Charming (THE FIRST HALF)
I decided to watch this series because of the hype it has. After the first episode I was reluctant to finish it and I dropped it. One month or more passed and I chose to continue it and see how it was. I donโt regret it but I didnโt find it flawless. I want to analyse this together with you, because I havenโt read the novel and in this case it seems crucial.
๐ฃ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ท๐ฐ๐ผ ๐ ๐ญ๐ธ๐ท'๐ฝ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ด๐ฎ/๐'๐ถ ๐ท๐ธ๐ฝ ๐ผ๐พ๐ป๐ฎ ๐ช๐ซ๐ธ๐พ๐ฝ
- ๐ซโ๐ฎโ๐ทโ๐ธโ๐นโ ๐ตโ๐ดโ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐นโ. I donโt know what happened to the author in the second half of the project: everything starts to make zero sense. From the extreme, enormous miscommunication to how can Seo Wei direct a company and the main (completely nonsense) events in the last four episodes. It's like the author/director wanted to keep milking the story instead of letting it end. The final episode is the cherry on the top: itโs shorter and feeble, not comparable with the fierce, charm and energy seen at the beginning of the series. The plot is interesting at first, it feels like a real โenemies to loversโโฆ
- ๐ธโ๐ชโ๐จโ๐ดโ๐ณโ๐ฉโ ๐ตโ๐ดโ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐นโ. The very first episode, as I said, made me initially stop. The impression it passes down is one of the most toxic and childish I have ever gotten of a project. However, watching the whole work, I believe its purpose is to highlight the charactersโ growth (Chi Cheng and Wu Seo Weiโs). Also, it well explains the initial situation, it clarifies all the facts.
- ๐นโ๐ญโ๐ฎโ๐ทโ๐ฉโ ๐ตโ๐ดโ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐นโ. Wu Seo Wei claims to be straight. The comprehension of his sexual orientation never happens and the viewer feels confused. A conversation between friends is missing here, an official realization from the main character instead of the usual โIโm straight but I like himโ.
- ๐ซโ๐ดโ๐บโ๐ทโ๐นโ๐ญโ ๐ตโ๐ดโ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐นโ. There is a significant dispute over the sexual interactions. This is a huge and sensitive topic, because โconsentโ should be the most vital part of a coupleโs intimate life, especially if weโre talking about something that runs on television. I read some other reviews regarding the main couple and, although it seems SA, people who read the novel claim that is BDSM. In my opinion, it isnโt clear: there are no clues about the alleged BDSM, if not one frame in the second half or another one where Wu Seo Wei is blindfolded. Due to this missing scene or conversation, people think is SA. It is true that Chi Cheng mentions several times โI cannot bring myself to force onto himโ when consulting Guo about it. And it is true that Wu Seo Wei clearly expressed his displeasure towards some of Chi Chengโs actions. Furthermore, in a shoot during the second half, Chi Cheng backed off after seeing Wu Seo Wei didn't want anything. Finally, BDSM actually works that way (with the pain and โsaying noโ stuff) and there is a specific word to use when you canโt bear with it anymore (that is not just โplease stopโ). What went wrong for me is the communication with the viewers who didnโt read the novel: initially I believed it was SA as well but, now that I have this new prospective, Iโm starting to see the project under a different light. Indeed, considering my taste, I would have liked to see even more (if youโre into this you can watch โThe Next Princeโ ep 8).
Anyway, these reflections lead to appreciate the directorโs work about these exchanges. The sexual interactions, the kisses, the hands on the neck, the catches, the force all assume another form, other colours. Nevertheless, I still have doubts about the start (meaning Iโm unsure about the rating as well): Chi Chengโs approach is physical indeed, but he does nothing until is Wu Seo Wei to say โyesโ (except for one specific occasion, which Wu Seo Wei considers a proper SA).
However, few occurrences arenโt included in this analysis. For example, the reason why both couples have proper, complete sex. As I see it, the way they are led to it is one of the most unsafe I have ever seen. I'll let you be the judge. Despite this, both first time scenes is romantic and well acted; I, also, really appreciate the whole candle setting.
- ๐ซโ๐ฎโ๐ซโ๐นโ๐ญโ ๐ตโ๐ดโ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐นโ. Xiao Shuai and Wu Seo Weiโs friendship is difficult to frame. Should we appreciate the mutual back up even when the decisions are insane? Iโd like to mention the very beginning (when Seo Wei came up with the idea of pursuing Chi Cheng) as an example. And isnโt it shocking that the same friend who sustains you is the one making you do things you donโt want to? Iโll choose the last part of the previous point as an example (โFor example, the reason why both couples have proper, complete sexโ). Furthermore, they forget everything one another. From my prospective, this friendship is undefined (maybe because they have known each other for so long), limitless but also bilateral, therefore balanced. In the end, it seems a good thing: they both worry and care so much for each other.
๐ฆ๐ฑ๐ช๐ฝ ๐ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ด๐ฎ
I find the whole โsnakes thingโ extremely fascinating. From what Iโve read, they symbolise Chi Chengโs obsession, his link with the past and, through them, we can track the characterโs growth. This evolution can, also, be see through locations: Chi Chengโs first house is my second favourite setting (dark, deep, mysterious โ just like him), but then he moves to a lighter place (guess why). Moreover, I find the snake a very sensual and charming animal, it perfectly represents its owner and his soul. But they can kill too; this is the discomfort, the anger, the grudge of this character. Despite the โsexual topicโ we just discussed, Chi Chengโs character has an aura that enchants me (and his taste in bad is exciting). I believe he changes for Seo Wei and really cares for him. All the miscommunication in the second half is a huge shame.
Additionally, the support of Chi Chengโs older sister is moving. It seems like they donโt see each other that much but she always looks out for him. In the beginning with Yue Yue, then with their father. Like her, Seo Weiโs mother has a crucial role in the story. Sheโs another lovely sustaining character that โunderstands the two of themโ.
Lastly, there is a take Iโm crazy about: the โfirework sceneโ. Itโs absolutely my favourite of the whole show. There is a stunning kiss in my opinion and everything feels so natural, calm and comfortable. The characters are smiling happily, fearlessly. The kiss is what charms me and catches me the most, itโs just so well shot and directed. Furthermore, its setting is my number-one location between all the places: Wu Seo Weiโs home, the house where his mother lives.
๐ต๐ฎ๐ฝ'๐ผ ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐น ๐ฒ๐ท๐ฝ๐ธ ๐ฝ๐ฑ๐ฎ ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ฑ๐ท๐ฒ๐ฌ๐ช๐ต ๐น๐ช๐ป๐ฝ
- ๐ฉโ๐ฎโ๐ทโ๐ชโ๐จโ๐นโ๐ฎโ๐ดโ๐ณโ ๐ฆโ๐ณโ๐ฉโ ๐ธโ๐ชโ๐นโ๐นโ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐ฌโ๐ธโ. I read that the director and the author are the same person. I think I can see that in the final result. The way the scenes are shot, itโs like I can identify her โtouchโ somehow. For example, in the symbolism of few locations (Chi Chengโs apt) or in the charactersโ interactions. This is an important detail that the director took seriously into consideration since sheโs also the writer (I talked about this before in this review).
- ๐ปโ๐ฎโ๐ธโ๐บโ๐ฆโ๐ฑโ๐ธโ ๐ฆโ๐ณโ๐ฉโ ๐ฒโ๐บโ๐ธโ๐ฎโ๐จโ. The photography and colours arenโt exciting. Most of the tones seem flat except, for example, that blue tone you see in the cover (that is from a specific scene in the show) or the pastel colours you see at Seo Weiโs home (idyllic environment). Except for two locations (Wu Seo Weiโs home, Chi Chengโs first apt), the other settings are, again, nothing exciting, just normal. I fell in love with the opening and that moving guitar theme. Overall, I like the songs, and the sound is also good.
- ๐ฆโ๐จโ๐นโ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐ฌโ ๐ฆโ๐ณโ๐ฉโ ๐จโ๐ฑโ๐ดโ๐นโ๐ญโ๐ชโ๐ธโ. The actorsโ performances are generally good; I see enough chemistry between the two couples. One thing I donโt like is the crying scenes. Personally, I find it so difficult to act naturally and seem realistic. Not everyone can do it. In particular, Zi Yuโs acting (in crying scenes) doesnโt impress me much, and he cries a lot. Liu Xuan Chengโs representation also doesnโt amaze me. I slightly prefer Zhan Xuan and Tian Xu Ningโs interpretations. The casting is great: aesthetically, the main couple is perfect. Tian Xu Ning and Zi Yu look extremely nice together. I can't really explain how, but both their faces and bodies are somehow an impeccable and ideal match. Especially, their visages. In particular, their moles (on the face). Although, as I said, I donโt really like the colours, the clothes are marvellous. Specifically, Iโm addicted to Chi Chengโs white shirt with black flowers. I'm literally so obsessed I wanted to buy it.
๐ก๐ฎ๐๐ช๐ฝ๐ฌ๐ฑ ๐ฅ๐ช๐ต๐พ๐ฎ
I think Iโm going to watch again just one or two scenes. Iโd recommend the show but just the first half? The second one makes so no sense that I donโt know what to say. Itโs such a shame. It is indeed interesting at firstโฆ
This is one of those times when I really am sad about it.
๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ช๐ ๐ฆ ๐๐ ๐ฃ ๐ฃ๐๐๐๐๐๐ <๐
๐ฃ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ท๐ฐ๐ผ ๐ ๐ญ๐ธ๐ท'๐ฝ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ด๐ฎ/๐'๐ถ ๐ท๐ธ๐ฝ ๐ผ๐พ๐ป๐ฎ ๐ช๐ซ๐ธ๐พ๐ฝ
- ๐ซโ๐ฎโ๐ทโ๐ธโ๐นโ ๐ตโ๐ดโ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐นโ. I donโt know what happened to the author in the second half of the project: everything starts to make zero sense. From the extreme, enormous miscommunication to how can Seo Wei direct a company and the main (completely nonsense) events in the last four episodes. It's like the author/director wanted to keep milking the story instead of letting it end. The final episode is the cherry on the top: itโs shorter and feeble, not comparable with the fierce, charm and energy seen at the beginning of the series. The plot is interesting at first, it feels like a real โenemies to loversโโฆ
- ๐ธโ๐ชโ๐จโ๐ดโ๐ณโ๐ฉโ ๐ตโ๐ดโ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐นโ. The very first episode, as I said, made me initially stop. The impression it passes down is one of the most toxic and childish I have ever gotten of a project. However, watching the whole work, I believe its purpose is to highlight the charactersโ growth (Chi Cheng and Wu Seo Weiโs). Also, it well explains the initial situation, it clarifies all the facts.
- ๐นโ๐ญโ๐ฎโ๐ทโ๐ฉโ ๐ตโ๐ดโ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐นโ. Wu Seo Wei claims to be straight. The comprehension of his sexual orientation never happens and the viewer feels confused. A conversation between friends is missing here, an official realization from the main character instead of the usual โIโm straight but I like himโ.
- ๐ซโ๐ดโ๐บโ๐ทโ๐นโ๐ญโ ๐ตโ๐ดโ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐นโ. There is a significant dispute over the sexual interactions. This is a huge and sensitive topic, because โconsentโ should be the most vital part of a coupleโs intimate life, especially if weโre talking about something that runs on television. I read some other reviews regarding the main couple and, although it seems SA, people who read the novel claim that is BDSM. In my opinion, it isnโt clear: there are no clues about the alleged BDSM, if not one frame in the second half or another one where Wu Seo Wei is blindfolded. Due to this missing scene or conversation, people think is SA. It is true that Chi Cheng mentions several times โI cannot bring myself to force onto himโ when consulting Guo about it. And it is true that Wu Seo Wei clearly expressed his displeasure towards some of Chi Chengโs actions. Furthermore, in a shoot during the second half, Chi Cheng backed off after seeing Wu Seo Wei didn't want anything. Finally, BDSM actually works that way (with the pain and โsaying noโ stuff) and there is a specific word to use when you canโt bear with it anymore (that is not just โplease stopโ). What went wrong for me is the communication with the viewers who didnโt read the novel: initially I believed it was SA as well but, now that I have this new prospective, Iโm starting to see the project under a different light. Indeed, considering my taste, I would have liked to see even more (if youโre into this you can watch โThe Next Princeโ ep 8).
Anyway, these reflections lead to appreciate the directorโs work about these exchanges. The sexual interactions, the kisses, the hands on the neck, the catches, the force all assume another form, other colours. Nevertheless, I still have doubts about the start (meaning Iโm unsure about the rating as well): Chi Chengโs approach is physical indeed, but he does nothing until is Wu Seo Wei to say โyesโ (except for one specific occasion, which Wu Seo Wei considers a proper SA).
However, few occurrences arenโt included in this analysis. For example, the reason why both couples have proper, complete sex. As I see it, the way they are led to it is one of the most unsafe I have ever seen. I'll let you be the judge. Despite this, both first time scenes is romantic and well acted; I, also, really appreciate the whole candle setting.
- ๐ซโ๐ฎโ๐ซโ๐นโ๐ญโ ๐ตโ๐ดโ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐นโ. Xiao Shuai and Wu Seo Weiโs friendship is difficult to frame. Should we appreciate the mutual back up even when the decisions are insane? Iโd like to mention the very beginning (when Seo Wei came up with the idea of pursuing Chi Cheng) as an example. And isnโt it shocking that the same friend who sustains you is the one making you do things you donโt want to? Iโll choose the last part of the previous point as an example (โFor example, the reason why both couples have proper, complete sexโ). Furthermore, they forget everything one another. From my prospective, this friendship is undefined (maybe because they have known each other for so long), limitless but also bilateral, therefore balanced. In the end, it seems a good thing: they both worry and care so much for each other.
๐ฆ๐ฑ๐ช๐ฝ ๐ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ด๐ฎ
I find the whole โsnakes thingโ extremely fascinating. From what Iโve read, they symbolise Chi Chengโs obsession, his link with the past and, through them, we can track the characterโs growth. This evolution can, also, be see through locations: Chi Chengโs first house is my second favourite setting (dark, deep, mysterious โ just like him), but then he moves to a lighter place (guess why). Moreover, I find the snake a very sensual and charming animal, it perfectly represents its owner and his soul. But they can kill too; this is the discomfort, the anger, the grudge of this character. Despite the โsexual topicโ we just discussed, Chi Chengโs character has an aura that enchants me (and his taste in bad is exciting). I believe he changes for Seo Wei and really cares for him. All the miscommunication in the second half is a huge shame.
Additionally, the support of Chi Chengโs older sister is moving. It seems like they donโt see each other that much but she always looks out for him. In the beginning with Yue Yue, then with their father. Like her, Seo Weiโs mother has a crucial role in the story. Sheโs another lovely sustaining character that โunderstands the two of themโ.
Lastly, there is a take Iโm crazy about: the โfirework sceneโ. Itโs absolutely my favourite of the whole show. There is a stunning kiss in my opinion and everything feels so natural, calm and comfortable. The characters are smiling happily, fearlessly. The kiss is what charms me and catches me the most, itโs just so well shot and directed. Furthermore, its setting is my number-one location between all the places: Wu Seo Weiโs home, the house where his mother lives.
๐ต๐ฎ๐ฝ'๐ผ ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐น ๐ฒ๐ท๐ฝ๐ธ ๐ฝ๐ฑ๐ฎ ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ฑ๐ท๐ฒ๐ฌ๐ช๐ต ๐น๐ช๐ป๐ฝ
- ๐ฉโ๐ฎโ๐ทโ๐ชโ๐จโ๐นโ๐ฎโ๐ดโ๐ณโ ๐ฆโ๐ณโ๐ฉโ ๐ธโ๐ชโ๐นโ๐นโ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐ฌโ๐ธโ. I read that the director and the author are the same person. I think I can see that in the final result. The way the scenes are shot, itโs like I can identify her โtouchโ somehow. For example, in the symbolism of few locations (Chi Chengโs apt) or in the charactersโ interactions. This is an important detail that the director took seriously into consideration since sheโs also the writer (I talked about this before in this review).
- ๐ปโ๐ฎโ๐ธโ๐บโ๐ฆโ๐ฑโ๐ธโ ๐ฆโ๐ณโ๐ฉโ ๐ฒโ๐บโ๐ธโ๐ฎโ๐จโ. The photography and colours arenโt exciting. Most of the tones seem flat except, for example, that blue tone you see in the cover (that is from a specific scene in the show) or the pastel colours you see at Seo Weiโs home (idyllic environment). Except for two locations (Wu Seo Weiโs home, Chi Chengโs first apt), the other settings are, again, nothing exciting, just normal. I fell in love with the opening and that moving guitar theme. Overall, I like the songs, and the sound is also good.
- ๐ฆโ๐จโ๐นโ๐ฎโ๐ณโ๐ฌโ ๐ฆโ๐ณโ๐ฉโ ๐จโ๐ฑโ๐ดโ๐นโ๐ญโ๐ชโ๐ธโ. The actorsโ performances are generally good; I see enough chemistry between the two couples. One thing I donโt like is the crying scenes. Personally, I find it so difficult to act naturally and seem realistic. Not everyone can do it. In particular, Zi Yuโs acting (in crying scenes) doesnโt impress me much, and he cries a lot. Liu Xuan Chengโs representation also doesnโt amaze me. I slightly prefer Zhan Xuan and Tian Xu Ningโs interpretations. The casting is great: aesthetically, the main couple is perfect. Tian Xu Ning and Zi Yu look extremely nice together. I can't really explain how, but both their faces and bodies are somehow an impeccable and ideal match. Especially, their visages. In particular, their moles (on the face). Although, as I said, I donโt really like the colours, the clothes are marvellous. Specifically, Iโm addicted to Chi Chengโs white shirt with black flowers. I'm literally so obsessed I wanted to buy it.
๐ก๐ฎ๐๐ช๐ฝ๐ฌ๐ฑ ๐ฅ๐ช๐ต๐พ๐ฎ
I think Iโm going to watch again just one or two scenes. Iโd recommend the show but just the first half? The second one makes so no sense that I donโt know what to say. Itโs such a shame. It is indeed interesting at firstโฆ
This is one of those times when I really am sad about it.
๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ช๐ ๐ฆ ๐๐ ๐ฃ ๐ฃ๐๐๐๐๐๐ <๐
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