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oh! I thought they couldnt handle that speech but they were talking abt that ackward humor part.. that i get it haha

yeah me too! i thought i was only one with such high tolerance for not being second-hand embarrassed, haha

Yeah. I totally get that part. If I was her, I would also not like controlling higher rank general as my husband too. (Which CSS sees LBY as of now.)

Oh i totally get CSS' not liking LBY's actions, and if i were in her shoes, i would too. He looks super controlling character with much higher rank than her, strong/young general, which is opposite of what she was looking for in a husband (which was much more like Luo Yao). I just liked that LBY stood up for her, and I saw a lot of ppl in comments saying that they were second-hand embarrassed for LBY in this scene, hence the comment.

Am I the only one who liked banquet scene? I actually liked LBY making a speech on CSS' account

wow i hate XY thinking CSS choosing LBY as " a mean to go against them". Like wth? am I the only one hate her for thinking like that? She just doesnt think CSS is a person who can maker her own decision, she doesnt think CSS can think or have an opinion, or a feeling. It was exactly same with Luo Yao, XY said CSS doenst know love and etc. I also hate the dad for agreeing with XYY at this point

oh i know. on website its 22 ep for vips here. not sure abt apps tho

thx for the info. I use other sites but this one looks so much better.

oh didnt know app and website had it different. thx for the info

thanks for the info!! Now they have to get me part 2 and i will be pleased af

dramacool or kshow123

oh really? i live in s.korea and its only updated to ep 22 here ;( in wetv site. So I use other sites to watch

I envy you, Chinese viewers. I have to wait until subtitle comes up.. Which would be tomorrow or the day after... I've been studying Mandarin on my own but I'm still not good enough and can only understand simple conversations;(. Also I have that 8282 mind of Korean as I am one, since we can barely wait dramas that airs almost simultaneously as being filmed ;(... I don't think I can wait for part 2 to be announced... ahhh...

hugs to you too, all the way from s,Korea. I wish you are always happy and well.

I love her character too! Female characters in tv/book/movies etc. are usually one of two. 1.playful, lively, good willed but dumb and naive 2.cunning, smart but evil I'm so sick of those one of two female characters, those good girl/bad girl stuff. I see little bit of everything in shangshang, she is smart but good willed, nice but not too soft, strong willed but not evil. She is a very detailed female character which is a rare find. Also she is very lovely, definitely a person I want around me.

So true. I think at this XY has no logic, she just wants her daughter to make no choice in whatever matter whatsoever and just follow her lead. Which is borderline gas lighting and pretty much breaking a person. She just doesn't believe/approve of her daughter making any kind of opinion/choice. I know/agree LBY's household is complicated and has several issues that a mother can not apporve of, but XY will find fault at whoever CSS chooses, even if it's not LY or LBY. She's not caring mother, just a control freak.

i have that kind of mother too and i'm glad that we can bond here. I, to this day, also have a very lil self esteem and always doubt myself. I hope you are doing well and really wish you well. Us and CSS have to believe in ourselves and move on. I also have decided to not have kids, so I don't pass on that misfortune. I'm afraid I will do the same to my children if I ever have one. My grandfather was the worst and my mother hated him for it, yet she turned out just like XY. I'm breaking that cycle of horrid parenthood in my generation.

guys did 25, 26 air today? Cant seem to find it

i've started watching, and preview was super great. first few eps felt like "ashes of love" in many ways. By far I'm not super into it, but like "love like galaxy", first 10 eps could be slow paced so I'm powering through it. Judging by the preview it might get way more interesting when they start to actually have emotions for each other.

actually people DO get how abusive CSS's mother is, and NOT trying to make excuse for it. they just don't agree with your opinion. Just like me. I DO think that CSS's mother is BAD and some mothers ARE bad. It's not that I don't agree with you on that.(maybe my comment was not straight enough?) I was not trying to correct your opinion, sorry if i got that signal crossed, i just agreed(kinda) with your theory and though we were kinda on the same page but i guess not. Again, I really DO agree with your BAD MOM theory, I just thought she was more of a crazy control freak other than being jealous. And you need to kinda chill, all comments you leave are extremely harsh. Like, this is tv show comment section and ppl tend to discuss, no need to bite even if you dont agree with them. Most of them use English as their 2nd or 3rd language too(just like me), so sometimes it sounds worse than what they actually mean.