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It’s confirmed on GagaOOLala, do you think I just made up the mins and released date just for fun lol 😂

It’s a proper BL with kissing and NC

Here’s the trailer

https://youtu.be/3Iwesx2aIas?si=sbwH-5PAgv5XzfUj

The best advice I can give you is this: don’t let grades control your happiness. Just aim to pass and move forward. Growing up in an Asian family, my parents always expected nothing less than 90% and it felt like my worth was tied to numbers on a page.
I have a bachelor’s and two master’s degrees, filled with straight As, but at the end of the day, none of that truly mattered. What really counts is how well you carry yourself in an interview, how you connect with others, and how you adapt in your workplace. Nobody asks for your GPA once you step into the real world.
If I could give my younger self one piece of advice, it would be this: live more. Enjoy your life, watch more BL, laugh, and chase the things that make you happy. Don’t let the weight of grades steal your youth. Trust me, those numbers fade, but the memories you make will stay with you forever.

Episode 1 is 34 minutes and episode 2 is 30 minutes, both coming out on 25th August.
Then episode 3 is 36 minutes and episode 4 is 42 minutes, both dropping on 26th August.

Episode 1 is 34 minutes and episode 2 is 30 minutes, both coming out on 25th August.
Then episode 3 is 36 minutes and episode 4 is 42 minutes, both dropping on 26th August.

I just found more info! Kill to Love is now showing as “coming soon” on GagaOOLala. It’s listed under Singapore even though it’s actually a Chinese series, probably to protect the show.

The best part is the runtime.

Episode 1 is 34 minutes and episode 2 is 30 minutes, both coming out on 25th August.

Then episode 3 is 36 minutes and episode 4 is 42 minutes, both dropping on 26th August.

Thank god these aren’t short 10-15-minute episodes. And just like Revenged Love, we’re getting four full episodes in the very first week. I’m so excited!

I just found more info! Kill to Love is now showing as “coming soon” on GagaOOLala. It’s listed under Singapore even though it’s actually a Chinese series, probably to protect the show.

The best part is the runtime.

Episode 1 is 34 minutes and episode 2 is 30 minutes, both coming out on 25th August.

Then episode 3 is 36 minutes and episode 4 is 42 minutes, both dropping on 26th August.

Thank god these aren’t short 15-minute episodes. And just like Revenged Love, we’re getting four full episodes in the very first week. I’m so excited!

What is wrong with Dech’s father?
Each time he appears, my heart sinks.
He belittles Rati in the classroom,
humiliating him with every word.
He scorns Rati’s mother for being a kitchen maid,
as if honest work were a sin.
And now, he goes further still,
ordering men to strike Mek,
stripping him of his dignity,
leaving him jobless and broken,
all because he is poor,
all because he dared to stand beside his son.

Yet even through this cruelty, love flickers.
Mek loves Dech. Dech loves Mek.
Two hearts that beat in silence,
but cannot meet in the open.
Mek cannot accept Dech’s open heart,
for the world has made him believe
that he is worthless,
that his love is forbidden,
that a father’s pride is stronger than their bond.
What could be more tragic?

And then the bridge…
that bridge destroyed me.
It was no longer just wood and rope.
It was the space between them,
a fragile line stretched across despair.
Dech reached forward with trembling hope,
Mek stepped back with silent pain.
He pushed away the only light he had,
not because he did not love,
but because he was taught he did not deserve love.
In that moment,
the river carried away more than reflections.
It carried away their hope,
their chance,
their tomorrow.

Dech’s father is the cruelest villain of all.
His arrogance poisons everything it touches.
And I pray, I beg, that karma finds him,
because people like him
turn love into tragedy,
and watching it unfold
brings tears I cannot hold back.

Seriously, what is wrong with Dech’s dad? Watching him just breaks me. First he kept belittling Rati in the classroom, and it was so humiliating and cruel. Then he turned his hate on Rati’s own mother, attacking her just because she worked as a kitchen maid, as if honest work is something to be ashamed of.

And now he has gone even further, ordering a group of people to beat up Mek and then firing him, leaving him jobless, all because he is poor and dared to talk to his son.

What hurts even more is that Mek clearly has feelings for Dech, and Dech feels the same. They both like each other deeply, but Mek cannot bring himself to accept Dech’s open heart. How can he, when he has been made to feel poor and worthless, knowing that Dech’s father will never accept someone like him? Their love is pure, but it is also trapped, crushed under the weight of pride and cruelty. This love is so tragic.

And then the bridge scene… that shattered me. It wasn’t just two boys standing on opposite sides, it was a love suspended in the middle, unable to move forward and unable to go back. The bridge became a symbol of everything between them, Dech reaching out with all his heart, Mek holding back with all his pain. He pushes Dech away, not because he doesn’t love him, but because the world has convinced him that he doesn’t deserve to be loved. That moment felt like watching hope fall into the water and drift away.

To me, Dech’s dad is the worst villain in this whole show. The kind of cruelty he shows makes my chest ache. I honestly hope karma comes for him, because people like him can destroy lives with nothing more than their arrogance and hate. Watching this makes me want to cry. I need to write a poem about this, or else my heart will ache for them

Episode 5 left me furious and heartbroken, and I have three things I can’t ignore.

First if my younger brother was raped in my own house, I don’t care if it was my best friend or a complete stranger, I would call the police immediately. Drunk or not, friend or not, nothing excuses that. You don’t fight him yourself, you let the law deal with it. This isn’t some superhero movie where you take revenge with your fists, this is real life, and it’s your own brother who has just been through something traumatic.

Second I cannot forgive that girl for exposing the truth like that. Peer pressure is no excuse. You don’t stand in front of everyone and rip someone’s soul apart. You pull Mild aside, you tell him in private, you give him dignity. Imagine the humiliation of learning you were raped while your friends watch in shock. That’s not just painful, that’s soul-crushing. The shame, the humiliation, the unbearable silence that would follow you forever.

Third the pieces don’t add up. Mild wasn’t drunk, he was asleep, and the flashback doesn’t sit right with me. If Knight really did it, he would have been fully aware. And Knight himself kept repeating, “let me explain, let me explain.” That can’t just be brushed aside. I’m not excusing him, but something feels off. Maybe it wasn’t him, maybe there’s more. All I know is the truth isn’t as simple as it looks, and we need to brace ourselves for what comes next.

I remember watching this old Hong Kong drama years ago where something similar happened. The stepdad drugged and raped his stepson and then hid under the bed. Later, the boy’s drunk friend accidentally fell onto the bed, and everyone assumed he was the one who did it. He even got sentenced to jail. It wasn’t until much later, after a DNA test, that the truth came out and they discovered it was actually the stepdad all along. That’s why I feel like we shouldn’t judge too quickly here, let’s wait for the next episodes, because the story might not be as straightforward as it seems.

I hate this tag, “short length series.” Are they referring to 12 episodes or the minutes in each episode? Hopefully each episode is at least 30 minutes long.

When Revenged Love ended, it felt like my Mondays and Tuesdays lost their light. The days just dragged on, empty and miserable. 💔 But now, knowing Kill to Love will take over next week, it feels like I’m finally getting my heartbeat back. Mondays and Tuesdays are alive again.

Our very first historical Chinese martial arts BL without censorship.

https://kisskh.at/788946-shan-he-yong-ji

When Revenged Love ended, it felt like my Mondays and Tuesdays lost their light. The days just dragged on, empty and miserable. 💔 But now, knowing Kill to Love will take over next week, it feels like I’m finally getting my heartbeat back. Mondays and Tuesdays are alive again.

Our very first historical Chinese martial arts BL without censorship.

Thank you, your comment made my day 🥳

Your toy metaphor is overcomplicating something that is actually very simple. Tags are not random “waste of letters.” They are industry-standard markers used across MDL, iQIYI, Viki, GagaOOLala and so on, so viewers know what they’re walking into. Sure, sometimes a tag is misapplied, but when multiple official platforms all list psychological manipulation and possessive male lead, that is not an accident. It is intentional, and it sets an expectation.

If you have been in the BL community long enough, you know tags are one of the most reliable indicators of themes. For example:
If a series is tagged childhood friends, you expect a bond that began in childhood.
If it is tagged contract relationship, you expect some form of forced deal.
If it is tagged omegaverse, you expect alpha and omega dynamics.

So no, tags are not perfect, but they are absolutely not meaningless either. They exist to frame the story, and in ABO Desire they delivered exactly what was advertised.

And let’s be clear, the whole discussion here started because people were complaining about Hua Yong’s manipulative and possessive traits. That is the contradiction I called out. You even admitted you were waiting for him to drop the boring submissive part, which only proves my point further. You expected him to become manipulative and possessive, because that is exactly what the tags and the source material promised.

At the end of the day, yes, warnings are there but not everyone accepts them. Think about flying on an airline. The flight attendants demonstrate how to use the safety jacket and oxygen mask, but not everyone listens or pays attention. Then when an accident happens later, people complain they did not know what to do. Tags work the same way. They are there to prepare you, but if you choose to ignore them, you cannot blame the show when those exact elements appear.

My horror movie line was an example, not me saying every single horror has blood. If that bothers you, fine, let’s swap it: it’s like ordering spicy food and then whining that it’s hot. Same logic, same point.

And your second point? Honestly, it makes no sense.

Saying “not every psychological manipulation, possessive male lead is manipulative or possessive” is straight-up contradictory. Why even tag it that way then?

Tags like psychological manipulation and possessive male lead aren’t pretty stickers, they’re warnings of exactly what to expect.

Think about it:
If you see “vampire” you expect vampires.
If you see “time travel” you expect time travel.
If you see “love triangle” you expect three people caught in romance.

So if ABO Desire is literally tagged psychological manipulation and possessive male lead, then Hua Yong showing those traits isn’t a surprise, it’s exactly what was advertised. Complaining about that is like ignoring the label on the box and then blaming the contents.

Now I’m curious, can you tell me what novels Erha and SVSSS stand for? I kinda want to check them out now.

ABO Desire is adapted directly from Desire by Nong Jian, and that fact is plastered everywhere from the opening credits to the official synopsis, and the tags are everywhere IMDb, MDL, iQIYI, Viki, GagaOOLala:

OMEGAVERSE, PSYCHOLOGICAL MANIPULATION, POSSESSIVE MALE LEAD.

These tags are not merely decorative; they define the narrative. To ignore them and then object to Hua Yong’s characterization is contradictory.

By logic, it’s like walking into a horror movie and then complaining it has blood and jump scares. You knew the genre before you bought the ticket.

@Froehlein I completely see where you’re coming from, and I actually agree with a lot of what you said about controversial characters sparking important discussions. I don’t have time to reply to each of your points, but regarding number 1

Yes, you don’t need to read the novel first, but this isn’t some random marketing trick where people had no idea what they were stepping into. The series is adapted directly from Desire by Nong Jian, and that fact is displayed everywhere, from the opening credits to the official synopsis. Not just on MDL, but also on IMDb and the actual streaming platforms like iQIYI, Viki, and GagaOOLala, the tags are crystal clear: OMEGAVERSE, PSYCHOLOGICAL MANIPULATION, POSSESSIVE MALE LEAD. These tags are not merely decorative; they define the narrative. To ignore them and then object to Hua Yong’s characterization is contradictory.

By logic, it’s like walking into a horror movie and then complaining it has blood and jump scares. You knew the genre before you bought the ticket.

So many people on MDL and across social media are complaining about Hua Yong’s character in ABO Desire. Some call him toxic and manipulative, and many are even saying they’ll drop the series after episode 8. But this reaction overlooks what makes the story compelling in the first place. Hua Yong isn’t meant to be a simple, safe “green flag” partner. His complexity, his flaws, and even his darker traits are what drive the tension and keep the narrative alive. Without that edge, ABO Desire would just be another ordinary romance, stripped of the very conflict that makes it worth watching.

But here’s the thing:
1. They’re following the novel.
This is not some random change, Hua Yong’s behavior is written this way in the source material. This is the entire essence of the story. If you don’t like the novel or the story, it’s a bit contradictory to start watching the series.

2. If he were a perfect green flag, it would just be another bland romance.
We already have plenty of soft, healthy, slice-of-life romances. What makes Hua Yong interesting is that he’s flawed, complicated, and unpredictable. That’s where the tension and drama come from.

3. His role is designed to engage us.
He’s not meant to be a simple, safe character. He’s supposed to challenge the relationship dynamic, make us feel conflicted, and raise the stakes. If every story only gave us the “perfect boyfriend,” we’d all be bored in three episodes.

4. Reminder: this is fiction.
We’re talking about ABOs, pheromones, supernatural hierarchies, none of this is real. The toxic, manipulative traits are narrative tools, not moral lessons to copy in real life.

5. If we start calling out every toxic and manipulative character, the list would never end.
Not just in BL, but everywhere.
In Western dramas, we have Walter White (Breaking Bad), Joe Goldberg (You), Cersei and Littlefinger (Game of Thrones). All manipulative, toxic, but brilliant to watch.
Even in BL, characters like JaeMin (Secrets Relationships) or Vegas (KinnPorsche) are manipulative, yet fans loved the complexity.

Hua Yong is written the same way, as an enigma, as a dangerous yet magnetic figure. That’s the whole point of this story, not to give us comfort but to make us question, react, and feel. Just because viewers watch a character who is toxic and manipulative doesn’t mean we should support it. No one watches a serial killer drama and says, “hey, I want to do that.” These dramas are meant to challenge us, not guide us.

Fiction is where we confront uncomfortable truths.
We explore trauma, redemption, and the darkest parts of humanity, not to glorify them, but to understand their impact. That’s the point of storytelling: it creates tension, challenges empathy, and holds up a mirror to society’s ugliest sides.

Fiction isn’t meant to give us perfect men, it’s meant to give us complex ones. Hua Yong embodies that complexity, and that’s what makes this story worth watching