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@Taekwangsungjae4ever thats so true. i guess ml in this case is like that also. but this particular case he is actually hired to watch her i think so he might be more of a spy than a stalker at this point (and he kinda have to watch her because there's high chance she is being targetted by killers) so I'm giving him benefit of the doubt as of now. I'll see how he goes from here.

well to be fair, most of the Bba-dao chong chai(not sure if i spelled it right) male characters are stalkers lol.. And it is frequently discussed that they are borderline criminals (but not as often as it should be, they are mostly romanticized in some way)

and that tactic works well sometimes too. That is commonly used tactic in interrogations. To provoke crimials to speak the truth out of spite. Ppl tend to be blunt and careless when they are angry/looked down/ and trying to prove themselves.

He actually LIKES FL, that's for sure I think, so his feelings and confession about it (that he likes her) might be true. But ML's line abt wanting to keep her a side piece is fake one to provoke her- To make her say her real mind(and hidden truth if there is one) out of spite.

i kinda wish he is attorney at this point, much better being an attorney than some kind of a bounty hunter/spy at this point.

that sounds cool. My main reason watching this show is watching ML/FL relationship dynamics!

Oh lol glad to know I'm not the only one thinking it's draggy haha. I know it is thriller and I love the dynamics, but I also want more relationship-related scenes too!

oh nice to know. tysm for the info. Imma check it out!

I just finished ep 19 and their was none. (other that ML's forced kiss) Is there more ep in youku??

I feel like the pace is bit slow (not really much done for ep 20/38) but that could be me adjusted to K-drama pace. Can't wait for later episodes! I want more of ML/FL relationship scenes. Nothing much to go on as of now (except that forced kiss scene which was out of the blue, not that I'm complaining, I liked that scene) I want to see more development! I can see ML was attracted to her from the first sight.

is season 2 of this airing or what? this ended on a strange note for there to be only season 1.

oh. would it be november anyway then??

that is actually fresh for me too! I dont hate her being detached or their dynamic with ml at all. I find it refreshing and I'm not that into smiling 24/7 candy fl characters either. Other than fl's unreasonably stuffy (imo) behaviors, I love thier dynamic too. I wanna see ML take strong lead and change their relationship to lovers. I'm super intrigued to see how it pans out.

although it is interesting to see other peoples' opinions, I think I took enough input to form my opinion abt this so please understand I'm done with this comment. I can't/don't want to take more alerts or discuss this comment further. If you have opinions abt this that differs from my point of view, feel free to write it, just not as reply to my comment.

I was confused abt that too. Imo I think ML wrote that letter not real GJ because it somewhat looks like he had real feelings towards FL. There were scenes of him looking at fl's old pics and yearn for the past.

Now I find it more frustrating that she was able to tell them part of her late husband's debt is their burden but didnt tell them anything abt her current situation. I agree they are pretty f--cked up family with super conservative point of view to begin with (most of asian in-laws with sons are like that, it's super harsh where I live too) and I get they might not believe even if FL told them the truth. But she should have tried anyway. she had a Lawyer with her, all the evidence, and plenty of opportunity to do so. It was her own decision not to tell them imo, since as you said she could tell them about other things and stand by her opinion. It was her choice to give up that battle and I still think she should've tried, now even more so since from your comment I know she was able to.

well coming from conservative asian culture myself, I understand in-law situation her passive character to certain level but I just don't find her not telling anything abt current situation quite un-wise at best. From many comments now I think she might have autism spectrum.

oh wow, autism spectrum theory could be the way to look at it. I was thinking FL's actions made no sense at all (even considering her underdog, super passive attitude) but didnt consider she might have an autism. that sounds like a real possible theory, though I don't think writers had that in mind. I think it is super likely that if a person like that existed irl would have autism, but I think writers didnt intend that kinda setting 🤔 If it was intentional, that would be in character setting description I guess. But that is totally cool theory, and I really see it.

interesting to see everyones point of view differs and hence creats different outcome. I thought like wtf, she could stand for herself toward her friend but couldn't even tell what was going on to her in-laws? She couldn't even tell them that she was in debt becuase of her late husband, and he was cheating. I wasn't expecting much of her to begin with since she is super passive person, but I thought that is not being passive. She made her decision to not tell anything and bear everything. That seemed super stupid to me because in many cases that results in causing more damage, not only to ones who make that decision, but also to their loved ones. I understand your point of view tho.

I get her being ackward as super introverted person myself, but it feels like she just tries to avoid the situation and consequences. Her trying to run away from the lawsuit, not telling anything about current situation or what her late husband did to his family just seems like a super dumb decision. Being passive I can understand, but it just feels like she wants to escape reality or sth. I guess in later episodes she might change for better, but as of now I stand by my opinion.