedom is important.

she annoys me at least once per month

obviously being rich is good but not everyone can be rich no matter what.that 's life

i already blocked her when she said i am stressed out by everything and i am the most negative person  when i said that what she said yesterday stressed out 

i did right?

 your princess:

obviously being rich is good but not everyone can be rich no matter what.that 's life

That's true, I'm also in the process of searching something I can do to achieve financial freedom. I'm lazy and consumptive, that's bad.

 your princess:

i already blocked her when she said i am stressed out by everything and i am the most negative person  when i said that what she said yesterday stressed out

Cutting a bad friend is good. But I think she actually wants you to be more positive in life. But she shouldn't say it that way. Everyone is different.

On stress, have you tried meditation or workout? Listening to classical music also helps. I think there's also breath technique that's good for stress.

https://www.lung.org/blog/stress-breathing-exercises#:~:text=The%20most%20well%2Dknown%20breathing,this%20until%20you%20feel%20calm.

It's important to stay away from stress. But don't avoid everyone. Maybe someday you could meet a good friend who understand you. If you avoid everyone, you won't know anything about them.

I once heard a phrase that stayed with me:
"When the listener truly learns how to listen, the speaker's words lose their power  , they become worthless."
It means that you should only hold on to the words that serve you, that matter to you , and let the rest pass by, in one ear and out the other. When you master the art of selective listening, no matter how much someone tries to provoke or influence you with their words, it won’t affect you.
Eventually, when the speaker realizes their words no longer have an impact, they stop speaking altogether.

perhaps instead of gossiping about your friend online, you should instead confront her about it or set boundaries depending on how she responds.

 ASTER:

I once heard a phrase that stayed with me:
"When the listener truly learns how to listen, the speaker's words lose their power  , they become worthless."
It means that you should only hold on to the words that serve you, that matter to you , and let the rest pass by, in one ear and out the other. When you master the art of selective listening, no matter how much someone tries to provoke or influence you with their words, it won’t affect you.
Eventually, when the speaker realizes their words no longer have an impact, they stop speaking altogether.

how to do that

 autumn iris:

Ah, so she's practically your ex-best friend. Best friends can be too much at times. It's good that you cut her. She needs to learn your boundary. If she miss you, she'll apologize and change for better. If she's not, then she's not worthy.

No one should force their idea to others. She lives her way, you live your way. Still, I hope you won't become a housewife with no earning. We don't know what will happen in the future, everyone needs to be capable. Maybe for example a housewife who sells frozen homemade foods? Just an idea. It's actually up to you. First of all, find your future husband. Good luck! And be sincere, man loves a woman who sincerely take care of him and everyone else around both of you.

Good, being able to sleep is good no matter when you start sleeping. Keep it up and stay healthy.

not sure whether she even know what she did wrong ....

what no earning ? obviously i wont marry a dusty who gives me nothing besides dick

yea ,but i gotta sleep early ....i slept at 5:22  .still late but earlier abit .i used to sleep at 5:30

 your princess:

how to do that

Our mind and consciousness often remain unaware or passive, which is why we struggle to control our senses. As a result, we absorb whatever is present in our environment without any mental filter, and we easily get engaged or influenced by it.

To awaken and align your heart, mind, and soul, it's essential to gain control over your senses and the key to this is meditation.

Meditation can take many forms:

• Practicing yoga

• Reading spiritual or mythological texts

• Chanting mantras

It takes time and consistency, but it brings real transformation.

Here are four things I suggest that can help you become mentally and emotionally strong, ultimately making you more positive and grounded:

1. Read a Holy Book (like the Bhagavad Gita, Bible, or Quran, whichever aligns with your beliefs)

2. Read Inner Engineering by Sadhguru

3. Read The Secret by Rhonda Byrne

4. Practice Chanting regularly

When you follow these practices, you'll become so mentally and emotionally strong that no matter what negativity others throw at you, you won't be affected. In fact, your presence will positively influence those around you.