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From what I watched, Chae Ha initiated the kiss first. Even though he was drunk, he made the first move. Tae Seon then responded by saying, "You started this," and kissed him back. They were both undressing each other, so to me, it was clear that Chae Ha understood what was happening despite being intoxicated.
Later, Tae Seon told him to turn over before penetrating him from behind. In my opinion, if Chae Ha had said no or tried to stop him and Tae Seon continued anyway, then I would consider that SA. But that's not in this case so for me it is not SA.
So next time carefully before saying its SA, it is not!
From what I watched, Chae Ha initiated the kiss first. Even though he was drunk, he made the first move. Tae Seon then responded by saying, "You started this," and kissed him back. They were both undressing each other, so to me, it was clear that Chae Ha understood what was happening despite being intoxicated.
Later, Tae Seon told him to turn over before penetrating him from behind. In my opinion, if Chae Ha had said no or tried to stop him and Tae Seon continued anyway, then I would consider that SA. But that's not in this case so for me it is not SA.
What gets on my nerves is that it’s perfectly fine to disagree with me, I genuinely don’t mind that. But calling my comment “bs” and claiming all BL fans like porn is rude, disrespectful, and an unfair generalisation.
Nobody is gaslighting you. You keep throwing around words without understanding what they mean. And claiming BL fans just want to watch “porn” is ignorant and offensive.
A drama depicting sexual assault or other disturbing themes is not pornography. Fiction is allowed to explore dark subjects without endorsing them. That has been true for decades not just in Hollywood but in K-dramas, and countless other forms of storytelling.
If you don’t like this drama, stop watching it. But don’t make up nonsense about everyone else just because they don’t share your opinion.
Tae Seon hates Chae Ha because Chae Ha's father murdered his own father. That hatred has consumed him for years, so this is such an unusual way to confront someone you consider your enemy. Normally, you'd expect violence, harsh words, or for him to abuse his authority as Chae Ha's boss. Instead, the confrontation became a forced kiss, making the scene feel emotionally volatile and deeply unsettling.
I was genuinely shocked because I'd never seen anything quite like it before. It didn't come across as a romantic kiss at all. It felt like a hate kiss, driven by anger, grief, obsession, and years of unresolved emotions.
Personally, the scene made perfect sense to me. I never saw it as Tae Seon suddenly developing romantic feelings. I saw it as a kiss born purely out of hatred. He hated Chae Ha so much that his emotions became twisted and explosive. He kissed him out of anger, bit his lip until he was bleeding, and made the moment as painful and humiliating as possible. That's exactly why the scene was so powerful and unforgettable.
There are no SA in episode 4, even if there is, this is fiction. It is not real life.
Are we going to cancel every TV show or movie that depicts rape, violence, or other morally disturbing themes? If so, we can say goodbye to half of modern storytelling.
Game of Thrones, The Handmaid’s Tale, 13 Reasons Why, Outlander, Law & Order: SVU, Monster, Kill Bill, Gone Girl, and The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo all explore horrific acts. Yet they have been praised, won awards, and are widely watched.
Watching dark or controversial content does not mean you support it. No one watches a movie about a serial killer and thinks, “I want to do that.”
Fiction allows us to confront uncomfortable truths. It explores trauma, redemption, and the darkest parts of humanity, not to glorify them, but to show their consequences and help us understand their impact. That is the purpose of storytelling. It creates tension, challenges our empathy, and holds up a mirror to society’s ugliest realities.
If we only watched shows with perfect morals and flawless characters, we would lose Dexter, Joker, The Godfather, Scarface, and entire genres of storytelling.
So no, watching a rape scene does not mean we support rape or that we are normalising it. Watching a story with an abuser does not mean we support abuse either.
It simply means we understand the difference between fiction and reality, something some people in these comments seem unable to grasp.
Millions of people watch Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, and The Handmaid’s Tale, all of which include murder, rape, assault, and other horrific acts. Does that mean those viewers support those crimes? Of course not.
If you cannot separate storytelling from real life, that is your issue, not the show’s.
Are we going to cancel every show or movie that depicts RAPE, violence, or morally disturbing themes? If so, say goodbye to half of modern storytelling.
Game of Thrones, The Handmaid’s Tale, 13 Reasons Why, Outlander, Law & Order: SVU,, Monster, Kill Bill, Gone Girl, The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, all explore horrific acts. Yet they are praised, awarded, and widely consumed.
Watching dark, controversial content does not mean you support it.
No one watches a serial killer movie and thinks, “Wow, I wanna do that.”
Fiction is where we confront uncomfortable truths.
We explore trauma, redemption, and the darkest parts of humanity, not to glorify them, but to understand their impact. That’s the point of storytelling: it creates tension, challenges empathy, and holds up a mirror to society’s ugliest sides.
If we only watched shows with perfect morals and unflawed characters, we’d lose Breaking Bad, Dexter, Joker, The Godfather, Scarface, entire genres would disappear.
So NO, watching a rape scene NOT mean we support RAPE or normalizing these kind of scenes. Or watching an Abusers doesn’t mean we support it
It means we understand the difference between fiction and reality, something some people in these comments clearly can’t grasp.
Millions watch Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, or The Handmaid’s Tale, full of murder, RAPE, assault, and worse.
Do they all “support” those acts? Of course not.
If you can’t separate storytelling from real life, that’s a you problem, not this show problem.
He then covered Chae Ha's eyes as he kissed him, his emotions spilling over in every touch. Then he said, "Don't look at me. I don't want to see you." 💔 He then entered Chae Ha from behind, it was raw and intense, I was left absolutely speechless.😭🖤
I will miss Lost to You can’t believe final episode tomorrow
The irony is priceless. MDL made an error on a series called Fix the Error. Maybe someone needs to fix the error 😂
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLGhgHW5zMDP9SFi2t7RbI-ItEK57Q5-o2
Seriously, JaeMin, you’re handsome, adorable, and such a genuinely kind guy. Stop chasing Khun. You deserve someone who treats you so much better.
The way Tae Seon grabbed Chae Ha by the neck, forced a kiss on him, bit his lip until it bled, and then went in for a second kiss completely caught me off guard.
Tae Seon hates Chae Ha because Chae Ha's father murdered his own father, but this is such an unusual way to confront someone you see as your enemy. Normally, you'd expect violence, harsh words, or for him to abuse his authority as Chae Ha's boss. Instead, the confrontation became a forced kiss, making the scene feel emotionally volatile and deeply unsettling.
I was genuinely shocked because I'd never seen anything quite like it before. It didn't come across as a romantic kiss at all. It felt like a hate kiss, driven by anger, grief, obsession, and years of unresolved emotions. The intensity between them was off the charts, and I'm completely invested in seeing where their relationship goes from here.
Also next week another Korean BL - Love and Sin will be airing
So many BLs atm